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Horrible interaction in New Look

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lanbro · 23/01/2025 20:12

Just bought something in New Look, interaction at the till as follows:

Till operator: what's your email for your receipt?
Me: no thanks, I'd like a paper copy please
TO: it's a digital receipt
Me: I know, but I'd prefer a paper copy please
TO: what, you don't have an email address?!
Me: of course, but I'd like a paper copy
TO: fine, it'll take a minute. Why don't you want to give me your email?
Me: I get 100s of spam emails, I don't need anymore thanks
TO: OK, no need to get angry!
Me: I'm not angry but I'm cross that you're being so persistent when I said I didn't want to (may have sounded louder than intended)
TO: don't speak to me like that! That's it I've had enough, don't talk to me!

I said fine, I'd talk to the manager, who happened to just approach the till area. Clearly backed her staff up, unsurprisingly, TO denied the part of the conversation where she'd incredulously enquired about me even having an email, and tried to withhold my paper receipt. I just stated to please give me my receipt but I was furious! Customer service non existent. I understand why they want to send receipts but me saying no should have been accepted surely, and not pushed on me, in a snotty manner

Both TO and manager late teens/early 20s, probably working for NW on not much above so I wouldn't take it further but it's really annoyed me!

YABU she was just trying to do her job
YANBU Terrible customer service

OP posts:
UtterlyOtterly · 24/01/2025 20:41

In shops where I think it might be likely they ask for an email I ask if I can have a paper receipt before even putting the item on the counter. Then if they say no I just hand them the item and walk out.

There is absolutely nothing I need enough to want to give my email details to a poorly trained shop worker.

Sandflea9900 · 24/01/2025 20:30

I hate shops that do this, it’s increasingly common. Dunelm are particularly prone to it. I acquiesced once, the emailed receipt never arrived and then I had a heck of a time when I needed to return an item as I had no receipt. I always get a paper receipt now. If they won’t provide one, I don’t buy.

ludders01 · 24/01/2025 20:30

Also to add to that I’m currently on crutches and the queue wasn’t particularly long but for some reason they were taking ages to serve people but there was no apology for the long wait. It was a girl in her 20’s I’d say, the older staff seem a bit better customer service wise.

ludders01 · 24/01/2025 20:19

I had a similar experience in a new look in Bristol recently. Went in to collect an online order and the order literally got slammed on the desk. There was no hello, please, thank you or goodbye. Went into Superdrug as my next stop and the customer service by the meet and great girl on the door was outstanding. So much so that I had a moan to her about how awful it had been in new look. It’s really put me off shopping in there.

PeepDeBeaul · 24/01/2025 20:10

There are several free email address hosts out there. We created an address that's literally "receipts@xxxxx.com". (Not xxxxxx obvs, Im not dumb enough to post the proper thing). We quote that in all the shops. I go though the inbox from time to time and mass delete the spam.

OP is right to be annoyed though...you were right to be assertive.

CeeCee2022 · 24/01/2025 20:01

Differentstarts · 23/01/2025 23:50

You said to a shop assistant that they was tracking your purchases. You do realise shop assistants have zero say in anything right

Yes I told shop assistant that I didn't want new look tracking my purchases and sending me targeted email advertisements that choke up my email address! I know shop assistants have zero say but they feed back to their managers who feed back to theirs and so on.

MMUmum · 24/01/2025 20:00

Local Dunelm asked for my email to send an e receipt, it never arrived! I rang the store and they insisted they couldn't resend it and didn't have a record so I could collect a paper one, I always insist on paper receipts now

Vitriolinsanity · 24/01/2025 19:55

Potsofpetals · 23/01/2025 20:35

I’ve set up an email address for receipts with a rude address about their practices. I don’t give a shit if they think I’m childish. It sends the right message

I'm taking this advice!

AwkAF · 24/01/2025 19:42

The emailed receipts are becoming more popular. I’m not keen on it either.
I’ve made a new email address similar to- receipts @ address. com
They often can’t spell receipts quick enough so offer a paper one ha ha.

SerafinasGoose · 24/01/2025 18:35

lavendarwillow · 24/01/2025 16:11

Paper receipts under the guise of saving the planet, aggghhh winds me up! Stop making so many plastic shoes instead. They just want our data. And New Look, even though they do have some nice things, have lost their way. I'm surprised they are still going. They certainly won't be much longer if they continue to piss off customers.

For a fast fashion retail outlet to say this would make me hoot with laughter. This industry is one of the worst culprits on a fast-track to destroying the planet!

I shop vintage whenever possible. This isn't only for environmental reasons - that's a sideways benefit - but because the quality of items available on the high street has gone through the floor as prices have gone through the ceiling.

Badly-cut polyester just doesn't appeal. And 'vegan' shoes are far worse for the planet than leather ones.

lavendarwillow · 24/01/2025 16:11

Paper receipts under the guise of saving the planet, aggghhh winds me up! Stop making so many plastic shoes instead. They just want our data. And New Look, even though they do have some nice things, have lost their way. I'm surprised they are still going. They certainly won't be much longer if they continue to piss off customers.

Whotenanny · 24/01/2025 13:51

2025willbemytime · 23/01/2025 22:17

Except it's the opposite of presumably what you do want.

Haha! I should have proof read that 😆

Mrsbloggz · 24/01/2025 13:24

CluelessAsFuck · 24/01/2025 13:23

I gpt the eye rolling when I didn't want to give my email address and a sigh when paying with cash.

Blimey, the cheap clothes are just to get you through the door, the real profit comes from selling your information to third parties ☹️

CluelessAsFuck · 24/01/2025 13:23

I gpt the eye rolling when I didn't want to give my email address and a sigh when paying with cash.

MadCatHag · 24/01/2025 12:47

PuppyMonkey · 23/01/2025 20:24

I had this in New Look a month or two ago. I said I didn’t want to give my email and she said they were no longer giving paper receipts due to “the environment.” Bullshit. I just kept repeating “no” and she eventually gave me a paper receipt but was really huffing and puffing and said next time, I wouldn’t be able to have one.

Haven’t stepped foot in the shop since so job done New Look. Grin

Tell them that if they care so much about the environment they should stop selling polyester crap!

Cherry8809 · 24/01/2025 12:47

MJconfessions · 23/01/2025 20:44

I used to work there and I’m sure that email receipts are one of their KPIs like the manager likely forces the staff to push digital receipts so she certainly isn’t going to entertain complaints about it. Ultimately for every 1 of you that complains, 100s of customers just go along with it, which makes her stats look great

Exactly this.

So many retail companies target their employees with obtaining an email address for marketing purposes.

Once they have your email, you’ve opted in to communications from them, so they can send you promotional emails until you opt out.

Grawlix · 24/01/2025 12:42

Haven’t RTFT except for the OP and first few responses but YANBU.

I don’t shop in New Look but I've been asked for my email address in Dunelm. I just say no thanks, I’ll have a paper receipt. Never had an argument.

However, just in case I ever encounter a really pushy assistant who insists on an email receipt, I pre-emptively created a burner email address that I now use only for this purpose or for when I don’t want to give my real one. Every now and then I go into it and clear out all the spam emails. Very satisfying it is too.

dynamiccactus · 24/01/2025 12:32

It's a constant well of surprises that people are so persistent about extracting contact details, and assume an entitlement to that information simply because they've asked for it

Also when they call you and ask you to prove who you are.

Erm - you called me. How about you prove who you are!

dynamiccactus · 24/01/2025 12:31

KimberleyClark · 24/01/2025 09:56

Giving them your email address means that they can send you marketing communications and you can’t opt out. It’s sneaky.

You can opt out and it should be easy, eg just clicking the unsubscribe button, but it's still a step you have to take that you shouldn't do.

AND asking for email addresses makes the queue to pay longer.

dynamiccactus · 24/01/2025 12:28

It's my personal info and I don't feel I need to share my contact details with a shop in order to buy something. It doesn't happen elsewhere. Plus they abuse it by signing you up to the newsletter without even asking permission. I'm sure they're breaching GDPR on that side, because they're using data for a purpose customers haven't consented to

Yes you are absolutely right.

And it's a breach of the GDPR in other ways too - if you collect personal information, you need to need it. Do you need an email address for someone to buy something in a shop? Maybe, for eg a candle or an electronic item, for product recall purposes*. But if I am buying a t-shirt? Unlikely.

  • there are new EU laws about product safety that apply in Northern Ireland, so expect more requests for email addresses in shops there
dynamiccactus · 24/01/2025 12:25

StressedLP1 · 24/01/2025 11:47

Dont know if high pressure tactics to get personal info out of someone (which an email or telephone number is ) is a breach of any consumer or data privacy laws but it bloody should be.

Yes it actually is, under the Consumer Protection from Unfair Trading Regulations, which are being upgraded by the Digital Markets, Competition and Consumers Act with effect from April.

The new law will make it easier to establish that aggressive practices were followed. However, it has to affect a consumer's "transactional decision". By the time they are demanding email addresses, you've actually already bought the item and made the transactional decision.

dynamiccactus · 24/01/2025 12:22

bostonchamps · 23/01/2025 21:17

Because I'm a saddo, and because this really pissed me off, I've just had a google (and then double checked my understanding with legal eagle DH) - this isn't quite illegal as such but it is bullshit.

It's not mentioned in their returns policy (which I read, like I said...saddo), and there's nothing in consumer rights about having to provide an email address (or any personal information).

Back in the day in many shops you had to provide name, address and tel no when returning items. I think so they could check up and make sure the sales assistant wasn't pocketing cash or products.

So I am not that surprised they ask for an email address, but any contact method should be sufficient.

StressedLP1 · 24/01/2025 11:47

Dont know if high pressure tactics to get personal info out of someone (which an email or telephone number is ) is a breach of any consumer or data privacy laws but it bloody should be.

notarunner · 24/01/2025 11:47

You're not wrong to be annoyed. I always ask for a paper receipt too, purely because my email address is my name and my surname is long, uncommon and always needs spelling out. I can't be arsed with that at the till.

I used to shop at New Look a lot but it never appeals to me anymore. Our local one just looks run down and full of rails of sale clothes. The nice one at the retail park closed.

HappyMamma2023 · 24/01/2025 10:59

I just say because I don't want to and thst seems to shut the conversation down.