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Horrible interaction in New Look

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lanbro · 23/01/2025 20:12

Just bought something in New Look, interaction at the till as follows:

Till operator: what's your email for your receipt?
Me: no thanks, I'd like a paper copy please
TO: it's a digital receipt
Me: I know, but I'd prefer a paper copy please
TO: what, you don't have an email address?!
Me: of course, but I'd like a paper copy
TO: fine, it'll take a minute. Why don't you want to give me your email?
Me: I get 100s of spam emails, I don't need anymore thanks
TO: OK, no need to get angry!
Me: I'm not angry but I'm cross that you're being so persistent when I said I didn't want to (may have sounded louder than intended)
TO: don't speak to me like that! That's it I've had enough, don't talk to me!

I said fine, I'd talk to the manager, who happened to just approach the till area. Clearly backed her staff up, unsurprisingly, TO denied the part of the conversation where she'd incredulously enquired about me even having an email, and tried to withhold my paper receipt. I just stated to please give me my receipt but I was furious! Customer service non existent. I understand why they want to send receipts but me saying no should have been accepted surely, and not pushed on me, in a snotty manner

Both TO and manager late teens/early 20s, probably working for NW on not much above so I wouldn't take it further but it's really annoyed me!

YABU she was just trying to do her job
YANBU Terrible customer service

OP posts:
shinebrightlikeanemerald · 23/01/2025 22:28

Tell them you don’t have an email you are a conspiracy theorist and you sleep in a tin house.

Works for me.

lovemycbf · 23/01/2025 22:26

@bostonchamps
That's really out of order on peacocks part then!
She said she couldn't do the exchange until gave details
I won't be going in there agin tbh as I think that was shitty of them and the items are shit quality anyway!🤣
I may also send an email to head office to complain 🤔

SerafinasGoose · 23/01/2025 22:26

JohnTheRevelator · 23/01/2025 22:25

This is why I won't shop in New Look any more. After being spoken to like I was some sort of oddity for not wanting to give my email address out,I thought 'Enough'. I already get bombarded with emails from practically every company I've bought from over the last couple of years,I don't need any more,thanks.

Edited

If the experience is as common as this, then there'll be a reason for it. And it won't be 'protecting the environment'.

CherryBerry99 · 23/01/2025 22:26

It does my head in, they can never spell my surname so I always have to spell it out to them and it would just save so much effort/hassle to give a paper receipt!! Sometimes you just aren't in the mood to talk

SerafinasGoose · 23/01/2025 22:25

It's a constant well of surprises that people are so persistent about extracting contact details, and assume an entitlement to that information simply because they've asked for it.

It wouldn't surprise me if they were under pressure from above for marketing purposes or were on a commission of some sort for selling these details on.

Same goes for hotels, but these days it simply isn't possible to book without divulging screeds of detailed personal info. Infuriating.

JohnTheRevelator · 23/01/2025 22:25

This is why I won't shop in New Look any more. After being spoken to like I was some sort of oddity for not wanting to give my email address out,I thought 'Enough'. I already get bombarded with emails from practically every company I've bought from over the last couple of years,I don't need any more,thanks.

Retrogamer · 23/01/2025 22:24

I work in retail OP and while I usually side with staff, this situation I do think yanbu.

I have witnessed colleagues act similar, this is usually when customers go 'off script' - in your case, not wanting to give an email.
It takes them off autopilot and unfortunately you end up with a rude interaction. I've been caught out myself once but that was because the customer was accusing me of scamming them (I wasnt) instead of explaining the miscommunication I took it personally, and it ended up with him telling me to watch my back after shift ends.

Went off on a tangent there. What I mean is - the staff member should have just given you the paper receipt.

Terraz · 23/01/2025 22:23

I had a similar issue with their awful customer service recently and will never buy a thing from there again. They are terrible.

Cunningfungus · 23/01/2025 22:23

MyUmberSeal · 23/01/2025 20:44

Your username is apt.

Edited

Indeed and the comment doesn’t even make sense. Surely @Knowitall69meant to write;

SET FOOT....... SET FOOT!!!!!! NOT STEPPED FOOT!!!

lanbro · 23/01/2025 22:18

battairzeedurgzome · 23/01/2025 22:15

The worker's age is irrelevant, as is her pay level.

And also I wasn't rude, I stood my ground and called her out on her rudeness towards me!

OP posts:
Onelifeonly · 23/01/2025 22:18

As for Zara, last time I went there the till operator didn't look at me once - I checked to make sure as I try to make eye contact and smile at some point when dealing with strangers and I never got the chance because she looked past me all the time - I'm really not that hideous!

2025willbemytime · 23/01/2025 22:17

Whotenanny · 23/01/2025 21:51

[email protected] ought to do the trick.

Except it's the opposite of presumably what you do want.

thenightsky · 23/01/2025 22:16

Shade17 · 23/01/2025 21:00

I’d have told the manger that with that attitude she could now process the return, then I’d have taken her name and made a formal complaint. Fuck her!

They probably would refuse to process a return on the grounds you didn't have the receipt. Grin

battairzeedurgzome · 23/01/2025 22:15

Differentstarts · 23/01/2025 21:46

Yanbu to want a paper reciept yabu to be furious, raising your voice and being rude to a teenage minimum wage worker

The worker's age is irrelevant, as is her pay level.

Onelifeonly · 23/01/2025 22:15

New Look vanished from round here years ago but in Dunelm I always ask for a paper receipt and get one. I don't need any more spam emails - they just want to bombard you with advertising, they don't care about you losing a receipt.

BrieHugger · 23/01/2025 22:14

Yes they’re pushy about it and I hate it too. Makes me want to set up a rude email address like ohfuckoff@email,com.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 23/01/2025 22:13

RedRiverShore5 · 23/01/2025 20:34

A lot of their shops are closing, hopefully they won't be around much longer, ours closed, dreadful shop

Yes let's wish for people to lose their jobs 👏 Great response

Russiandollsaresofullofthemselves · 23/01/2025 22:12

I hate digital receipts. also 9/10 times they spell my email address incorrectly even after i spell it out phonetically and I don’t receive the email!

Therira · 23/01/2025 22:10

I could have written this post!!! Such a similar incident happened to me in New Look, the staff member was really dismissive and downright rude when I said I didn’t want to give my email over (for the same reason, when shopping there before I gave it and within 2 days had over 6 emails from them!!)

Eventually she reluctantly gave me it and rolled her eyes- got home and the bloody security tag was on the dress. Too busy fannying about over email!

Won’t use New Look again.

Penciltops1 · 23/01/2025 22:10

YANBU

This annoys me too. I wear headphones so I can't hear what they say anymore 😂

I get my paper receipt that way 😁

fingertraps · 23/01/2025 22:10

PuppyMonkey · 23/01/2025 20:24

I had this in New Look a month or two ago. I said I didn’t want to give my email and she said they were no longer giving paper receipts due to “the environment.” Bullshit. I just kept repeating “no” and she eventually gave me a paper receipt but was really huffing and puffing and said next time, I wouldn’t be able to have one.

Haven’t stepped foot in the shop since so job done New Look. Grin

This does my head in. Email is not better for the bloody environment!

PennyApril54 · 23/01/2025 22:09

NL is one of the worst companies to work for. It's not surprising the culture is toxic. Yes they are persistent, well done for standing your ground. What about people who do not have email such as elderly etc. Staff training needed but unlikely.

pinkwaffles · 23/01/2025 22:06

PuppyMonkey · 23/01/2025 20:24

I had this in New Look a month or two ago. I said I didn’t want to give my email and she said they were no longer giving paper receipts due to “the environment.” Bullshit. I just kept repeating “no” and she eventually gave me a paper receipt but was really huffing and puffing and said next time, I wouldn’t be able to have one.

Haven’t stepped foot in the shop since so job done New Look. Grin

If this happened to me I would insist on returning the item for a refund and walk away.

Paper receipts are really important. People shouldn't have to give out their contact details every time they make a day to day transaction in a shop.

Xccccc · 23/01/2025 22:05

I had this in new look today!.
I went through the same conversation. In the end she told me not to lose my receipt like I was a child. I just laughed to myself 🤣

ChefBingo · 23/01/2025 22:02

wildlifeobserver1 · 23/01/2025 20:57

New look also refused to give me a paper receipt, then she typed in my email address wrong so I never received the digital receipt.
I wanted to return something and as I had no proof they wouldn’t accept my return. It was a right palava to sort out, never again.

This happens to me all the time because my name isn't spelt the most common way. Even when I spell it out. I assume some sort or autocorrect issue but who knows.