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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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torreli · 26/01/2025 16:09

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:41

I find the men more abhorrent and wonder how she can do it. However I also note she’s making close to a million a month from it. Personally I couldn’t, even for that sort of money, however I don’t have the sort of visceral reaction some do. I just find myself bemused and wonder what caused her to be ok with this,

I also disagree with language like calling her a tart. We can express our views without resorting to this sort of abuse.

Companies house would disagree

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 15:57

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

I don't think it's misogyny to call something out that a woman is choosing to do

MermaidEyes · 26/01/2025 15:53

@FoxtonFoxton totally agree with everything said there

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 15:19

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:14

That'll be all the jizz 🤦‍♀️🙄👍🤮😂

Ha ha ha ha ha. That's hilarious 😂 😃

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:14

HornyHornersPinger · 26/01/2025 13:19

And why is she always so shiny? 🤣

That'll be all the jizz 🤦‍♀️🙄👍🤮😂

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:09

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:52

A dictionary could have helped you, but a prositute engages in sex with a partner for payment. She does not do this. The men do not pay her.

i understand you wish to be derogatory, but it’s better to be correct.

She may not be getting paid by those "men" but she's generating revenue so is getting paid,just in a different way. She's a prostitute. Just a modern day version 🤮

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 15:04

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

That’s understandable. I struggle equally with the ‘Let’s not look beyond the end of our noses’ brigade, especially when they have an apparent aversion to critical thinking and see a woman laying back to be used by a queue of men as a ‘crazy thing’ rather than internalised trauma that needs psychological intervention.

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 15:03

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

There's absolutely nothing empowering about Bonnie Blue 🤮🙄🤦‍♀️

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:52

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 14:51

Sick. Distraught. Worried to death. Angry

And deeply embarrassed.

Exactly

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 14:51

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:41

For all the people saying her body, her choice, its empowering blah, blah, blah....how would you feel if it was your daughter?

Sick. Distraught. Worried to death. Angry

And deeply embarrassed.

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:41

For all the people saying her body, her choice, its empowering blah, blah, blah....how would you feel if it was your daughter?

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 14:38

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 13:11

I can’t bare the ‘She needs help, she’s got MH issues due to some underlying trauma, I feel sorry her’ brigade!

No, you do realise that not everyone that does crazy things has underlying issues or trauma?!?!

Shock horror you can have a perfectly reasonable childhood and still behave like an idiot!

Some people are so motivated by money (and attention) and will literally do anything for it. Most people would have a line and her barr is below most women’s.

She’s vile imo and what she’s done is disgusting and I don’t think many women would do that. So save your pity for those deserving of it, like the homeless, those with disabilities those who live in dire poverty and don’t have access to fresh water, not some attention seeking wannabe.

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Well said. I absolutely, completely agree with this. She's just a bloody big headed attention seeker who loves money more than anything else. I'll also bet she has to take cocaine to do what she does, hence why she looks older than she is.

She's just utterly vile, as are the men who shag her.

As an aside, I was listening to a group of guys talking about her in the gym, and all of them said "they'd have a go!" However, when I directly ask any males I know, they all said they're repulsed by her and wouldn't touch her (or Lily Phillips) with a barge pole. Makes you wonder....

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 14:30

Wintersgirl · 26/01/2025 14:13

The thing is even if she woke up one morning filled with self revulsion and wanted to get married and have a family, it's too late because any man now will always think she's fair game, she'll never get away from her past...

And sadly, there lies the problem. It's the men. None of this would be an issue if there were not thousands of men wanting to degrade women and seeing women as holes to use.
Part of her interviews that I find interesting is that she thinks (genuinely) that men are lining up to fuck her because she's attractive. She's kidding herself. If you give away sex for free, men will fuck anything and anyone. Fat, thin, ugly, old, young. The person advertising this stunt could have been anyone and the line would have been as long.
We sadly seem to be going backwards rather than forwards with regards to equality and women's safety. You only have watch social media for a small time to see the way women are viewed by men.
These stunts don't help. While I don't give a shit what she does with her own fanny, let's not kid ourselves and say it's about empowerment. It's not. It's about money and making as much of it as possible. Men thinking she actually enjoys herself during this stuff are delusional -it's all an act. Everything she says is preplanned -rage bait and pretending she finds it all really horny adds to her audience and her participants for the next stunt.
I'm not going to blame her for the way men treat women. It was shit before and will continue to be shit unfortunately. It certainly hasn't helped though, and with her "success" I've no doubt she will spawn a whole load more like herself who see the money and the designer handbags and the big cars and decide its worth it. Very sad.

lovemetomybones · 26/01/2025 14:16

Life for women can be extremely dangerous. He stunts have just amplified the danger, objectifying women as sexual objects. Objects which can be treated however men wish. Some of the comments those men made about her in the queue was disgusting.

I think if anything she has sadly demonstrated how 1000 men and all the men who will watch her video hate women, or that women are to be used and abused.

This has not made women safer in the 21st century.

SlapTheMelon · 26/01/2025 14:13

Cookiecrumblepie · 26/01/2025 11:02

I don't really care about her either way. It's just another form of adult entertainment. Some people want her services, fine, if you don't just don't watch/engage?

Surely there's a limit still. Are we going to normalise people shagging sheep too? She Is a slag. Say it like it is. I don't want to empower women to be just a hole to use. I'd rather empower them to be doctors, engineers, teachers, etc.

Wintersgirl · 26/01/2025 14:13

The thing is even if she woke up one morning filled with self revulsion and wanted to get married and have a family, it's too late because any man now will always think she's fair game, she'll never get away from her past...

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 14:05

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 12:30

It's not backward, it's an appropriate and visceral reaction to her behaviour. She clearly needs psychological help to safeguard her wellbeing but she needs to choose to engage with that, but while she and her team continue to flood the internet with clickbait people will continue to voice their true feelings about her.

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Unfortunately mental health isn’t that simple and psychiatry is a developing and relatively new area of modern medicine with many pitfalls, not to mention the mental health system.

I think you don’t want to accept that in many ways she is a victim & clearly making decisions from a place of being vulnerable. It might seem she’s a profiteering boss babe but the set industry and the people in it lure and prey on workers and women like this. Many of these women do have a history of sex abuse.

I think this desire to see BB as a villain and an evil sex worker is just your inner misogynist wanting to blame and cast her as a “bad whore”.

people & life are complex and she probably doesn’t appreciate the impact on her psychologically or understand why her past traumas have lead her to this.
She seems numb and detached

chattyness · 26/01/2025 14:01

I think I they are all bloody disgusting, her for encouraging this sleazy behaviour in the first instance and all sides for taking part in this filth. It's not ok

Ihopeithinkiknow · 26/01/2025 13:57

Lol at business genius. Must have took some thinking to come up with that business idea as it's totally unique isn't it?
Have you seen her on tiktok lol she addresses women as Karen's as if she is the only forward thinking female and the only woman in the world willing to sleep with a shit load of men and every single wife on the planet just aren't giving their husbands what they deserve so in steps bonnie the hero to relieve them lol she also uses the word bonk too which is fucking weird to me lol, nobody says that anymore and when they did (back in the day) it was mainly people who were uncomfortable with using explicit words.
She always looks so proud of herself but I reckon any woman could lay there and be poked by a line of dicks but there's a reason that most women don't lol
She isn't doing anything spectacular that involves talent so I honestly don't know why she even thinks she is being controversial

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 13:50

Overtheatlantic · 26/01/2025 13:02

She’s beyond a tart. She’s done something that has a pathological element. The human body might might accept it but the mind, the spirit? No way.

You’re so, so close to getting it.

She’s either a sociopath (around 1% of the population for women) or she’s a deeply traumatised little girl, in the body of a woman. Now I don’t have the stats for that, but I have a sneaking suspicion it’s considerably higher than 1%. So what do you think is most likely?

Choccyscofffy · 26/01/2025 13:48

I think we live in a society and we should try and be good role models for girls.

We are all interconnected and people like this need to consider how they’re impacting young minds.

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 13:48

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 13:39

Yes they pay her - she doesn't do OF for free. And she's earned money for having sex with all those men

a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.

It doesn't say WHO pays her. Just that it's done for money

I think you’re arguing semantics, but honestly if it makes you happy then that’s fine, I can’t say I care what you wish to call her, I was simply pointing out the error.

Yoheresthestory · 26/01/2025 13:44

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:36

Yep 💯

You're pretty disgusting in your own way too with what you said.

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 13:39

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:52

A dictionary could have helped you, but a prositute engages in sex with a partner for payment. She does not do this. The men do not pay her.

i understand you wish to be derogatory, but it’s better to be correct.

Yes they pay her - she doesn't do OF for free. And she's earned money for having sex with all those men

a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.

It doesn't say WHO pays her. Just that it's done for money

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