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AIBU to be fed up with all the Keir Starmer threads

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 22/01/2025 17:56

It's giving me flashbacks to 2016 when there were about 20 threads a day saying nonsense like, "AIBU to be concerned about the EU's plans to conscript everyone into an EU wide army?"

Just put a sock in it, already.

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EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:53

MN is not a WhatsApp group for Labour supporters attending their party conference.

@Rummly Ha true. Although not sure about the two terms. Much of their support is already gone

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/01/2025 12:50

You know, if anything I feel ever so slightly vindicated.

Because I refused to vote Labour due to their stance on women's rights, and I lost count of the number of people who told me that I had to vote Labour because the most important thing was ending 14 years of Tory misrule and that when the country was back on an even keel we could get back to fighting for women's rights.

My response to that was that I might agree with that if I could see any evidence that Labour actually had a plan to fix the country, but they didn't seem to.

So far they don't seem to be fixing the country, so I was right on that front.

But is the country on the brink of collapse? I don't think so. It survived Brexit and the Tories, it can certainly survive Keir Starmer.

It's just same shit different day, isn't it? All that's changed is which group of people are saying the sky's about to fall in and which group are saying everything will be fine and we just need to give it time.

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Rummly · 24/01/2025 12:50

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/01/2025 12:37

It's not about agreeing or not agreeing. It's the high drama.

If you're suggesting the end is nigh after only 6 months of a Labour government then yes I am going to think you are being silly.

I do think this will be a two-term Labour government. Predictions of Labour collapse are very wide of the mark indeed. I say that as somebody who strongly opposes Starmer and the rest of the talentless Labour shower.

But all that means is that there will be many anti-Labour threads for a long time.

It’s the price of power. Get used to it.

MN is not a WhatsApp group for Labour supporters attending their party conference.

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:45

Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/01/2025 12:28

I'd go further than that. Many normal people are alse left leaning, but are either employed or were employed in the public sector, or receive some form of income top-up or benefits. So they are not directly impacted by the competence of the government in the short term, and don't care if people in the private sector lose their jobs or the economy shrinks as a result of their economic polices.

They aren't impacted, and will continue to believe they are right even when the evidence is overwhelmingly negative. Those in the centre and on the right want to grow the economy and make everyone better off (even if that is, in the eyes of the left, not 'equally' shared), whereas those on the left / far left would happily shrink the economy, as long as they aren't worse off. Which, ironically, makes those on the left more selfish than those in the centre or on the right!!

Yes good points, hence the contracting of the private sector and job losses being ignored by public sector. Until it hits that sector that is

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/01/2025 12:44

Macrodatarefiner · 24/01/2025 12:37

Just like people got used to Brexit and accepted that 🤭

I think most people have, haven't they?

Still can't for the life of me work out what the fuck it was all for though.

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BIossomtoes · 24/01/2025 12:41

The state of the economy affects everyone @Tryingtokeepgoing and it’s insulting the intelligence of people who voted Labour to suggest they don’t understand that. The difference is that we know trickle down economics doesn’t work, we’ve tried that model and the gulf between the poorest and the richest has grown as a result.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/01/2025 12:39

To be more accurate, those who voted for it and are reasonably satisfied in it are collapsing in numbers, and no one, satisfied or otherwise, is going anywhere.

Clearly the government isn't going anywhere either (physically or metaphorically) though its composition has and will continue to change. But does that mean that people shouldn't criticise it? Why should it not be held to the same level of scrutiny as any other government?

I mean, if everything was going well and the country felt positive, then perhaps people would focus on other things. Blair got that. But while the government’s actions continue to negatively impact so many people I think its churlish to just stamp one's feet and say nothing’s going to change, so put up with it and shut up. All it needs is a vision and some leadership.

Macrodatarefiner · 24/01/2025 12:37

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 11:21

That sounds rather threatening. This government has been elected with a mandate to serve for five years. People will just have to get used to it.

Just like people got used to Brexit and accepted that 🤭

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/01/2025 12:37

hazelnutvanillalatte · 24/01/2025 11:27

So you don't mind threads with this subject matter (obviously), you just don't want anyone to disagree with you.

For the record, I'm not pro-Tory by any means. But the hypocrisy is a bit ridiculous.

It's not about agreeing or not agreeing. It's the high drama.

If you're suggesting the end is nigh after only 6 months of a Labour government then yes I am going to think you are being silly.

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Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/01/2025 12:28

twistyizzy · 24/01/2025 11:25

Morrisons just announced job losses on top of those announced by Sainsbury's. Labour incompetence and ideology has an impact on normal people, it doesn't have an impact on Labour cabinet members.

I'd go further than that. Many normal people are alse left leaning, but are either employed or were employed in the public sector, or receive some form of income top-up or benefits. So they are not directly impacted by the competence of the government in the short term, and don't care if people in the private sector lose their jobs or the economy shrinks as a result of their economic polices.

They aren't impacted, and will continue to believe they are right even when the evidence is overwhelmingly negative. Those in the centre and on the right want to grow the economy and make everyone better off (even if that is, in the eyes of the left, not 'equally' shared), whereas those on the left / far left would happily shrink the economy, as long as they aren't worse off. Which, ironically, makes those on the left more selfish than those in the centre or on the right!!

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:28

I'm pretty sure this thread is bemoaning the number of Starmer threads with some agreeing it's too many. I don't care

People should post away, even those that loathe him.

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 12:25

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:15

Satisfaction is low, the majority are dissatisfied so those thinking they can order this site to not see criticism will have to do it in other ways, ie hiding threads, rather than expecting posters to stop.

You do seem fixated on the idea that posters are trying to order the site not to see criticism of the government. The fact is that people can express their dissatisfaction as much as they like. The government isn't going anywhere, and those who voted for it and are reasonably satisfied aren't going anywhere either.

BIossomtoes · 24/01/2025 12:24

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:15

Satisfaction is low, the majority are dissatisfied so those thinking they can order this site to not see criticism will have to do it in other ways, ie hiding threads, rather than expecting posters to stop.

Starmer’s satisfaction ratings are stellar compared with Thatcher’s at this point in her government. 🤷‍♀️

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 12:15

Satisfaction is low, the majority are dissatisfied so those thinking they can order this site to not see criticism will have to do it in other ways, ie hiding threads, rather than expecting posters to stop.

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 12:10

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 11:54

There's nothing to 'discuss'

Stay or go but there will be threads criticising Starmer and Labour whatever. Click or don't, it won't change that

I don't think I suggested otherwise.
The people who voted for the government and are broadly satisfied with it won't be going anywhere either - and neither will the current government.

Sherbs12 · 24/01/2025 12:09

MyNameIsX · 24/01/2025 10:12

Unfortunately for you, you fail to hear the drumbeats, to sense the mood, to read the room. The UK is pretty unique in embarking on its current, and ill-advised socialist ‘experiment’. Large, and influential parts of the world have swung to the right. Your beloved Govt doesn’t operate in a vacuum.

Policy will be dictated. Politicians will fall.

Socialist experiment? How so?

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/01/2025 12:06

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 11:42

And, of course, the suggestion that those who voted Labour and are reasonably satisfied with the government leave the site and find somewhere else to post.

I thought there was a politics topic on MN people could use for pro or anti government opinions?

Its not what I would use AIBU for myself.

Sherbs12 · 24/01/2025 12:00

MyNameIsX · 24/01/2025 11:00

Question.

How do you explain reader comments attached to the MSM? Many websites, including the BBC, Guardian, FT etc permit them. How do you explain readers criticism of this Government - or do you label them misinformed too?

As I’ve already clearly stated, I have no issue with criticism at all - it’s inevitable, necessary and healthy. As with everything, there are a mixture of comments on MSM and on social media. I’m not really sure what your point is? What is it that you want me to explain to you exactly?

If someone criticises Labour’s policy on the two child benefit cap because of the impact of that on children in poverty, then that is obviously very different to GB News presenters/their viewers immediately accusing the PM of a cover-up on the horrendous crime in Southport when he is, in fact, following the legal process, as advised by the CPS, so as not to be in contempt of court.

Landowners will criticise Labour about inheritance tax, private school parents will criticise them over closing the VAT loophole - all totally to be expected and right that it’s debated. But when people rage that Labour have shut down any inquiries on grooming gangs because Starmer is implicated, when they actually just didn’t want the last-minute Tory amendment to kill a much-needed children’s bill, or Farage claims council elections have been cancelled to avoid defeat, when they’ve been postponed due to boundary changes, then that we are in very different territory. Varied debate and criticism is needed, but truth, fact and critical thinking have to be at the centre of that.

BIossomtoes · 24/01/2025 11:57

Look at readers comments yourself

No thanks, I’ll stick to facts if it’s all right with you. Or even if it isn’t.

Huckyfell · 24/01/2025 11:54

The biggest issue is the press, whatever government is in all they do is bring up every tiny insignificant (often) detail and spread it over the front page. Whether it is tories/labour/democrats/republicans/reform etc etc, the press will pull it to pieces and we the "readers" take in every single word and believe it as gospel.
I say this as having had first hand experience with a press report and they twist the truth unbelievably, you read an article you have had to do with and think they must be reading about some other scenario.
On a personal level I am not keen on Starmer due to his inability to answer a straight black and white question on any one of the PMQ's. But probably the same with all leaders, I just haven't watched them much until lately.

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 11:54

There's nothing to 'discuss'

Stay or go but there will be threads criticising Starmer and Labour whatever. Click or don't, it won't change that

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 11:49

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 11:44

No stay and click on every thread about it

Honestly the moaning about anything not pro Labour

See it like that if you want to. I'm not inclined to get drawn into discussing it with you.

MyNameIsX · 24/01/2025 11:46

MN should commission a piece on the contrasting effects of Starmer’s and Trump’s respective styles upon entering office. Whilst Trump enters full of positivity, ambition, and bravado on the back of record economic discontent among Americans, Starmer tried his luck with doom, gloom and pessimism on the back of inheriting the G7’s fastest growing economy.

Whilst Trump has been met with investors throwing money hand over fist into the American economy, Starmer has had to send Reeves on a global humiliation tour, from Beijing to Davos, with a begging bowl.

A cold hard assessment of political sentiment, may uncover a great deal about diverging fortunes between the US and UK….

EasternStandard · 24/01/2025 11:44

No stay and click on every thread about it

Honestly the moaning about anything not pro Labour

ilovesooty · 24/01/2025 11:42

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/01/2025 11:35

Yes me too!

And, of course, the suggestion that those who voted Labour and are reasonably satisfied with the government leave the site and find somewhere else to post.