Will start by saying things aren't great in my marriage, mainly due to my husband not lifting a finger to help with anything in the house or with our 3 children, and when I ask he does it begrundgingly. When I raise this he usually gets cross and I end up apologising for upsetting things! I have started to resent him for this, although not sure he realises this.
So today its welsh valentine day, he's left a card and bunch of flowers for me and says he's arranged to take me out this evening, thing is one of our kids is having a tooth out today, so when I replied by saying lets see how he is first, he got cross with me and said we won't bother, he's now not speaking to me.
So who is BU, him for having a strop because I wanted to make sure our child was ok before making arrangements and leaving her with someone else or am I being ungrateful?