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That spending circa £25k on a 2nd hand car is not frivolous

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Pipsquiggle · 25/01/2025 21:34

Looking at replacing my 12 year old car which I have had for 10 years. When I bought this car it was about £16k

I am looking at buying another second hand car, probably a Mazda or Volvo so not a super premium brand. Looking around the £25k mark. Hopefully, I'll pick well and keep it for around 10 years.

My DH seems to think I should get a cheaper car around £16k again. He thinks £25k is too much.
Over the last 10 years our income has gone up a lot, we have lots of savings. Financially we are in a good position.

I am not sure why my DH is being stingy over this. He's not really into cars so probably sees it as wasted money.

YABU - listen to your DH he has a point
YANBU - £25k is ok as you can afford it and it's for a mid range car

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LostittoBostik · 26/01/2025 13:43

femininomenon · 25/01/2025 21:42

Used car prices have shot up so much £25k now is probably equivalent to the £16k back then. I bought my car for £8.5k in 2019 ans to buy the same model/age/mileage now it would be £15k minimum (and I would get about £5.5k for part ex on mine!).

That's partly because cars are better made and last longer now

LostittoBostik · 26/01/2025 13:42

It's a lot but if you can afford it the car will last a lot longer than one you pay £15k for 🤷‍♀️

Nannyfannybanny · 26/01/2025 13:26

Must have heated seats and leather steering wheel! My DH was a motor vehicle technician for over 40 years. We got rid of my 16 years old astra diesel estate, actually gave it to my son. November sailed through it's MOT. we have an 8 year old Kia Sportage, 2 dogs, gardening hobby, grandkids. It's brilliant,a lot of friends have gone over to them because they're older, have had hip and knee replacements and it's easy to get up into them.

ThatOchreRobin · 26/01/2025 13:12

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missmollygreen · 26/01/2025 13:10

Im not sure I would class £16k as "stingy"

Calypsocuckoo · 26/01/2025 12:56

zingally · 26/01/2025 12:36

That seems massively expensive for a secondhand car.

I got my secondhand corsa in 2021, 6000 miles on the clock, 2 years old (the previous owner had bought it just before covid, so it hadn't had the chance to do many miles), and I paid just over £12K, which seemed massively expensive!

£25K for a very average brand of car seems a huge amount!

But that’s fine if a small car is what you want, it if you want a larger family car with boot space for luggage, holidays, camping, taking kids to and from uni, and is comfortable for long journeys and a bigger engine which is better if you do longer motorway journeys or towing a caravan or trailer, then you need a different larger car which will of course be more expensive.

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lastminutetrip · 26/01/2025 12:36

I spent £2.5k on a second hand car in 2015. I still have it. It’s twenty years old, it runs fine, is ulez compliant and ok doesn’t look immaculate but cost 9 times less than what you are proposing.

I think 25k on a second hand car is outrageous.

zingally · 26/01/2025 12:36

That seems massively expensive for a secondhand car.

I got my secondhand corsa in 2021, 6000 miles on the clock, 2 years old (the previous owner had bought it just before covid, so it hadn't had the chance to do many miles), and I paid just over £12K, which seemed massively expensive!

£25K for a very average brand of car seems a huge amount!

MrsJoanDanvers · 26/01/2025 12:35

Looking at what you want, have you considered a Lexus/Toyota hybrid? They do SUV shapes, are extremely reliable and provided you service them in house, have a 10 year warranty. I ran my old Toyota Prius into the ground, never spent money on it until it was 11 years old.

Mytholmroyd · 26/01/2025 12:34

I have a 2015 1L Toyota Yaris bought for the kids to drive - 6k second hand in 2019 - as @CarGirlStar said they are brilliant - it passes its test every year and has only broken down once a couple of months ago when the clutch went. Looking at the book price, we could still sell it for almost what we paid for it!

MrsJoanDanvers · 26/01/2025 12:32

I think to get a young car, 25k is about right. We spent 17k a year ago on a 4 year old Lexus. We bought it for the 10 year warranty-so 17k over 6 years plus residual value seems ok. But 5 years ago, I bought a 3 year old Golf estate for 12500. Car prices are shocking now.

Mytholmroyd · 26/01/2025 12:25

Apparently 25k would be an investment if you bought a 20 year old Subaru Impreza according to the Yorkshire Post yesterday!

That spending circa £25k on a 2nd hand car is not frivolous
Bakedpotatoes · 26/01/2025 12:24

mathanxiety · 25/01/2025 21:55

You'll get nothing for £16k. Nothing reliable and rust free at any rate.

Is your H usually such a tightwad and how has he failed to notice the inflation of the past few years?

What? This is ridiculous. Of course you can.

Nevertoocoldforicecream · 26/01/2025 12:14

Pipsquiggle · 26/01/2025 11:56

I am taking on board all comments and advice - thank you.

I have had another chat with DH, his main worry is that if we buy a car for £25k now and run it for 10 years, that when we come to sell /part ex it, it will be worth virtually nothing as most people will be buying electric.

My current vehicle is worth circa £5k so will probably get £3-£4k part ex.

My DH is extremely good with money. He's not tight on most things, however, there are certain purchases he sees no benefit in paying more than he has to - car would fit into this category. Other items he will over pay for as he sees we will get value for it e.g. we spent loads on a new heating system for the house but we get lower bills now.

@CarGirlStar thanks for the advice. What's a cat car?

What I am after is a Mazda CX5 / Volvo XC40 / another brand that size and shape (2DC, 2 adults and a dog). NOT Ford (the fiesta has and still is a nightmare, I wish my DH would get rid of it)

Must have:
heated seats
leather steering wheel
Be reliable
Enough room in the back for 2 teenage DC and a small spaniel sized dog
Cruise control
charging points front and back
air conditioning
automatic

Would like to have:
leather seats
self closing boot

With that wish list I'd also consider the VW equivalents - Tiguan/Touareg, particularly reliable and great on safety.

Bjorkdidit · 26/01/2025 12:14

it will be worth virtually nothing as most people will be buying electric

I disagree and it's likely to be a commodity as there should be good trade in deals to incentivise people to change to electric.

But in any case, there will be many many people unable to afford or unable to justify the cost of electric cars so there will still be a market for well maintained 10-15 YO petrol cars, unless you think the majority of the population is going to become well off enough to buy a new car in that timescale?

JaneIves · 26/01/2025 12:11

@Pipsquiggle
I've just spent 23k on an 18month old Skoda Kamiq (SUV crossover type)
It's the Monte Carlo edition, heated seats, large infotainment screen, parking sensors and cameras. 1.5 DSG. 10k miles.
Electric tailgates are optional extras on some, there was one that was 26k with one, newer with less miles but a bit over our budget.

Absolutely love the car, very happy with it!

ThatOchreRobin · 26/01/2025 12:07

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KenAdams · 26/01/2025 12:04

I bought a Mazda 3 second hand in 2021/22 for £19k. Like you, I'll keep it until it dies. So £25k sounds about the equivalent now. Go for it.

RosesAndHellebores · 26/01/2025 12:01

PermanentTemporary · 25/01/2025 22:01

I would expect to discuss a purchase this size with my partner. I guess the question for me is, have you looked at what you could get for 16k, or 18k? What is the extra nine grand buying you? I spent 13k on a second hand car a year ago and am very happy with it. But absolutely if you have the money, in the end it's your call.

Interesting because I wouldn’t.

Pipsquiggle · 26/01/2025 11:56

I am taking on board all comments and advice - thank you.

I have had another chat with DH, his main worry is that if we buy a car for £25k now and run it for 10 years, that when we come to sell /part ex it, it will be worth virtually nothing as most people will be buying electric.

My current vehicle is worth circa £5k so will probably get £3-£4k part ex.

My DH is extremely good with money. He's not tight on most things, however, there are certain purchases he sees no benefit in paying more than he has to - car would fit into this category. Other items he will over pay for as he sees we will get value for it e.g. we spent loads on a new heating system for the house but we get lower bills now.

@CarGirlStar thanks for the advice. What's a cat car?

What I am after is a Mazda CX5 / Volvo XC40 / another brand that size and shape (2DC, 2 adults and a dog). NOT Ford (the fiesta has and still is a nightmare, I wish my DH would get rid of it)

Must have:
heated seats
leather steering wheel
Be reliable
Enough room in the back for 2 teenage DC and a small spaniel sized dog
Cruise control
charging points front and back
air conditioning
automatic

Would like to have:
leather seats
self closing boot

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Shade17 · 26/01/2025 08:59

It is DVSA trying to justify their existence as they are now a private company.

No, they’re not.

ShirkingFromHome95 · 26/01/2025 02:26

Just for perspective, I paid £4.5k for a 13 plate Passat from my mate that owns a garage last year. I only bought it as a runaround as it was costing me £25 a day to run from Brum to Derby in my tuned pickup truck.

It had a little over 100k on the clock (120k now) and the interior is absolutely mint, looks like it could be a couple of years old. After a machine polish and some polymer sealant the paintwork looks great, no dings etc.

I've put a £150 private plate on it and you'd now mistake it for a newish car if you weren't familiar with the models. It's by no means a prestige car but it looks and drives great and if cared for will likely reach 200k.

I can see why people like prestige cars (I've had a fair few German saloons and hot hatches) but you can absolutely get a decent car pretty cheap. I'm obv lucky having a mate that owns a garage but I'd easily be able to find a decent and presentable car for £10k. If you're not mechanically minded you can get a pretty comprehensive mechanics check for £60 where they go and check it at the dealers.

ARealitycheck · 26/01/2025 02:12

CarGirlStar · 25/01/2025 23:34

Car dealer here - I work for myself buying and selling second hand cars. (Name changed as I usually post about other stuff and don’t want to be outed)

i don’t know if £25k in and of itself is too expensive for your personal circumstances but what i will say is it’s not an unreasonable budget for what you want. But I can give you some car advice that might help.

However, scrap the Mazda idea because you’ll have problems.

Volvo xc40 is a lovely car that is reliable but Volvo is basically a premium brand nowadays meaning they are quite pricey.

For a budget-friendly, super reliable option please look at the Mitsubishi outlander. It has everything you wish for, is so reliable, affordable and has an economical hybrid engine. I’ve seen some with almost 200,000 miles on the clock and they still run amazingly. You may well get a low mileage, 20 plate one for 18/19k£

My favourite for your spec and budget is the Rav4 by Toyota. I love Toyotas. I literally bought one off a bloke today - a 2012 Yaris which still zips around as good as gold.

other bits of advice

  • HPI check a car you want to buy - best £8 you’ll spend. Never buy a Cat car.
  • there’s an app called “total car check”. Download it, put the reg and mileage in and it’ll bring up full MOT history and also other details about the car.
  • ask for invoices of MOT advisories being done
  • never buy anything that has a “corrosion” on an MOT at any point. It’s not worth the agro.
  • Ask for a hybrid health check on any hybrid car you buy. FWIW, Mitsubishi and Toyotas always come back clean as a whistle.

hope that helps and you manage to get something good.

you’re right though. Cars are expensive now. I gave up a corporate job to work in cars because of how much it’s boomed.

Some excellent points. The only thing I will say, just so people are not getting the wrong idea. The latest MOT regulations require the tester to state even surface corrosion. Now obviously on a three year old car it shouldn't be an issue.

But for those in the older end of the market, Take the corrosion advisory with a pinch of salt. It really doesn't mean the car is about to split in half. It is DVSA trying to justify their existence as they are now a private company.

ARealitycheck · 26/01/2025 02:03

May09Bump · 25/01/2025 23:38

I don't think it's silly, but what I would say is choose the car on mileage and number of owners, rather than year. And we always buy manufacturer approved and use the guarantee for any tweaks needed, and there are always a few when buying a used car. Get a Volvo out of the two you mentioned. We buy BMW as we've never had a problem with them. Older X5's are quite good value.

I too deal in cars. You have a damn good budget OP. £16k will still buy you something nice, £25k obviously a lot more. I have always been a supporter of used vehicles rather than new. I'd suggest something three year old. Toyota seem to have the hybrid system working well. Although to be fair I'm still wary of the technology of electric/hybrid.

Do NOT buy an X5 or any of the Landrover Jaguar crap, unreliable, over complicated and expensive to maintain. A number can't even get insured in some areas.

My choice would be hyundai/kia with FSH. You will get a lot of car for your budget.

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