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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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XWKD · 28/01/2025 09:29

I haven't read anything about this woman except here. To me the most disturbing thing is that her family is part of the whole thing -if it's true.

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:28

Yogaatsunrise · 28/01/2025 09:11

^ this a million %

Of course they are going to be talking about the woman (that’s what she wants).

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:25

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

its way worse, only her & thousand odd (if true) of men 😩

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:20

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:19

Wrong post

For the Madonna thread

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Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:18

LalaPaloosa2024 · 27/01/2025 20:55

Her parents do her Only Fans accounts and handle her money. It takes a certain kind of parent to raise a child like this.

Yes it does. sick ones- truly F-up!

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:16

Childminder60 · 27/01/2025 18:41

Look at it a different way ; she is getting paid for her gift. I could have never done this as physically my body couldn't do it and mentally it would repulse me. We are all made differently and she is meant to be on a million a month using her talent.

Would you even want to?

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:14

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

Good god, hardly! Least nasty word I could think of! She is a tart, a sad one at that!

Yogaatsunrise · 28/01/2025 09:11

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

^ this a million %

berightorbehappy · 28/01/2025 09:10

One woman makes a bad decision . 1000+ men make a bad decision…mmm seems about the right ratio ? And everyone is still talking about the woman . She’s foolish but there’s no way that in this day and age any woman should be calling another woman a “tart” that’s weaponised word men use .

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 09:09

HallieM93 · 27/01/2025 23:21

It’s probably complex about yourself not being able to open up sexually

Says more about you HallieM93 tbh, if you think this is normal behaviour. A lot of women on here probably have young daughters & sons, who think this is ok-imagine them having look up to this sad, pathetic individual, for sexual guidance 😩

Butterfly292828 · 28/01/2025 08:58

Sceptical123 · 28/01/2025 08:06

Hear hear.

Women like this are the reason a growing number of men and boys see women outside of their family and perhaps partners as sexual OBJECTS - it shows women not only willingly accepting this role but celebrating it.

Absolutely 💯 this! This BB woman isn’t bad, she is just such a sad person really. I can guarantee it will come back to her bite on the arse, when she is a little older, maybe struggling to have kids because she’s picked up some STI, & really when her looks have long gone, what decent bloke is going to want her. She will look back in her older age & think, why the F did I do that.
I know personally knew someone that only slept with a handful of guys due to having bi-polar, when their high moods turned into a deep, dark depression, they couldn’t believe that they could have done that & ended up taking their own life, due to the fact they felt they had made an arse of themselves. 😩

Welshwhales · 28/01/2025 08:46

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2025 04:52

You sound deranged.

Imagine feeling low and part of that is because you've read a story about someone you've never met, who has slept with people you will probably never meet. You don't have to agree with her morals, but this has zero affect on your life, unless you caught your husband there?!?

Also wishing them to go to hell? Bit much isn't it? Is what she's done that bad that they deserve to be tortured for all eternity in a fire pit? I'd reserve something like that for rapists, murderers and pedos personally.

You and OP are unreasonable for letting this get so under your skin. It's rage bait for people easily raged. Case and point.

I have found this depressing too, to think society has been allowed to get this low whilst Bonnie Blue is raking in millions . This seriously needs to be stopped on the grounds of obscenity.

Sceptical123 · 28/01/2025 08:06

DaisyChain505 · 26/01/2025 10:50

It’s so “annoying” as you say because it’s literally confirming and supporting the on going narrative that men own and control women and can do as they like with their bodies. We are mere objects to them to use as they wish to fulfill their sexual needs.

It is desensitising violence against women and making it seem perfectly normal for men to line up and use a woman’s body over and over and over again for their pleasure.

Hear hear.

Women like this are the reason a growing number of men and boys see women outside of their family and perhaps partners as sexual OBJECTS - it shows women not only willingly accepting this role but celebrating it.

TreacleTarcleSparkle · 28/01/2025 06:52

OP- why do you let it bother you? You don’t have to pay a second of your attention on this girl. She is choosing to do this, the guys partaking are choosing and even her mother is choosing to be part of BB’s ‘business’.

No one is forcing her. She’s eloquent and sharp minded enough in her interviews so she knows exactly what she’s letting herself in for.

She definitely (IMVHO) has some type of personality disorder /detachment and even a tiny bit of an ‘emotional chip’ almost missing BUT she’s using her ‘quirks’ and her strong personality and demeanour as well as her youth and ‘beauty’ (she’s more attractive , super sure of herself , very well groomed .. blow dries /natural make up ) she knows she is very unlikely going to make millions as a ‘popstar’ 😆 or in her past recruitment job so she’s selling literally herself her SOUL ..as money is her god and while she’s not hurting you op then just wish her well and ignore her press stories

Hufflemuff · 28/01/2025 04:52

lavendarwillow · 26/01/2025 10:53

I've found myself feeling very low this past week, factor of various things but this Bonnie Blue story has played a part. She's disgusting, her family are disgusting and the scum that visit her. There's a special place in hell for all of them. It could be fake but it's still absolutely vile. It's very handmaiden, women are nothing but objects to be used and abused.

You sound deranged.

Imagine feeling low and part of that is because you've read a story about someone you've never met, who has slept with people you will probably never meet. You don't have to agree with her morals, but this has zero affect on your life, unless you caught your husband there?!?

Also wishing them to go to hell? Bit much isn't it? Is what she's done that bad that they deserve to be tortured for all eternity in a fire pit? I'd reserve something like that for rapists, murderers and pedos personally.

You and OP are unreasonable for letting this get so under your skin. It's rage bait for people easily raged. Case and point.

Darlingx · 28/01/2025 04:39

I watched a podcast on a women who was trafficked her country was at war she survived just but knows she won’t live a full life span her body is holding so much trauma. It was the soldiers without boots that trafficked her that was the difference that indicated the bad soldiers they wore trainers. The next level would have been organ harvesting once her body was no longer sexually applicable luckily she managed to escape with a very strong message of helping others. Every time she escaped and thought she was safe she would get trafficked again yet she faced her community and abductors. When all resources crumble rape becomes the weapon so I find it so sad that this woman Bonnie Blue is encouraged by her family when people with no home, food ,security and free will wouldn’t be selling their own daughters

Butterfly292828 · 27/01/2025 23:29

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Butterfly292828 · 27/01/2025 23:26

Shityshitybangbang · 27/01/2025 20:18

I find the whole publicity stunt vulgar. For her and all those vile men. I’m no prude either. I just hope to god she dosent bring any children into the world as the poor child will be ripped to pieces at school. Sex with her must be like putting a sausage up the Clyde tunnel. Eeewwww

I am certainly no prude either, but have to agree with you 100% that the poor kids will be bullied for sure

HallieM93 · 27/01/2025 23:21

Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

It’s probably complex about yourself not being able to open up sexually

Yogaatsunrise · 27/01/2025 21:15

It’s very sad.

Badgerandfox227 · 27/01/2025 21:03

I feel that she desperately needs help with her mental health. Her behaviour isn’t on the fringes of normal and is likely to be something she physically and mentally regrets

Coolasfeck · 27/01/2025 20:57

Reetpetitenot · 26/01/2025 13:22

She's empowering no-one. There is so much nonsense talked about 'empowering'. Much of what is described as empowering women is doing no such thing.

When I see a video of Trump, Musk, Theil etc writhing on the floor naked, bums aloft, covered in cum with a line of blokes with balaclavas on and trousers around their ankles then I’ll believe this behaviour is empowering.

Funny how in reality those in power are never OF ‘models’ or rapping about their fanny on a music video.

LalaPaloosa2024 · 27/01/2025 20:55

Horses7 · 27/01/2025 19:22

It’s so bad on so many levels and is almost unbelievable. YUK! Her parents must be sooooo proud!!

Her parents do her Only Fans accounts and handle her money. It takes a certain kind of parent to raise a child like this.

Goldie456 · 27/01/2025 20:54

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

In what way, shape or form should we be empowering this woman? She’s an absolute fucking disgrace to women!