Moved to Scotland from Cumbria way because I'd met someone really special and over a few months the long distance thing wasn't working for either of us, had no strings, friends and family were all supportive, so took a jump and moved! It's been generally really good. We got engaged, been together 2.5 years. I had planned on getting a job there ASAP, I'd been a PA most of my life but left that job ready for the move. I was panicking a bit because I was looking for work but absolutely nothing was happening, they don't really have a big 'corporate' vibe here in the Highlands so jobs in my 'field' were close to non existent. He told me relax, don't worry about it too much, you can help me with my business doing admin whilst you look for work, various bits of paperwork, invoicing, a pretty big mix of support etc. but now the job is creeping more into 4 full days a week and and I admit I've allowed the job role to get bigger. I've got loads of plans for how to do things better and move the business forward and he's all on board with that, he's really happy with all the support and to be honest I am getting really stuck into it. He pays me and it all ticks along really well...
HOWEVER
Am I being really fucking cheeky when I ask things like, can you make me a part of your company? Or like, can I have more stability, more weight to my role and the business, like add me as a director or something, not even for money but so I have some level of stability even because at this stage I'm now financially dependent on him AND am very involved with the business, so I just feel like I've leaving myself wide open.