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Kemi B just suggested about Southport....

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Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 10:21

...murders.... that the reason these things happen is because people / immigrants are not being helped to integrate in our society and feel alienated. On Laura K show. Dear lord I'm sorry but that's ludicrous ... if I've misunderstood please help me out. Its really angered me !

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TheKeatingFive · 26/01/2025 12:18

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stuckdownahole · 26/01/2025 12:18

I think he was an angry loner to start with who then found a justification for his rage. I understand what Badenoch is saying about individual immigrants remaining connected to their old values because they can now keep in touch via the internet rather than receiving the occasional letter from home, and I think it's an interesting point. I just don't feel it's applicable to this particular case.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:18

I'd like to know more about his early years and the bullying.

We need to do far more to have a zero tolerance on bullying.

username299 · 26/01/2025 12:17

EmmaMaria · 26/01/2025 11:30

I am totally with Kemi for once. It's about time we taught the Welsh better values. It's been a disaster ever since Offas Dyke fell into disrepair.

It all went to pot after Bevan.

infertilitychallenges · 26/01/2025 12:17

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:11

Why don't politicians get proper briefing on this stuff.
The mn threads on this have been incredibly informative.
It was nothing to do with integration and everything to do with his autism and a lack of service that could tackle his issues.
The services where there but each one proved totally ineffective.

ASD was a comorbidity and nothing more. He clearly had separate issues giving him urges to harm and kill.

ExtraOnions · 26/01/2025 12:16

..as I said on the other thread, there are very few services for parents who’s child is violent, due to Autism, and with co~morbid mental health conditions. We only go what we nededed be investing in private treatment, and constant badgering of CAMHS.

My previously violent team is now not violent at all, working part-time, and applying for Apprenticeships. . I fear where we might have been if we did not have the knowledge, resource and contacts, that we have.

When the enquiry is compete, we will see systemic failure

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:15

saraclara · 26/01/2025 12:14

They did. The parents called the police at least six times. And each time the police came out, they did nothing.

How have we failed this spectacularly! I despair and its only getting worse ... a lot of talk by all agencies and government but where's the action. But of course :..lessons will be learnt ... pah !

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Figgygal · 26/01/2025 12:15

Shes a rabble rousing disgrace
Those comments are irrelevant to Southport given AR was a christian was born in UK. If he wasn't integrated it was because of system failings in response to whatever was going on with him.

BourbonsAreOverated · 26/01/2025 12:15

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:09

I can't find much online about him having autism though? If he did he was clearly even more vulnerable and a threat. Integration as he was born here isn't really a key solution (it would have been for his parents ) but then Nadin Z made a valid point that if you are living in this country you need to abide by its values etc. This isn't the drift Kemi was on. But WHY also did his parents not alarm police etc ?? He had to stop his son from going in a taxi to previous school with a knife ! Surely you DO SOMETHING if you see this ?! Baffling

theres occasionally posts on the teenage board where people are struggling with support. Police unable to do much, social services just batting it back.

Gingernaut · 26/01/2025 12:14

For these 'lone wolves', what can be done?

There have been loners, misfits and misanthropes across history

In the last century, they were socially isolated, may have found pen pals in the back of specialist magazines, gone to war and died, been institutionalised or imprisoned/executed after a similar outburst as what happened in Southport

What's happening now, is that these once socially isolated individuals have access to the Internet at a very early age

This allows them access to media which fuels their illnesses/skewed points of view and allows them to find other individuals which reinforce their point of view

Search engine and social media algorithms actually use a 'more of the same as before' programming to show content similar to that searched for in the past

Perhaps there were warning signs in earlier childhood, or perhaps puberty triggered something

His parents, social services, his school and the police did seek help fron the PREVENT team and he was under the purview of local mental health services.

He had no particular ideology (religion, Andrew Tate misogyny, racial influence) and did not fit the 'normal criteria' for a PREVENT referral

The investigation into what happened, who knew what, when and how it got to this stage will take some years

saraclara · 26/01/2025 12:14

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:09

I can't find much online about him having autism though? If he did he was clearly even more vulnerable and a threat. Integration as he was born here isn't really a key solution (it would have been for his parents ) but then Nadin Z made a valid point that if you are living in this country you need to abide by its values etc. This isn't the drift Kemi was on. But WHY also did his parents not alarm police etc ?? He had to stop his son from going in a taxi to previous school with a knife ! Surely you DO SOMETHING if you see this ?! Baffling

They did. The parents called the police at least six times. And each time the police came out, they did nothing.

BourbonsAreOverated · 26/01/2025 12:13

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

there was a referral service for this. For violent children, likely to carry knives and join gangs.
it just disappeared with our 14 years of austerity. He didn’t meet prevents criteria as its terror related and he needed the original service to help the loner incel type

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:11

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:09

I can't find much online about him having autism though? If he did he was clearly even more vulnerable and a threat. Integration as he was born here isn't really a key solution (it would have been for his parents ) but then Nadin Z made a valid point that if you are living in this country you need to abide by its values etc. This isn't the drift Kemi was on. But WHY also did his parents not alarm police etc ?? He had to stop his son from going in a taxi to previous school with a knife ! Surely you DO SOMETHING if you see this ?! Baffling

He was diagnosed with autism years ago. He had an EHCP. He was under CAMHS. His parents repeatedly called the police. There’s no evidence that his parents knew he had a knife during the taxi incident, but even if they did, the police had found Rudakubana carrying a knife and simply returned him to his mother.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:10

@Hotflushesandchilblains I know all these agencies could do with far more funding but he had access to services.

He didn't meet the criteria for prevent and when he did start to look at Al queda stuff his case was "closed". Funding or stupidity?
He did have cahms and he didn't seem to want to engage.
He had a specialist school reaching out to him with police support because he terrified them.
The police saw him with a knife I don't know if the police got involved when he smashed the school boy risk.

I'm not seeing a funding issue I'm seeing a gaping hole of where to put him and what to do.

BourbonsAreOverated · 26/01/2025 12:10

Completely not relevant to Stockport as he was born here.
however, I can see there needing to be a lot more support for children who have witnessed horrific things before finding home in the uk. There’s definitely a lot of support needed there.

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:09

I can't find much online about him having autism though? If he did he was clearly even more vulnerable and a threat. Integration as he was born here isn't really a key solution (it would have been for his parents ) but then Nadin Z made a valid point that if you are living in this country you need to abide by its values etc. This isn't the drift Kemi was on. But WHY also did his parents not alarm police etc ?? He had to stop his son from going in a taxi to previous school with a knife ! Surely you DO SOMETHING if you see this ?! Baffling

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Hotflushesandchilblains · 26/01/2025 12:05

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

Prevent had a definition of terrorism which did not include what this guy was expressing. It was beyond CAMHS (most CAMHS are completely overloaded and in my area, refer people over 16 to adult services which require a higher level of opt in than child services). Outreach is time consuming and expensive - but needs to be done for people like this. Whether it is more funding for existing services like Prevent or CAMHS, or looking at the (ever increasing) gaps between services and putting things in place for those people which would be the Integrated Care Boards responsibility, the simple fact is that all public services are limping along. Try asking your local ICB what their strategy is - they spend huge amounts of public money and are almost completely unaccountable. Increasing number of people are not getting intervention when their and other peoples safety depends on it. As I said, it is always a knee jerk to say people should get fired. It is a lot harder to hold systems to account.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:05

@BoldRed he was obsessed with the Rwanda genocide.
Interestingly neither starmer nor kemi has mentioned the autism aspect/ bullying /isolation.

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:01

She’s a vile opportunist hoping to rise on a wave of far right racism. There is no evidence yet that Rudakubana was in favour of ‘white genocide’. He was an extremely disturbed young man, autistic, bullied at school, isolated, angry, with mental health issues, who had become obsessed with genocides and easily-accessed violent content online. Not unlike the Brianna Ghey killers. Nobody seems to have known what to do with him. Starmer is right we have to look at agencies and expand their roles to deal with this growing threat. I have a horrible feeling that there are thousands of potential Rudakubanas in bedrooms around the country.

Didimum · 26/01/2025 11:52

TheNoonBell · 26/01/2025 11:07

The system is a huge factor in not stopping it.

Multiple interactions with the school and police with no further action. Three referals to Prevent.

Failure after failure and now a focus on anything but those failures.

I said I agreed with the failures. But the failures aren’t the root cause.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:45

@rewilded I thought she was referring to his family though. We don't know or have any evidence to suggest they don't love the UK?
Their other son is fine.
I don't know why or how axel himself was supposed to feel about the UK when he didn't know any difference.
However one does wonder whether autism and bullying helped to shape his future and what in school are we doing about bullying right from reception?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

rewilded · 26/01/2025 11:31

I think she actually said that if the Government can't get a handle on this with so many agencies involved then other strategies need to be looked at. She didn't apologise/make excuses. She said that if a family of asylum seekers were not seeing the UK and it's people as a positive thing then immigration should be tackled.

She also said that more studies should be looked at second generation immigrants and that if several institutions couldn't get a handle on the situation other measures should be considered. She said she would not back away from difficult conversations.

She also said that people hold onto their culture due to access to the internet and it was different to say the 1950s or 1980s and that people were not taking on British culture and values etc.

I thought she made a lot of sense.

Alltheprettyseahorses · 26/01/2025 11:30

PotaytoPotahhto · 26/01/2025 11:16

Ok, let’s blame integration for Southport, even though he was born here and there is nothing to suggest he hated white people, etc.

What’s Kyle Clifford’s excuse?

What about Jon Venebles and Robert Thompson’s reason?

The Southport Killer was clearly extremely mentally disturbed. People like him have existed all throughout time, and on this occasion, immigration and race has nothing to do with it.

The killer was obsessed with ethnic cleansing and has spoken about wanting white genocide.

I think Badenoch is right to a point. There's little or no integration - that's really the responsibility of the immigrant person however and not a UK societal failing as such.

EmmaMaria · 26/01/2025 11:30

I am totally with Kemi for once. It's about time we taught the Welsh better values. It's been a disaster ever since Offas Dyke fell into disrepair.