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laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 20:45

Has anyone seen the video footage that totally proves Blake Lively was lying about her accusations of Justin Baldoni. Total Amber Heard vibes from this and it's scary to think how many cases that can't be proved have destroyed men's lives.

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Nutriiiit · 23/01/2025 20:04

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 19:55

What's Brad Pitt got to do with it?

Only that he assaulted his (ex) wife on a plane, hit his son for trying to intervene (all this is fact, btw, FBI investigated) and yet his reputation is intact. Blake Lively gave a couple of awkward interviews and the internet hates her. Calls her a “mean girl”, doesn’t believe her when she says she was treated badly by a male costar.

My point is - they’re both celebrities. One is still working and absolutely fine. The other is not. One is a man. The other is not.

The man (Brad Pitt) has a great PR team in this case as well!

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2025 19:55

What's Brad Pitt got to do with it?

Nutriiiit · 23/01/2025 19:52

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 19:45

we hate women so quickly and easily

Some women are awful people though, would be disingenuous to suggest otherwise. She's actually been given a fair bit of grace because she's the woman in this scenario tbh. Plenty of examples of her being a horrible person in interviews and her own words- caveat with not suggesting this means I think she deserves to be harassed if it happened.

I’d be curious how many people hate Brad Pitt. More than hate Blake Lively? I doubt it.

I’m not saying a thing about her character - I don’t know her. I’m just saying that I believe the things she claims about Justin Baldoni are true. And that the hate she’s getting is outsized because she’s a beautiful and privileged woman.

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 19:45

we hate women so quickly and easily

Some women are awful people though, would be disingenuous to suggest otherwise. She's actually been given a fair bit of grace because she's the woman in this scenario tbh. Plenty of examples of her being a horrible person in interviews and her own words- caveat with not suggesting this means I think she deserves to be harassed if it happened.

Nutriiiit · 23/01/2025 19:40

laurwalsh · 23/01/2025 18:23

For all the man haters that seem to have flocked to this post please watch Meghan Kelly sum the whole thing up here to Ben Shapiro and then please just go away!

You do realise that just another opinion, right? You’re acting like it’s fact also - it doesn’t change my mind. You’re being manipulated and what stinks is, we hate women so quickly and easily.

BlueSilverCats · 23/01/2025 19:25

laurwalsh · 23/01/2025 18:23

For all the man haters that seem to have flocked to this post please watch Meghan Kelly sum the whole thing up here to Ben Shapiro and then please just go away!

Let's have a "conversation " , but only if you agree with me, otherwise go away?

How very.. Justin of you.

Mollysay · 23/01/2025 18:35

JandamiHash · 23/01/2025 12:48

The promotion of the movie was how she was told to promote it. Actors don’t do these promos out the goodness of their hearts, it’s a contractual obligation and they have to go by the PR instructions - which in this case were “Focus on the positive messages of the films including flowers and fashion”. And actually this was conjured up AFTER she called Bandoni out on his behaviour. It also just so happens that Baldoni’s promo plan was different to the rest of the case, he WAS allowed to speak about DV when doing the press tour. Funny that

I would believe this if it weren't for the fact she was shilling her hair care line and her husbands alcohol brand during the promo. This is usually frowned upon in film promo, are you saying they told her to do this also?

Reality is she can be insufferable and still have experienced sexual harassment, she still doesn't deserve it no matter how problematic she is (thought she's awful since she made jokes about her co-star in GG having been born in prison which is spiteful and nothing has ever seemed to contradict this rep). That said, this is messy AF and who knows what went on.

laurwalsh · 23/01/2025 18:23

For all the man haters that seem to have flocked to this post please watch Meghan Kelly sum the whole thing up here to Ben Shapiro and then please just go away!

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Rooroobear · 23/01/2025 18:08

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 21:51

I watched the full clip and what really comes across is how unbelievably unprofessional Blake Lively is. Why is she constantly talking and giving him, the Director, directions? And then there’s the fact she completely twisted a small compliment between colleagues into a gross seedy moment to accuse him of sexual harassment. I’m so glad JB is fighting back. I hope he doesn’t settle. She and Ryan tried to destroy his career and they would’ve gotten away with it had it not been for Justin keeping receipts.

Ok Justin, we see you

BlueSilverCats · 23/01/2025 17:54

ElatedShark · 23/01/2025 15:10

I saw the video and am not sure what to think. I am leaning more to believing she wanted an affair and he wasn't into it so she went scorched earth on his reputation.
She has a rep for that

It probably doesn't help with the blinds about her husband, H and their mates ALLEGEDLY

Careful you don't pull a muscle with those (mental) gymnastics.

ElatedShark · 23/01/2025 15:10

I saw the video and am not sure what to think. I am leaning more to believing she wanted an affair and he wasn't into it so she went scorched earth on his reputation.
She has a rep for that

It probably doesn't help with the blinds about her husband, H and their mates ALLEGEDLY

Coldanddamp · 23/01/2025 15:07

and during movie scenes don't actors often go off piste and add things or directors alter things when looking through a lens?

Coldanddamp · 23/01/2025 15:05

Even if that was scene was exactly as scripted surely all actors & actresses find having to pretend to be in love with a stranger pretty uncomfortable? It's weird in general

LadyTottingham · 23/01/2025 15:04

I can see how she is uncomfortable in that scene, however, by only releasing into the public domain select parts of text conversations so we don't get the context (see my previous post), asking for his legal team to be gagged to prevent them releasing further evidence thus leaving her free reign to release as and when she pleases, is manipulative behaviour and doesn't do her any favours. It is exactly what AH did which affected her credibility and her case so I can easily see why people (inc myself) are making comparisons.

I also don't feel that I have to support any female just because we share the same reproductive organs. That's a slippery slope.

FWIW I'm in the 'older' (I prefer more mature 😊) woman category and worked in offices in and around the late 80's/90s so there isn't much I haven't seen in terms of male egos and unsavoury behaviours.
I'm not for bending either.

MrsTerryPratchett · 23/01/2025 14:24

Aftergloww · 22/01/2025 22:08

Amber Heard was treated absolutely appallingly by the press and time will show it. I’m glad Johnny still didn’t get his comeback, no amount of dragging someone else can hide the drunk loser he’s become. Paul Bettany is another one who got away with those awful messages.

I’m leaning more towards JB on this one but only time will tell. I have a very hard time believing JB could behave like this with Lively and especially her husband always hovering around. This whole thing probably has more to do with damage control than anything else.

I used to really like Paul Bettany. I won't ever forget.

This smearing of BL, posters must think we're thick as mince. PR companies need to understand that older women have seen all this before hundreds of times. We don't bend as easily.

VelvetWildflower · 23/01/2025 14:21

The fact Lively has applied for Baldoni's legal team to have a gag order is suspicious. It's the only way they can fight back right now and just because people aren't fully on her side, it doesn't mean she'll lose in court.

I think she's a narcissistic piece of shit human being but I don't doubt she felt sexually harassed on the set either. Both things can be true but the way this has been handled means even if she wins in court, everyone knows how she stole his film.

BobbyBiscuits · 23/01/2025 13:57

I saw the video of the dance scene. What's clear is she is absolutely repulsed by him. Like deeply ick beyond compare. Which seems a bit weird for an actor who must have had to do multiple love scenes with people she may not have fancied.
It felt like she did not want him near her at all.

I did feel the comments about his nose were mean. She's well known for having several rhinoplasties so maybe she's got a problem with normal looking noses. Her husband has the nose of a nine year old girl? Haha. Ok so now I'm being too mean about noses myself!

I honestly have never liked her. But he clearly did make her feel uncomfortable judging by their interactions in the scene.

Tacocatgoatcheesepizza · 23/01/2025 13:52

Hungrycaterpillarsmummy · 22/01/2025 23:35

I watched the footage and I totally believe her.
She's always trying to back away, she actively wants to avoid kissing him. I can just sense the disgust she has for him.

I feel like I'm in the twilight zone that other people can't see it!! It's so obvious to me

This is exactly what I thought when I watched it. Multiple times she is heard trying to politely discourage him from what he is doing. She looks extremely awkward and unhappy about his behaviour which was clearly not scripted.

arcticpandas · 23/01/2025 13:36

Babybaby2025 · 23/01/2025 11:47

Multiple judges in the UK after extensive trial believed her. I think that has more credibility than a perfectly crafted smear campaign targeting the minds of the impressionable

I wouldn't underestimate the US court system. And her multiple lies were all open for the public to see. A disgusting human being. And Depp is an old stoner so I'm not a fan of his but he wasn't manipulative as she was.

LightUpMyStars · 23/01/2025 13:32

Babybaby2025 · 23/01/2025 11:27

For a man to be hated and vilified by the media, he has to be evil, and a criminal (even that sometimes doesn't work, Chris brown and akon still sell out shows for example). For a woman to be vilified by the public and media, she just has to have some personality traits you don't like. She's set up to fail because it's just so much more fun to hate a woman

Good point re Chris Brown etc,
Jack Nicholson doesn't seem to have been vilified after assaulting a woman to the point of permanent brain damage and a ruptured breast implant. I don't recall his reputation being in tatters and his career over.

BarbadosItsCloserThanYouThink · 23/01/2025 13:31

The video neither proves or disproves anything.
I find it hard to believe she'd put herself through this case and have her name dragged further through the mud if there was no truth to her allegations. She has four children to think about and yes she's rich and famous but the stress must still be impacting her and her homelife with her family.
I maybe wrong and maybe people would put themselves through it, that's the thing, none of us know these people or the truth, just what we're being fed.

LadyTottingham · 23/01/2025 13:23

On the walking in while she was breastfeeding, the text his legal team released revealed Blake telling Justin that as she was ‘pumping’ did he want to come over to her trailer, he said OK he would come over after he had finished eating with the crew. She invited him. 🤷‍♀️

EternalSunshine19 · 23/01/2025 13:23

Did they also tell her to try and flog her booze and hair line at the same time as the film?? I suppose they also told her to name a cocktail after ryle as well, even though alcohol increases Domestic violence.

JandamiHash · 23/01/2025 12:51

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 21:51

I watched the full clip and what really comes across is how unbelievably unprofessional Blake Lively is. Why is she constantly talking and giving him, the Director, directions? And then there’s the fact she completely twisted a small compliment between colleagues into a gross seedy moment to accuse him of sexual harassment. I’m so glad JB is fighting back. I hope he doesn’t settle. She and Ryan tried to destroy his career and they would’ve gotten away with it had it not been for Justin keeping receipts.

What career? He had a secondary part in a mildly successfully (but brilliant I have to say) telenovela. He barely had a career to ruin u like Blake

JandamiHash · 23/01/2025 12:50

beautyandTVisgoodenoughforme · 22/01/2025 21:44

Yes exactly. Focusing on one video, rather than the many accusations including walking in on her breastfeeding, walking in on her whilst she was getting dressed, talking about sexual acts and their previous pornography addiction in front of her even after she said don’t. It isn’t a case of different interpretations of what happened whilst the camera rolled. The legal complaint by Blake Lively describes a hostile work environment due to many incidents.

No to mention EVERY cast member is siding with her. And the author.