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Kemi B just suggested about Southport....

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Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 10:21

...murders.... that the reason these things happen is because people / immigrants are not being helped to integrate in our society and feel alienated. On Laura K show. Dear lord I'm sorry but that's ludicrous ... if I've misunderstood please help me out. Its really angered me !

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BoldRed · 26/01/2025 13:29

Porkyporkchop · 26/01/2025 13:29

They talked about this on Laura kunsberg this morning.

Who did? And what did they say?

Porkyporkchop · 26/01/2025 13:29

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:30

Evidence for this claim?

They talked about this on Laura kunsberg this morning.

CiderandPosies · 26/01/2025 13:28

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:11

Why don't politicians get proper briefing on this stuff.
The mn threads on this have been incredibly informative.
It was nothing to do with integration and everything to do with his autism and a lack of service that could tackle his issues.
The services where there but each one proved totally ineffective.

Really.

So anyone who's on the AS is likely to behave like this?
Create Ricin to kill people. Hate people. Plan murders, etc etc.
Follow instructions on social media on how to kill people.

Did you read about what was found in his room?
It can't all be explained by autism.

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 13:27

Let’s stop with the cover-up bollocks. There will be a public inquiry.

LBFseBrom · 26/01/2025 13:24

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 10:21

...murders.... that the reason these things happen is because people / immigrants are not being helped to integrate in our society and feel alienated. On Laura K show. Dear lord I'm sorry but that's ludicrous ... if I've misunderstood please help me out. Its really angered me !

That is absolute bollocks, the boy who committed the crime was not an immigrant and his family was well integrated into their local community, it was a terrible shock to all who knew him and his family.

This woman seems totally out of touch. However, what is new about that when it comes to politicians? If she has been quoted correctly of course, not out of context which we all know happens in the media.

NotinToTintin · 26/01/2025 13:22

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:23

@NotinToTintin and what do you think about the men coming here from difficult backgrounds who also may have sen and proclivity to violence who won't be on any services radar

Well, it’s a separate point to whether or not immigrants are getting “too many” resources isn’t it?

I don’t think there’s enough support for people with mental health conditions or SEN in this country, full stop. Blaming immigrants with mental health problems for that isn’t going to make it any better. They’re also not getting any help.

Austerity was a political decision made by politicians not by immigrants. I work in the public sector and I’m not being over the top when I say that austerity has killed people. Either directly through lack of support for individuals, or indirectly by the impact that lack of support has on people’s networks.

your implicit question is - given the scarcity of our resources, should we allow immigrants into our country? And unfortunately I think the answer to that is that we don’t have much choice. People move countries for global reasons that are beyond our control. No one is coming here for a free ride because - as you rightly point out- there is nothing free for them to get. They are coming here because it’s marginally less awful than the alternative of war/ climate disaster/ slavery.

I think we need to put more resources into supporting everyone. Internationally, I think we need to figure out how to deal with mass immigration to Europe - it is going to keep happening, and we can either 1) accept this reality and develop ways and means to deal with on our terms or 2) pretend it isnt happening and stoke hatred and conflict between people until it becomes violent.

The Southport killer was not an immigrant who had recently arrived from another country. He was a product of the uk education and welfare systems under austerity measures. The riots that happened this summer were not caused by immigrants, either, but by British people and by politicians who would rather incite violence than tackle the situation.

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 13:21

I’m not surprised his dad didn’t call the police that day. What was the point? They’d tried it four times before. There’s no evidence that his dad knew exactly what he was planning or that he had a knife.

cakeorwine · 26/01/2025 13:20

bluebalou · 26/01/2025 13:03

His parents knew what he was capable
Of and rang the police on him numerous times, well his dad did, the police knew of his issues so for me the blame starts here .. why was more not done ?
He had previously looked to book a taxi to a school on the last day of term to do something thing similar , his father rang the police and he was stopped, so much info has been covered up to protect this person why ? Fear of reprisals.
Looking at the facts and what was covered up, what happened in Southport could have been stopped, too many failings by people who could have done more, it's truly shocking.

What was covered up?

What reprisals do you think would have happened if people knew about the police knowledge, the referrals, social services, CAMHS etc

WilfredsPies · 26/01/2025 13:15

She’s a politician. She’ll twist any situation to fit what she wants to say. It’s what they all do, irrespective of party. I don’t think any of them are capable of seeing a tragedy and not twisting it round to suit their narrative.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:06

Blue the dad didn't ring the police on the last attempt to go to the school.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 13:05

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:02

Cloak he had an ehcp, cahms, police, prevent and the last service from the special school for excluded children who were scared of him and gently trying to help him think about the victims of his hero's.

You do not understand how any of these services actually work, clearly.

Gownsandteas · 26/01/2025 13:05

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

Well he didn't really access them. A few referrals here and there and received some minimal input before the case came to a close. It just shows that the mental health services in this county is shit. Plus the threshold to access support is so high. Sad all around.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:05

Add youth justice services for young offenders and more agencies on top.

bluebalou · 26/01/2025 13:03

Noangelbuthavingfun · 26/01/2025 12:09

I can't find much online about him having autism though? If he did he was clearly even more vulnerable and a threat. Integration as he was born here isn't really a key solution (it would have been for his parents ) but then Nadin Z made a valid point that if you are living in this country you need to abide by its values etc. This isn't the drift Kemi was on. But WHY also did his parents not alarm police etc ?? He had to stop his son from going in a taxi to previous school with a knife ! Surely you DO SOMETHING if you see this ?! Baffling

His parents knew what he was capable
Of and rang the police on him numerous times, well his dad did, the police knew of his issues so for me the blame starts here .. why was more not done ?
He had previously looked to book a taxi to a school on the last day of term to do something thing similar , his father rang the police and he was stopped, so much info has been covered up to protect this person why ? Fear of reprisals.
Looking at the facts and what was covered up, what happened in Southport could have been stopped, too many failings by people who could have done more, it's truly shocking.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 13:02

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:00

His mum called 999 when he went missing and they found him when a bus driver called 999 and they found a knife. They told the family to protect their knives.

This is exactly the sort of non-response that results from a chronic lack of funding in the harm prevention services.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:02

Cloak he had an ehcp, cahms, police, prevent and the last service from the special school for excluded children who were scared of him and gently trying to help him think about the victims of his hero's.

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 13:00

His mum called 999 when he went missing and they found him when a bus driver called 999 and they found a knife. They told the family to protect their knives.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 13:00

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

I don't think you understand how the harm prevention services work.

If they are short of money, they have to 'prioritise' - and this is where it gets dangerous for the public.

He did not have access - why are you saying that? What do you even mean by the word 'access'?

maverickfox · 26/01/2025 13:00

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

Maybe if they had more funding they would have had more options for him, more staff and so on. It is clearly a funding issue.

BoldRed · 26/01/2025 12:58

@SunshinDay yes, and he kicked him too. He also had frightening meltdowns when they tried to limit his internet use. I imagine living with him was extremely difficult

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:57

@verycloakanddaggers perhaps you have not read my posts before diving in..
I said I know all agencies need far more funding but he had access to all these agencies didn't he.
He wasn't denied any access because of a lack of funding but it's clear that each agency was utterly useless in this case?

Namechange1892 · 26/01/2025 12:56

Asvoria · 26/01/2025 11:20

I was born here, but I'm not integrated at all because I'm autistic. I live my life on the margins and have absolutely nothing in common with about 95% of the population, plus I can't even communicate effectively with them. I follow all laws though and don't go around murdering people. My children have similar challenges, but they just have to get on with it too.

People who were born here can't access help for themselves or their children. Why do migrants deserve it more than we do? They get enough as far as I can tell. The country now has to cope with thousands of unknowns entering our communities. Who are these people and what are their backgrounds?

I’m not surprised you’re “not integrated” with your community or with 95% of the population when you lack so much empathy. “They get enough as far as I can tell” — are you from a different planet?

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 12:55

I kmow bold I was referring to his dad and mum being scared of him so mentioned the occasion where he called the police when he fought with him and he's damaged the car.

verycloakanddaggers · 26/01/2025 12:55

SunshinDay · 26/01/2025 11:41

@Hotflushesandchilblains.. But he had access to many agencies.
How could more funding helped?
He was referred to prevent but at that time didn't meet their criteria and when he did apparently his case was closed.
he had access to cahms but both prevent and cahm rely on his interaction.. The police saw him with a knife and took him home when they could have arrested him, his parents reported him.
Nothing.

Are you seriously asking 'how could more funding have helped?' Are you unaware of what has happened to services in the UK since 2010?

More funding for all the vital harm prevention services - social work police, youth services, CAMHS etc. - would allow greater intervention at an earlier stage. The general public is at higher risk due to all the cuts.