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Bonnie blue

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Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 10:32

I don’t know why I’m so bothered about it but is anyone else disgusted by it, I’m more disgusted by the men who actively went there to have sex with her. I have no idea why it’s annoyed me so much but everytime I see something about it it gets my back up!

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ThatCoralShark · 26/01/2025 11:41

I find the men more abhorrent and wonder how she can do it. However I also note she’s making close to a million a month from it. Personally I couldn’t, even for that sort of money, however I don’t have the sort of visceral reaction some do. I just find myself bemused and wonder what caused her to be ok with this,

I also disagree with language like calling her a tart. We can express our views without resorting to this sort of abuse.

ToothHurtyAppointment · 26/01/2025 11:39

Charlottetharlot · 26/01/2025 11:19

They did, I think your getting mixed up with the Lily Phillips woman

Nope, that other poster is correct, they didn’t have to wear protection, or be tested for STIs or STDs beforehand. They only had to show ID to prove they’re over 18. She said this. Same as when she tried to do the schoolies thing in Australia before she was kicked out. We take biological hazards seriously in this country (LOL).

She, and those disgusting men who dipped their wicks are biological health hazards. That room afterwards looked disgusting - from the photos of the after math. The smell of that room would have been something else. Gag.

She went into a fast food shop and begged a teenager to have sex with her. He was 18, and she was begging. Video is online. He refused. If a man sexually harassed an 18 year old fast food worker in the workplace, he’d be in the shit. She’s a predator.

Is she seriously only 25?
I don’t like commenting on other people’s looks (proceeds to do just that)…but she’s not attractive, she has a really bad reputation, yet there’s still men who queued to have about twenty seconds of sex with her? They’re the lowest of the low.

That is if this did actually even happen. Lots of speculation that it was all a publicity stunt and nowhere near 1000 men there, instead just a load of other only fans male sex workers…

Also lots of speculation that the only reason the media are pushing this woman so much is because firstly it’s increased their engagement because everyone is so outraged, but also to normalise gang bangs and gang rape culture.

Who knows? No idea what to think, I’m just grossed out by it all and feel dirty just knowing of the existence of these people. Yuk.

And don’t even get me started on the men that pay to watch this shit.

Holdonforsummer · 26/01/2025 11:38

I keep thinking about her poor vagina. The cystitis! The thrush! The chafing!

Mummyoflittledragon · 26/01/2025 11:37

allyjay · 26/01/2025 11:34

I reckon it's her publicist/manager who keeps starting all these endless threads about her tbh

Interesting observation. So many threads about the same thing.

username299 · 26/01/2025 11:36

I'm tired of seeing threads on her. It's all just publicity for her sex work.

Zebedee999 · 26/01/2025 11:35

Cookiecrumblepie · 26/01/2025 11:02

I don't really care about her either way. It's just another form of adult entertainment. Some people want her services, fine, if you don't just don't watch/engage?

Precisely. I'd not want to be involved in anything like this but as an adult doing legal stuff it's up to her/them. There are plenty of people doing illegal stuff that get a free pass on MN (shop lifters, drug users etc).

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 11:34

allyjay · 26/01/2025 11:34

I reckon it's her publicist/manager who keeps starting all these endless threads about her tbh

Of course it is! It generates traffic to people googling the woman.

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 11:34

Can we move away from the language of sex work being empowering, it isn't, it never has been and it never will be.

allyjay · 26/01/2025 11:34

I reckon it's her publicist/manager who keeps starting all these endless threads about her tbh

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 26/01/2025 11:33

baileys6904 · 26/01/2025 10:41

I'm sorry, I couldnt get past the 'she's a tart'.

I though that language about women went out in the 90s.

So much for women empowering women...

There’s nothing empowering for women in what she does.

Thisisthemomentforchange · 26/01/2025 11:31

Poppyfun1 · 26/01/2025 11:06

Because I never saw the others!!! Why are u commenting then if you’ve saw them all!!!!!!!

I'm not going to be reading this thread because really what else is there left to say about them?
I'm fed up of the head space women are giving this woman, and the others who have Only Fans accounts, who are making a career out of prostituting themselves.

They rely on publicity and generating media coverage to make money.

So why feed in to their game by giving them what they want?

Ffutv · 26/01/2025 11:30

The thing I’m most disgusted by is her saying thanks to the barely legal?! Like urhh basically translates as almost children

CatsWhiskerz · 26/01/2025 11:30

She either has a clinical condition eg disinhibition syndrome or something that causes the same effects, or she's a sex addict with no shame or self respect,

DonutCorleone · 26/01/2025 11:28

Are you part of her marketing team OP?

CeceliaImrie · 26/01/2025 11:28

Yes it makes me feel physically sick. The images of the men queuing up with their trousers round their ankles is repugnant.

Equating this grotesquery with the empowerment of women is dangerous and stupidity of the highest order.

Danceswithweasels · 26/01/2025 11:27

Butterfly292828 · 26/01/2025 10:35

She’s a tart, her parents must be so proud- imagine when she has to explain to her children what she did for a living-
much more different to women who genuinely have to work the streets to make money to put food on the table to feed the family

Her family are involved in her business, her mum is her manager I believe.

DancingLions · 26/01/2025 11:26

I saw a headline earlier that she's "happy to get HIV" now that is next level fucked up!

Tbh if she only ever fucks up her own life. That's on her. I just hope she never ever has DC. An adult woman who can live with her choices, fine. I may not agree with those choices but it's not my life.

She is grim, the men who have sex with her are just as grim. None of it is ",empowering". It's all about £££

dottydodah · 26/01/2025 11:26

Pinck I thought it was 1000 men ?

TheChippendenSpook · 26/01/2025 11:24

Pinckk · 26/01/2025 10:48

A business genius by shagging 100 men back to back? 🤣

If she's doing it back to back then she's doing it wrong 🫣

Charlottetharlot · 26/01/2025 11:21

27pilates · 26/01/2025 11:16

Having a big bank balance isn't the be all and end all of life but having peace of mind is. A lot of these type of stories end in suicide / drug overdoses. It's not empowering, it's very sad.

Yeah as long as she's sound of mind and mentally strong enough to deal with the media backlash...no reason to believe she isn't at present...time will tell

dottydodah · 26/01/2025 11:21

The article the Mail ran seemed to take a fairly kind view of her , Doing Jigsaws with her family ,and somehow they all seem to be aboard this rather grubby gravy train ! She apparently earns 600k PM. I cant see how this is anything but being a prostitute though.Her husband is divorcing her unsurprisingly!long term if she has children what will they think?.I think she is enjoying the publicity ATM.She and the porn industry are doing women a huge disservice ,

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 11:20

Charlottetharlot · 26/01/2025 11:19

They did, I think your getting mixed up with the Lily Phillips woman

There's an interview with Bonnie saying the first guy went in "raw". She wasn't overly bothered and just said he must have been overexcited and forgot. I mean, he obviously didn't forget.

CatsBeCrazy · 26/01/2025 11:20

It's gross . All of it , the men more than anything, her and the people that think this is empowering.

And you think tart is bad when the men that watch her think of her as a whore etc (sad but true) . Yes extremely empowering to be known as that by dirty entitled men that use your services .

Charlottetharlot · 26/01/2025 11:19

FoxtonFoxton · 26/01/2025 11:14

They actually didn't all use protection worryingly.

They did, I think your getting mixed up with the Lily Phillips woman

Cookiecrumblepie · 26/01/2025 11:18

Adult entertainment has existed since the dawn of time! Ladies of the night etc. Oldest profession in the world This is not new stuff, it's just via a different channel.