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Circumcision should be banned.

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ArabellaScott · 24/01/2025 14:44

https://www.secularism.org.uk/news/2025/01/judge-and-parents-call-for-boys-to-be-protected-from-circumcision

Article describes an upsetting case of two doctors performing these ops without anesthesia, and with sometimes serious side effects. One boy nearly died.

The National Secular Society is running a concurrent campaign to ban all 'religious cutting' - that includes both FGM and male circumcision. I wholeheartedly agree that no baby or child should suffer in this way. More info:

https://www.secularism.org.uk/religious-surgery/

YABU - circumcision for religous reasons is fine
YANBU - circumcision should be banned (unless there is a medical reason)

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IcedPurple · 04/01/2026 16:40

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 16:37

Most FGM is type 1 2 or 3 which are all much worse. Type 4 is more comparable but that's the least common.

But you've not answered my question. You seem to think male circumcision should be allowed to continue in Britain, provided there is some medical oversight. Do you believe the same should be true for the milder forms of FGM?

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 16:37

IcedPurple · 04/01/2026 16:24

As I said above, there are different types of FGM, some of which are 'less bad' than typical male circumcision.

Would you recommend rescinding the ban and "mandating pain relief and medical oversight" for less radical forms of FGM too?

Most FGM is type 1 2 or 3 which are all much worse. Type 4 is more comparable but that's the least common.

IcedPurple · 04/01/2026 16:24

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 15:15

The argument used is that FGM is probably much worse,,which is true and that the benefits of banning circumcision don't outweigh the costs.

I think other methods like mandating pain relief and medical oversight would work better.

As I said above, there are different types of FGM, some of which are 'less bad' than typical male circumcision.

Would you recommend rescinding the ban and "mandating pain relief and medical oversight" for less radical forms of FGM too?

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 15:15

5MinuteArgument · 03/01/2026 21:16

Male circumcision should be banned (unless for medical reasons). FGM is already banned in the UK, quite rightly. Religious and cultural customs don't trump human or animal rights. For example Pagans are free to practice their religion but they're not allowed to sacrifice animals on an alter.

Multiculturalism is less important than the rights of children and animals. Where religion and cultural practices encroach on these rights, there should be a red line drawn.

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The argument used is that FGM is probably much worse,,which is true and that the benefits of banning circumcision don't outweigh the costs.

I think other methods like mandating pain relief and medical oversight would work better.

Carla786 · 04/01/2026 15:14

AmpleMintBalonz · 04/01/2026 08:59

Though it isnt in the Quran.

As I said, it's in the Hadith as strongly recommended. It is a bit easier at least to adapt as there's no infant requirement.

AmpleMintBalonz · 04/01/2026 09:47

5MinuteArgument · 04/01/2026 09:39

It doesn't matter if it's in the Torah, Old Testament or Quran or if it's just the cultural practices of particular communities.

What matters is that this is the UK and the rights of children and animals should take priority. Otherwise why don't we legalise FGM?

We would have if the right type of people were into it.

5MinuteArgument · 04/01/2026 09:39

It doesn't matter if it's in the Torah, Old Testament or Quran or if it's just the cultural practices of particular communities.

What matters is that this is the UK and the rights of children and animals should take priority. Otherwise why don't we legalise FGM?

AmpleMintBalonz · 04/01/2026 08:59

Carla786 · 03/01/2026 19:48

It's in the Old Testament/Torah. God tells Abraham to circumcise his male descendants ever after. It's a key mitzvah (commandment) in Judaism for this reason.

Though it isnt in the Quran.

5MinuteArgument · 03/01/2026 21:16

Male circumcision should be banned (unless for medical reasons). FGM is already banned in the UK, quite rightly. Religious and cultural customs don't trump human or animal rights. For example Pagans are free to practice their religion but they're not allowed to sacrifice animals on an alter.

Multiculturalism is less important than the rights of children and animals. Where religion and cultural practices encroach on these rights, there should be a red line drawn.

Carla786 · 03/01/2026 19:56

Hoppinggreen · 30/01/2025 11:54

I get your point
If I was to have a party and invite loads of friends round and then someone with no medical qualifications cut some loose skin off my baby with no anaesthetic and not necessarily in a sterile environment then quite rightly SS would want to be involved
Why should that not be the case if I say I am Muslim or Jewish?

Normally Muslims & Jews do use a trained medical person. The death recently was using a backstreet one but that isn't the norm

Carla786 · 03/01/2026 19:55

Tbrh · 24/03/2025 05:56

Probably because we know if it was an acceptable Christian and/or white practice then we'd be ok with it, because it would be the accepted norm. The uncomfortable truth.

Tbf it IS an accepted white practice in the US.

Carla786 · 03/01/2026 19:53

Sceptical123 · 24/03/2025 04:18

I know this is an old post but I had to comment.

I’ve always disagreed with this. FGM is basically a tool to subjugate and control girls and young women, male circumcision, although used differently, is still totally unacceptable if it is done to children - with or without their consent. The fact it’s done for some archaic religious purpose is irrelevant. We don’t stone women for adultery here and wouldn’t tolerate it. There are many things that were done a very long time ago that were part of our own indigenous culture and religion that have been rightly discarded. This is surely a human rights issue - how can it not be?!

Ppl are up in arms when babies have their ears pierced, but this is somehow tolerated bc it’s in the scary realms of ethnicity and religion. Fuck that.

Circumcision is unnecessary mutilation or body modification, to put a more sanitary spin on it. Once it’s done - that’s it, forever. How can it ever be justified?!

How can the imposition of such a significant alteration to another person’s genitalia be approved and carried out by qualified surgeons - if they’re ‘lucky’?

This should not even be up for discussion and should not be tolerated here or anywhere else for that matter - it should carry the same stigma as FGM - I’m amazed it doesn’t.

Ppl like the poster I am quoting sum up the view a lot of ppl seem to share - they don’t want to be seen to be critical of another culture or religion. So child abuse should be tolerated if it’s done by a non-British/christian parent? We’ve managed to outlaw child brides and raised the age to 18 but for some reason physical abuse via non-medical surgery is acceptable ?! What if it was part of a culture to have sex with your brother at the age of 16, or FIL before getting married? Or having your fingernails removed at birth?

I cannot understand why ppl would rather not say or do anything for fear of being labelled a racist at the expense of protecting vulnerable babies and children. But then the whole child grooming travesty highlights the gross hypocrisy we have as a society for turning a blind eye to child suffering and abuse in specific circumstances.

It has to stop.

Is there even a religious reason for FGM? I thought it was more of a cultural practice. Circumcision I'm that sense is harder as it's explicitly commanded in the Torah and recommended strongly in the Sunnah.

Carla786 · 03/01/2026 19:48

Terfarina · 24/01/2025 18:20

I don't get the religious argument. Is this just custom, or in the bible does it say 'thou must cut bits of your children's genitalia'?

It's in the Old Testament/Torah. God tells Abraham to circumcise his male descendants ever after. It's a key mitzvah (commandment) in Judaism for this reason.

sashh · 17/06/2025 06:04

ChuckleDaughter · 16/06/2025 23:50

I agree it's awful but I worry that if it got banned, it would still happen outside of hospitals and be even more dangerous.

It already does happen outside hospital.

JHound · 16/06/2025 23:53

It baffles me that it is legal to mutilate boys genitals in this manner.

ChuckleDaughter · 16/06/2025 23:50

I agree it's awful but I worry that if it got banned, it would still happen outside of hospitals and be even more dangerous.

GreenCandleWax · 16/06/2025 22:45

ArcticBells · 24/01/2025 15:04

I had to be present for one ( in a nursing capacity). No anaesthetic at all. Horrific

Why no anaesthetic? That is barbaric.

ArabellaScott · 03/05/2025 18:36

Have you thought about making a gov.uk petition, Oliver?

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ToBeOrNotToBee · 19/04/2025 11:37

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 19/04/2025 11:25

Could you provide the source of this information?

Common knowledge and National Centre for Statistics.
64% of babies in America are circumcised at birth.
Unless there's a massive Jewish baby boom, most of those operations will be for social reasons rather than religious.
Interestingly, the number of circumcision of newborns in the states is decreasing. In the 60s, over 80% of baby males were circumcised.
The reason America loves cutting babies unnecessarily is as it was pushed by insurance companies as a way of squeezing more money out of hospitals.
Now with research showing a foreskin is important for sexual function, high profile baby deaths, and growing atheism, its becoming less prevalent. Plus its bloody expensive too, with parents choosing not to do it to save money.

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 19/04/2025 11:25

Iwanttoliveonamountain · 19/04/2025 11:20

Most men in USA are circumcised, irrespective of religion

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Could you provide the source of this information?

Iwanttoliveonamountain · 19/04/2025 11:20

TheCountofMountingCrispBags · 19/04/2025 08:18

So there are no Jews in america?????????

Most men in USA are circumcised, irrespective of religion