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People with driveways parking on the street

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Hellskitchen24 · 24/01/2025 14:05

I live in a long row of terraces. Most roads are terraced here, as I live in a fairly working class town. This means that the only people with driveways are the end of the terraces. I live a few doors down from the end.

My neighbour has in the last 6 months or so decided to mostly stop using their driveway. It’s a relatively fit retired couple. They probably only use the car a handful of times per week, and instead park it on the road outside our houses. They’ve got this thing now where on the odd occasion they do have it on their drive, as soon as the person moves from the space outside our house, they are up and put their car on it. Even if that’s at the crack of dawn; I’ve seen them peering out at the window at 6:30am, on the rare occasion I’ve got that space and I leave for work. They will be loitering by the door waiting for me to leave.

I don’t quite understand the logic. They are only one of two houses on the street with two dedicated parking spaces, with a perfectly wide accessible drive. I get back quite late at night from work and have to park several streets away when I’m heavily pregnant. So admittedly it does wind me up a bit seeing their empty driveway while all the other residents struggle to park. I know legally they are doing nothing wrong at all. But would I be unreasonable to put a note through their door asking them to possibly use their perfectly accessible driveway to free up more space for the majority who don’t have off road parking?

OP posts:
BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:44

JaninaDuszejko · 24/01/2025 15:40

We live on a street where everyone has a driveway. Our new neighbours have a large white van that they park across their own driveway and a car they park in front of our house, thus making reducing my manoeuvring space and therefore making it harder for me to park in my driveway. If they parked the car on their driveway and the van in fron of the house it would make my life easier. Not sure why they do it. Maybe I should start parking in front of my house to stop them doing it 🤔 . I thought when we had a driveway the way other people parked would annoy me less but I'm not sure it has 😂.

THIS is the kind of selfish arsehole I am talking about. Don't give a shit about anyone else, just lump all their cunty vehicles onto the road, (even though they have a driveway,) inconveniencing people, and making it hard to get in and out of your own driveway.

Sounds like a few such people are residing on this thread. I am so glad I don't live near them! (Yeah yeah yeah, you're glad you don't live near me too la la la.....' 🙄)

RedRiverShore5 · 24/01/2025 15:43

I don't like parking on the drive in my small car as I can't see to get out very easily so DH parks on the drive in his SUV which is higher, our caravan is on the drive anyway so there is not room for both cars but if it was just my little car I would probably park on the street as it is safer.

JaninaDuszejko · 24/01/2025 15:40

We live on a street where everyone has a driveway. Our new neighbours have a large white van that they park across their own driveway and a car they park in front of our house, thus making reducing my manoeuvring space and therefore making it harder for me to park in my driveway. If they parked the car on their driveway and the van in fron of the house it would make my life easier. Not sure why they do it. Maybe I should start parking in front of my house to stop them doing it 🤔 . I thought when we had a driveway the way other people parked would annoy me less but I'm not sure it has 😂.

Twinlife2 · 24/01/2025 15:39

We haven't got a drive but both houses either side of us have. One side used to do this and it was annoying. We have had two cars written off because of drunk drivers over the years and now no one opts to park on the road if they've got drives. Coincidence?!

Wwe175 · 24/01/2025 15:38

I’d ask if they would mind you parking on their driveway when you get back at night.

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:37

Brightredtulips · 24/01/2025 15:36

For me the problem is getting out of my drive when cars are parked on either side of it. We are on a busy road and we have to turn onto oncoming traffic and its impossible to see anything. The biggest culprit are our next door neighbours who also have a drive and are the first to complain if someone does it to them

Exactly this. Some people are such selfish arseholes though, that they don't give a shit if they inconvenience other people. As long as THEY are OK.

Inthebleakmidwinter1 · 24/01/2025 15:37

If they weren’t using it Somebody else would so you might not get it anyway

Spaghetticonfetti · 24/01/2025 15:37

Haha I obviously hit a nerve with you darling - well done for constructing a sentence without a swear word 🙃 @BatchCookBabe

Another2Cats · 24/01/2025 15:36

TickingAlongNicely · 24/01/2025 14:30

Its likely a case of cars parked too close to the driveway (sides and opposite) making it near impossible to actually get on or off it.

I very much agree with this. There are some roads here where the driveways are very narrow and people park outside of the permitted parking areas and make it very difficult indeed to either get into or exit from the driveway.

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:36

itsjustbiology · 24/01/2025 15:35

You ok hun?

Fine, are you HUN? 😆

Brightredtulips · 24/01/2025 15:36

For me the problem is getting out of my drive when cars are parked on either side of it. We are on a busy road and we have to turn onto oncoming traffic and its impossible to see anything. The biggest culprit are our next door neighbours who also have a drive and are the first to complain if someone does it to them

steff13 · 24/01/2025 15:36

thehorsesareallidiots · 24/01/2025 15:18

If you have to park three streets away, one couple using their driveway is not going to make a blind bit of difference.

I do also agree with this. If the parking is that difficult, someone else would stop you parking there if they didn't.

itsjustbiology · 24/01/2025 15:35

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:31

YANBU. You have to be a special kind of inconsiderate arsehole to park on the street, when you have got a perfectly decent driveway. It's the worst kind of selfish, arrogant, inconsiderate twats who do this IMO. Usually self-serving and selfish in other parts of their life too.

The 'if it's legal to park there what's the problem' brigade always show up on these kinds of threads. This is a case of 'just because you CAN do something, that doesn't necessarily mean you SHOULD!' If you have a driveway, stick your fucking car on it!

Maybe everyone in the street should park on the road eh?! Hmm

I would be so tempted to get together with another neighbour, and completely block them in - every time. (And then piss off out for a few hours.)

You ok hun?

FirstsignsofSpring · 24/01/2025 15:35

RandomMess · 24/01/2025 14:18

Park in front of the driveway if they are parked on the road and leave a note on their car asking for a chat.

Dont take this advice, it's ridiculous. And you're committing a traffic offence if they've got a dropped kerb.

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:34

Spaghetticonfetti · 24/01/2025 15:34

Glad Im not your neighbour - you sound like a nightmare @BatchCookBabe

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And I'm glad I'm not yours. YOU sound like a nightmare.

Now go park on the road even though you have a driveway. Wink Clearly you are someone who does this, and I have hit a raw nerve. that's why you're so salty!

Spaghetticonfetti · 24/01/2025 15:34

Glad Im not your neighbour - you sound like a nightmare @BatchCookBabe

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:33

Spaghetticonfetti · 24/01/2025 15:32

@BatchCookBabe wow - angry much??

Yeah, so what?

rrrrrreatt · 24/01/2025 15:33

Why don’t you knock on and speak to them?

My road is a free for all but no one parks outside the house opposite me because we know the lady living there has mobility issues. If someone was heavily pregnant and said they were struggling, it would be the same.

They can’t know you’re inconvenienced unless you tell them. The reason they park on the road is irrelevant - they’re legally entitled to and you haven’t given them a reason to park in a different spot.

Spaghetticonfetti · 24/01/2025 15:32

@BatchCookBabe wow - angry much??

Another2Cats · 24/01/2025 15:32

RandomMess · 24/01/2025 14:18

Park in front of the driveway if they are parked on the road and leave a note on their car asking for a chat.

Well that's a really aggressive and nasty thing to suggest.

Also, although the council might not actually do anything about it, if the Council has set up a "Special Enforcement Area" then it is an offence to block a driveway (even if there isn't a car on it) without the consent of the occupier of the premises.

Where I live, the whole city is covered by this and the local council hand out PCNs at £70 a go (reduced to £35 if paid within 14 days).

FoxtonFoxton · 24/01/2025 15:32

Kbroughton · 24/01/2025 15:26

And where we used to live, a slightly different but annoying issue, our neighbours used to put cones out to stop anyone else parking there, like four cars wide. Didn't really bother us as we had a drive but drove others bonkers. People just used to move the cones. Conegate.

My mum and dad had these neighbours for a while outside of their home where the parking is a public lay-by. Everyone just used to drive over the cones or push them up so they sat between parked cars. They gave up after replacing them multiple times.

Phthia · 24/01/2025 15:32

I like the idea of asking if you can use their driveway given that they don't seem to use it, you can't park outside your house when they are there, and you are pregnant.

BatchCookBabe · 24/01/2025 15:31

YANBU. You have to be a special kind of inconsiderate arsehole to park on the street, when you have got a perfectly decent driveway. It's the worst kind of selfish, arrogant, inconsiderate twats who do this IMO. Usually self-serving and selfish in other parts of their life too.

The 'if it's legal to park there what's the problem' brigade always show up on these kinds of threads. This is a case of 'just because you CAN do something, that doesn't necessarily mean you SHOULD!' If you have a driveway, stick your fucking car on it!

Maybe everyone in the street should park on the road eh?! Hmm

I would be so tempted to get together with another neighbour, and completely block them in - every time. (And then piss off out for a few hours.)

itsjustbiology · 24/01/2025 15:30

Could you ask them if they would rent you their drive if they are not using it?

MillyVannily · 24/01/2025 15:26

This will really annoy me for sure, but as you pointed out they are not doing anything illegal, so I personally won't be brave enough to talk to them. If you are, you certainly can raise it.