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AIBu to think "Traitors" is horrible?

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KnopkaPixie · 24/01/2025 19:26

I do not live in the UK, have no access to BBC media but my mum seems to be quite caught up in it. Apparently it's the grand final tonight.

I've watched the trailer on youtube but it just seems horrible. The information I've got from my mum is a bit garbled but wasn't there a woman vicar on it?

I don't want to sound like, "Outraged of Tumbridge Wells" but...

My mum was yakking on on about lying in a coffin, talking dolls, tarot cards...

I thought it was more like Taskmaster.

It all seems a bit rum to me. It's like, "Eyes Wide Shut" meets "Squid Game."

AIBU "It's just a bit of fun, stop clutching your pearls."
AINBU. "It’s horrible and I get mixed up between Davina McCall and Claudia Winkleman."

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thenightsky · 25/01/2025 23:03

TheaBrandt · 25/01/2025 18:30

The other thing I like is that people’s looks are quite irrelevant. I really like that. It’s what you’re like that matters. Old / young / conventionally good looking and less so. If you’re a good sport and sing a song backwards you’re in.

Yes! Good point. Normal people, not wax faced wannabees like on MAFS.

Duvet18 · 25/01/2025 21:22

I feel weird as I hate it. I watched a few episodes of season 1 and just couldn’t get into it. It seemed stupidly over-dramatic and I hated the fact it was about lying and deceiving, even as a game. I’m neurodivergent and also have trauma around being manipulated and lied to, so maybe that’s it. I just couldn’t enjoy it. But I haven’t met anyone else who feels the same way, so I must be a real outlier.

Beeinalily · 25/01/2025 21:13

Years ago when "South Park" started my son was telling me about it and I thought it sounded horrendous! A little boy dying in a different way each episode and the others shouting "They've killed Kenny"? Then I watched it and it was, well not much good, but not horrible or scary. My point being, you can't judge from the description. Having said that, those dolls...

TheaBrandt · 25/01/2025 18:30

The other thing I like is that people’s looks are quite irrelevant. I really like that. It’s what you’re like that matters. Old / young / conventionally good looking and less so. If you’re a good sport and sing a song backwards you’re in.

sanityisamyth · 25/01/2025 17:24

Allswellthatendswelll · 24/01/2025 19:28

😂 maybe just watch it.

It's basically a slightly camp, extended parlour game. I don't like reality TV as a rule but I love it. The people on it seem, for the most part, nice as well.

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This. I love The Traitors. I usually hate reality TV but there's something about it.

TheaBrandt · 25/01/2025 17:11

I like that Claudia flies the flag for 50 year old women! And everyone respects her likes yet is slightly scared of her. Goals - as my teens would say.!

CharityShopChic · 25/01/2025 11:40

Claudia and her understated, deadpan one liners are what make The Traitors IMO.

Agree. I don't enjoy the US version with "reality stars" and Alan Cumming hamming it up nearly so much, even though the setting, game and tasks are just the same.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 25/01/2025 11:31

Also I vote to banish whoever it was that mentioned Davina McCall on this thread. Nothing against her personally and her "zany" ott-ness works fine on The Masked Singer but Claudia and her understated, deadpan one liners are what make The Traitors IMO.

outofmexico · 25/01/2025 11:00

What a funny thread. Are you on a wind-up OP?

I've really enjoyed it. Claudia is an icon. I love the whole setting - the castle is stunning and all the panoramic shots of the countryside. Very atmospheric! The whole production is key to the drama and overall appeal, I think, though I am surprised it's sunny weather so often (not my experience whenever I've been to Scotland). Anyway, I hope the castle is a hotel or something - we want to stay there. If not, I want to do some version of a murder-mystery party of my own now - any ideas for a venue?

There is no occult OP - it's just the BBC fgs. The players all take part in good humour. It's the one show I can watch with all my teens and we all love it. Really good fun and I wish there were more shows like it. My daughter has signed me up!

Just watch it yourself OP and be done with it - there are three seasons in fact.

Sacredhandbag · 25/01/2025 10:52

Re - the Anglican priest thing.

I was enthusiastically discussing The Traitors in church the other day with 7 or 8 church-goers, the church warden and the Priest. We all love it and no one, including our priest, thinks there's anything at all wrong with Lisa being on it.

It's a GAME. The rules of the GAME are to lie and decieve. You are not ACTUALLY lying to people, they know full well that lying is a part of it and they are all up for it. They want to play. Every one of them would have taken on the traitor role if picked.

It's like saying actors are lying. Bloody ridiculous.

Oioisavaloy27 · 25/01/2025 10:43

SprinkleOfSunak · 25/01/2025 07:48

I think it’s a complete load of crap and so I choose not to watch it.

Why you on a thread about it then? That doesn't make sense.

CharityShopChic · 25/01/2025 10:33

Also, on a film set, they can make it look very sunny with massive lights even when it's very dull.

CharityShopChic · 25/01/2025 10:32

Looking at the trees it seemed it was filmed April/May rather than the height of summer. And May was OK-ish, better than July and August. I would imagine that all the overhead drone shots of the castle and the cars arriving/leaving are filmed in a single day when it is nice weather.

The task they did with the chess board was filmed on a very wet day, Claudia had a brolly and they were all soaked.

Whatafustercluck · 25/01/2025 10:23

Phthia · 25/01/2025 10:19

Blazing sun in Scotland in what was a lousy summer? I'm not sure you were watching the same series I was.

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Tbf the sun was what I noticed, so much so that i commented on it to dh. I think Scotland had sun in early summer until the jet stream moved.

Anyway, what a finale! Though personally I thought the series 2 finale just pipped it.

Phthia · 25/01/2025 10:19

Ratri · 25/01/2025 01:15

Are you French, OP? It’s basically an extended version the parlour game Loup-Garou, but with a cash prize and presented by a woman with very glossy hair and some excellent jumpers. No supernatural dimension whatsoever, and the few stabs at Scottish Baronial Gothic (which are pretty heavily ironic anyway) were foiled this season by blazing sun most days.

Blazing sun in Scotland in what was a lousy summer? I'm not sure you were watching the same series I was.

occultelements · 25/01/2025 10:19

I might start a thread about wildly inaccurate things I imagine could be horrible about TV shows I've never watched:

The explicit sex scenes in Mrs Brown's Boys.
The glorification of gang violence in Gavin & Stacey.
The 'Hunger Games' style fight to decide who wins in Love Island.

Ratri · 25/01/2025 10:07

PeppyGreenFinch · 25/01/2025 08:25

Oh my sweet summer child 😂

Well, I think everyone I know here who used to live in the UK has, down the years, made every possible experiment with different types of VPN, to no avail. I gather some have worked in the past, but the BBC iPlayer seems very well protected. It’s BBC 4 I miss!

Bumblebeestiltskin · 25/01/2025 10:06

KnopkaPixie · 25/01/2025 00:27

I'm going off an tangent now but perhaps it is good for me - I have never played a board game in my life. Or a card game. I never went to Brownies, I have no idea what any of you are talking about with all these Werewolf or Cluedo or Wink Murder.

It just never came up.

Please stop talking 😂

Smallsalt · 25/01/2025 10:06

Phthia · 25/01/2025 00:40

I seem to have missed the bit in the Bible where Jesus said "Thou shalt not have dolls playing nursery rhyme recordings backwards".

The backwards talking dolls were doing nursery rhymes which the competitors had to try to sing down the phone to other players, who also had to sing it whilst running to a recording device to sing what they heard. What they sung was then played forward, to see if it resembled the nursery rhyme and they could identify it.
No occult messages. No devil worshiping.
Just folk with a generally poor ear for music and bad singers, singing to other bad singers with a poor ear for music. Not sinister. Not demonic. Just funny because it was a bit ridiculous and they were bad at itand it was quite difficult.

Smallsalt · 25/01/2025 09:58

KnopkaPixie · 25/01/2025 00:27

I'm going off an tangent now but perhaps it is good for me - I have never played a board game in my life. Or a card game. I never went to Brownies, I have no idea what any of you are talking about with all these Werewolf or Cluedo or Wink Murder.

It just never came up.

Yet here you are commenting at length about something you have no clue about. Absolutely cuckoo.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 25/01/2025 09:54

PeppyGreenFinch · 25/01/2025 08:25

Oh my sweet summer child 😂

Well without a vpn you can’t so it’s not as easy as just turn go to iPlayer on your iPad

Smallsalt · 25/01/2025 09:52

KnopkaPixie · 24/01/2025 19:36

I know it's an extended parlour game and a bit of a scare at bedtime but:

1.) I'm not paying to watch it from France especially as I'll have to watch the complete progression from start to finish.
2.) I did Ouija boards as a kid and all that kind of stuff freaks me out to this day.

Nobody is asking you to pay to watch it from France. Just suggesting that perhaps you shouldnt start a post about the moral horrors of a TV program YOU HAVEN'T SEEN.
Also, no ouija board so you can lower your pearls.
Oh and it isn't remotely scary. It's actually a bit silly.
Hope that helps.

Ratri · 25/01/2025 09:44

KnopkaPixie · 25/01/2025 01:18

I'm beginning to think that I must be a Martian.

You’re just someone who got carried away on a tide of outrage based on a total misunderstanding of a popular tv programme you’ve never seen.

As a pp said, it is ‘wholesome family entertainment’. It’s one of the few things that gets a big audience share that has a strong suspense element and happens on old-school linear tv, hence can’t be ‘binged’, and my moody 12 year old and all his friends watch it with their parents.

TheaBrandt · 25/01/2025 09:29

Talked to famous author at a book launch and she was eye rolling at a bad review by someone who ended with “although I have not actually read this book”

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 25/01/2025 09:26

@Bouledeneige But if you're a fire and brimstone Christian I guess it's quite difficult to find much entertainment.

They can enjoy watching us heathens burn when the apocalypse comes!