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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 18:11

hairalert · 26/01/2025 17:59

One day 'Bonnie Blue' will realise not everything can be bought and some things cause a debt on the spirit forever.

If I was her I’d be worried about my pelvic floor not my spirit

sixtyandfabulousofcourse · 26/01/2025 18:02

No wonder so many of us women have to put up with men who have a shit sense of sex

hairalert · 26/01/2025 17:59

One day 'Bonnie Blue' will realise not everything can be bought and some things cause a debt on the spirit forever.

hairalert · 26/01/2025 17:57

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

Agree with the tart being not nice. But stop focussing on policing people's language and look at the real issue.

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/01/2025 17:56

Charlottetharlot · Today 11:13

She'll be laughing all the way to the bank...she's done nothing illegal. Nothing wrong with sex either, they all used protection...don't see an issue

Money doesn’t mean very much when you’re older, not the flavour of the month any more and no-one decent wants anything to do with you because of your very public past.

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:56

Ffutv · 26/01/2025 11:30

The thing I’m most disgusted by is her saying thanks to the barely legal?! Like urhh basically translates as almost children

& like dads & their sons together 😩

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:55

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

Whore, bike, slag is that ok?

Dappy777 · 26/01/2025 17:54

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

Empowering women!! She isn't empowering women at all. Female poets, female artists, female professors, female athletes and female scientists empower women, not this cunning, manipulative, publicity-seeking idiot. Artists like Maggie Hambling inspire me, not porn stars. She isn't out to empower women. She's out to make money and get her face on TV. Imagine a shy, sensitive girl in her late teens who sees this woman interviewed in a magazine. She's going to think "oh, maybe I'm too prudish, maybe if I have sex with random strangers I'll feel more empowered." I very much doubt she WILL feel more empowered. On the contrary, she's likely to feel empty and humiliated and used.

It's the same with Jordan. It staggers me when I see threads about her. Who on earth is interested in someone like that? She's ignorant, vulgar and boring. Compare an interview with Jordan to an interview with Maggie Hambling. Hambling is cool, funny and eloquent. That's the sort of woman I want my daughter to look up to. I want her to be inspired by great artists and intellectuals and scientists and businesswomen.

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 26/01/2025 17:52

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 17:48

She just OOZES class doesn't she? 🤢🤮🤦‍♀️

She oozes something... class wasn't the first thing that sprung to mind 🤔

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:52

Danceswithweasels · 26/01/2025 11:27

Her family are involved in her business, her mum is her manager I believe.

They are just as disgusting tbh

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:50

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:50

That’s horrific and you should be ashamed. Plus, not that it is relevant, but the men wore condoms.

rhere is no need for this sort of abuse.

If they are finishing on her face, or arse, they won’t be wearing a condom (her words in her interview)

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 17:50

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 17:48

She just OOZES class doesn't she? 🤢🤮🤦‍♀️

I expect she’s oozing something and it’s not class 😂😂

ChristmasPudd1990 · 26/01/2025 17:48

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:47

I watched the interview as I didn’t believe her, but she said they can finish on her face, or arse 😩 disgusting behaviour

She just OOZES class doesn't she? 🤢🤮🤦‍♀️

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:48

Bonsaitree7 · 26/01/2025 12:17

"She's a tart" and "much more different". You sound like such a smart cookie! I haven't heard anybody use the word "tart" since the 90's!

Edited

It’s probably the norm in this day & age!

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:47

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:45

I have watched her interview, she comes across as someone who is extremely confident, no MH, or groomed- so yes, a tart in my view

I watched the interview as I didn’t believe her, but she said they can finish on her face, or arse 😩 disgusting behaviour

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 17:46

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:45

I have watched her interview, she comes across as someone who is extremely confident, no MH, or groomed- so yes, a tart in my view

It’s a bit of a ‘boss babe’ vibe isn’t it. 10-15 years ago she would have been selling juice plus. Now it’s just Jizz plus.

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:45

Blueeyedmale · 26/01/2025 17:12

I think she's a tart comment is a bit harsh she's clearly being influenced but someone or more then someone and this puts her in a vulnerable position,the men taking advantage of her vulnerability well they should be on some kind of register

Maybe I just try to see the good in people but hearing other women call other women tarts beacuse that person might have mental health issues or being coerced into this behaviour I don't think that's being a tart personally and feel quite sad for them.

My anger would be directed at the men clearly taking advantage

I have watched her interview, she comes across as someone who is extremely confident, no MH, or groomed- so yes, a tart in my view

ZiggyZowie · 26/01/2025 17:43

Wouldnt her foof. be awfully sore. ??

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 17:42

Scammersarescum · 26/01/2025 15:06

Look at you with your misogynistic language.

Absolutely- young impressionable girls will be looking up to her 😩

Blueeyedmale · 26/01/2025 17:12

I think she's a tart comment is a bit harsh she's clearly being influenced but someone or more then someone and this puts her in a vulnerable position,the men taking advantage of her vulnerability well they should be on some kind of register

Maybe I just try to see the good in people but hearing other women call other women tarts beacuse that person might have mental health issues or being coerced into this behaviour I don't think that's being a tart personally and feel quite sad for them.

My anger would be directed at the men clearly taking advantage

Lavenderfarmcottage · 26/01/2025 17:04

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 12:50

What a load of bleeding heart rubbish. I can't believe this is someone's genuine reaction to the woman's behaviour. She is a tart/slag/ prostitute/ sex worker.
Yes she can make her own life choices but her actions are absolutely nothing to be proud of or to be inspired by or empowered by, no example to anyone at all.
It's normal to be sickened by a woman ( or man) behaving like this, and perfectly normal to judge. It's hardly narrow minded to think that a woman having sex on camera with over a thousand men is something that shouldn't be admired.

Ohhh this thread angers me so much. The three groups left that it is okay to hate -
fat people, sex workers & the mentally ill.

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:39

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 16:29

I'd be interested to know which words you would use to describe a woman who behaves like her. Tart and slag perfectly describe a woman who has willingly had sex with over a thousand men on camera. Which "non misogynistic" words would describe that type of woman?
On MN it seems that many people are over keen on labelling any criticism of women as misogynistic, and keen to spout all the women empowering women crap. Women make up half the population and as a woman it doesn't mean that I'm automatically going to ally myself with any particular one of them.
Of course as a class women have been and are underrepresented and discriminated against. But that doesn't mean that all of us are equal or should be supported. I'm equally likely to dislike any particular woman, or disapprove of her attitude or behaviour, as I am of a man.

I and others don’t feel they are acceptable and we can’t complain when men use them if we do the same.

and I won’t and do not use abusive terms to describe her or any other woman. I will discuss the behaviour. But I feel no need to sink so low as hurl mysogynistic abuse.

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 26/01/2025 16:29

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:16

No it’s not, but the poster was reffering to the language being used. We should be better than that. Resorting to mysogynistic name calling.

I'd be interested to know which words you would use to describe a woman who behaves like her. Tart and slag perfectly describe a woman who has willingly had sex with over a thousand men on camera. Which "non misogynistic" words would describe that type of woman?
On MN it seems that many people are over keen on labelling any criticism of women as misogynistic, and keen to spout all the women empowering women crap. Women make up half the population and as a woman it doesn't mean that I'm automatically going to ally myself with any particular one of them.
Of course as a class women have been and are underrepresented and discriminated against. But that doesn't mean that all of us are equal or should be supported. I'm equally likely to dislike any particular woman, or disapprove of her attitude or behaviour, as I am of a man.

Ihateboris · 26/01/2025 16:28

torreli · 26/01/2025 16:09

Companies house would disagree

Yes, Companies House isn't showing anywhere near that figure.

ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 16:16

Nanny0gg · 26/01/2025 15:57

I don't think it's misogyny to call something out that a woman is choosing to do

No it’s not, but the poster was reffering to the language being used. We should be better than that. Resorting to mysogynistic name calling.

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