I can see my friend gets a bit dissapointed when her baby doesn’t get that attention from me but get from her other friends. I don’t ignore the baby because thats a bit rude to me. But most of my focus is on my friend. Her baby just turned 1, so very mobile and active baby. She asked me why i didn’t want to hold her baby while we walked. For me it seems pointless walking with a baby on my arms, also im a but clumsy walker so i be afraid of dropping her baby or falling and hurting the baby if, thats what i told her not the pointless but only that im afraid of dropping.idk why some people need others to hold and cho em babies? Im not very good with them until they are older and can talk and you can have a Conversation with them. Babies aren’t my thing, im mostly awkward around em. And i don’t enjoy holding them either, and often they start crying to so... And if i have my own baby one time i would definitely not just try to force my baby on others unless they ask and want to. Sometimes even if not needed she just ask me to hold her but i give her back when we start walking because i don’t like that. We often hang all togheter with our boyfriends.