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laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 20:45

Has anyone seen the video footage that totally proves Blake Lively was lying about her accusations of Justin Baldoni. Total Amber Heard vibes from this and it's scary to think how many cases that can't be proved have destroyed men's lives.

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2024onwardsandup · 22/01/2025 22:24

What kind of vibes did Johnny Depp give you from his text messages about Amber Heard OP?

Changednameforyou · 22/01/2025 22:22

I strongly suspect JBs legal team are nearly all male, or certainly led by a man. It would explain why they think the footage is more damning of BL. I feel if a woman or a few women had seen the footage they may have advised against releasing it.

JandamiHash · 22/01/2025 22:22

I feel quite embarrassed for people who say Blake Lively has “Amber Heard vibes”. Literally the same people were hired to smear both women and numpties have fallen hook line and sinker for it. I’d be mortified to be so demonstrably gullible.

Justin Baldoni is a creep who had to sign a contract saying he wouldn’t walk in on Blake Lovely’s dressing room, stop talking about his sex life and stop sexually harassing women. How does a video disprove that?

CatsndtheBear · 22/01/2025 22:22

He wouldn't have hired the PR firm that he did, who went to such great lengths to destroy her in the public image, if he wasn't trying to hide something.

An abuser always discredits their victim, often trying to get ahead of the game before they come out with their story.

He is the definition of a "nice guy" and I feel concerned for those who think his strategy that mirrors Johnny Depp is what... A coincidence?

He even sends his proposal and wedding letting everyone know what a "good guy" he is. It is creepy and narcissistic.

Cunningfungus · 22/01/2025 22:19

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 21:51

I watched the full clip and what really comes across is how unbelievably unprofessional Blake Lively is. Why is she constantly talking and giving him, the Director, directions? And then there’s the fact she completely twisted a small compliment between colleagues into a gross seedy moment to accuse him of sexual harassment. I’m so glad JB is fighting back. I hope he doesn’t settle. She and Ryan tried to destroy his career and they would’ve gotten away with it had it not been for Justin keeping receipts.

FFS @laurwalsh I really hope you don’t have daughters.

She’s not being unprofessional and giving him directions - she’s trying to subtly steer him away from unchoreographed and unwanted physical contact.

And “compliments” in this scenario are a bit like wolf whistles- are we to be flattered by them? If anyone’s being unprofessional it’s clearly JB.

And as for JB “keeping receipts” - are you 15?

CatsndtheBear · 22/01/2025 22:15

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 20:45

Has anyone seen the video footage that totally proves Blake Lively was lying about her accusations of Justin Baldoni. Total Amber Heard vibes from this and it's scary to think how many cases that can't be proved have destroyed men's lives.

Amber Heard vibes??

I think you need to do a bit more research into that case.

Coldanddamp · 22/01/2025 22:14

Both have got expensive PRs working away spinning their narratives.

This.

Fantina · 22/01/2025 22:14

I believe her.

BlueSilverCats · 22/01/2025 22:11

TikehauLilly · 22/01/2025 20:59

There is the initial alledged sexual harassment

Then there is the smear campaign

I don't know enough / read / seen ot processed all the stuff to comment on the smear.

However on the SH and video released i do have a perspective as a viewer

I did look at the video and it looks like 2 people acting scene about "falling in lust / love" which fits the film. I think the problem is that the acting improvised by JB does not fit BL choreographed view. So this is now SH in BL eyes. However if the scene had said "attempted kisses, caressing, etc" then there would have been a coordinator... and no SH. The video would plat out as is and that wouldn't be in the case

No idea if this is the only.scene called out in the SH case but in my opinion I don't think JB did anything out of character for the movie scene. Just very bad planning or bad judge of what is acceptable when Partnering on a movie and read BL wrong

It's all very odd and confusing... he seemed genuinely empathetic about the DV narrative and BL was "wear your floral's" and a bit tone deaf.

I don't think we will ever really know.

Seems very much based on one interpretation of actions ... 3 sides f every story and all

Edited

On the DV side, Blake went with the promotional angle decided by the movie company. Rightly or wrongly.

Baldoni 's sympathy for DV was a calculated move to 1. explain the rift between him and the other cast members(not just Lively) and 2. To garner as much support and sympathy.

One is , at worst stupid ,shallow and superficial, the other is at it's worst cynical and extremely manipulative, never mind using victims own trauma and stories for his own gain.

Coldanddamp · 22/01/2025 22:11

@TheseCalmSeas Did you miss the word most? And this isn't a rape case...

Butchyrestingface · 22/01/2025 22:10

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 21:51

I watched the full clip and what really comes across is how unbelievably unprofessional Blake Lively is. Why is she constantly talking and giving him, the Director, directions? And then there’s the fact she completely twisted a small compliment between colleagues into a gross seedy moment to accuse him of sexual harassment. I’m so glad JB is fighting back. I hope he doesn’t settle. She and Ryan tried to destroy his career and they would’ve gotten away with it had it not been for Justin keeping receipts.

Keep talking.

You're actually making me want to start a crowdfunder for a rich, rich woman. Think about what you could do her for popularity ratings if you carry on.😀

Coldanddamp · 22/01/2025 22:10

Very bad move releasing that clip, it proves nothing, makes him look manipulative and abusive by releasing it.

I don't really understand this narrative. If one person alleges something why can't the other side give their version? It's not manipulation to want to defend yourself

TheseCalmSeas · 22/01/2025 22:10

Coldanddamp · 22/01/2025 22:09

Like most things there are different sides to this story & the truth is somewhere in the middle.

That’s such a cop out and something that was said to a friend who was raped. Sometimes it’s simply right and wrong.

Changednameforyou · 22/01/2025 22:10

I think this and the Depp case show how mad some women get when they see an attractive man being "wronged" in their eyes.

Coldanddamp · 22/01/2025 22:09

Like most things there are different sides to this story & the truth is somewhere in the middle.

womanjustwanttohavefun · 22/01/2025 22:09

The negative press BL is getting is insane but ,seeing as there is proof this is exactly what he paid the PR company to do, not surprising.

He's an irrelevant nobody trying to make himself a somebody and how do me do that- by dumping on more powerful women

Changednameforyou · 22/01/2025 22:08

It shows there was a lack of planning and communication prior to filming a scene that is very intimate. Her deflecting to "lets just talk" is fawning and a soft/low risk way of telling him no, she's not comfortable.

Aftergloww · 22/01/2025 22:08

Amber Heard was treated absolutely appallingly by the press and time will show it. I’m glad Johnny still didn’t get his comeback, no amount of dragging someone else can hide the drunk loser he’s become. Paul Bettany is another one who got away with those awful messages.

I’m leaning more towards JB on this one but only time will tell. I have a very hard time believing JB could behave like this with Lively and especially her husband always hovering around. This whole thing probably has more to do with damage control than anything else.

VisitationRights · 22/01/2025 22:07

Very bad move releasing that clip, it proves nothing, makes him look manipulative and abusive by releasing it. There are shades of the Amber Heard saga but not for the reasons the Op thinks, it is about manipulation and smearing. Gross.

SwerveCity · 22/01/2025 22:07

She’s definitely a Mean Girl.

TheseCalmSeas · 22/01/2025 22:07

BeLilacSloth · 22/01/2025 21:42

Can’t stand the woman or Ryan Reynolds, they’re so up themselves and fake.

Irrelevant

SherryPort18 · 22/01/2025 22:06

JB hired an extremely underhand PR team to effectively destroy Lively's reputation. The texts between Baldoni and the publicity team were printed in an article in the NY Times. Along with everything already mentioned here, one thing that really stood out was the two women from the PR agency basically congratulating themselves on how the smeer campaign was going and then saying ' it's actually sad because it shows you how people really want to hate on women'.
This just sums up the whole misogynistic lot of it. I don't think Lively conducted herself brilliantly. Launching a hair care line and shilling her weird alcopops while promoting this movie was tone deaf but Justin Baldoni is a predator pretending to be on the side of women.

byteme1011 · 22/01/2025 22:00

@laurwalsh have you read https://archive.is/a5Xxs? at least justin has gotten his money's worth

whydoihavetowork · 22/01/2025 21:59

laurwalsh · 22/01/2025 20:45

Has anyone seen the video footage that totally proves Blake Lively was lying about her accusations of Justin Baldoni. Total Amber Heard vibes from this and it's scary to think how many cases that can't be proved have destroyed men's lives.

Oh hi Andrew Tate ! Nice of you to join us!

Butchyrestingface · 22/01/2025 21:59

DrBlackbird · 22/01/2025 21:51

Yes I thought the OP might be Melissa. Just another clever trolling strategy. Give it up Mei,sa. Time to stop now.

Not unless Melissa has been posting all manner of non-BL related shite on here for a while.

She’d really need to be playing the long game.