Partner is very uptight about being late to things… mainly around arriving to work.
He works as a non-clinical staff member at a hospital (along the lines of cleaner, porter, security) and he insists on leaving the house an hour and 45 minutes before his shift actually starts, and we only live 20-25 minutes away from the hospital - meaning he arrives over an hour early.
I know for a fact that is what he is doing as it’s a bit of a running joke in the department and there’s often photos of him in the office (in a joking way) in the group chat, and there are no concerns about cheating or doing anything dodgy etc.
I know he panics quite a bit about rushing around and being late for things but AIBU to think it’s a ridiculous amount of time to show up early to work? He can’t leave any earlier at the end of his shift so it doesn’t benefit him or us for him in that way.