Posting here for traffic as the clock is ticking.
I have a very stressful relationship with my mother. She either a Narcissist or shows lots of traits. She can be extremely hurtful to me, and more recently my SEN daughter. I am no contact since last month to protect us.
Her dog which we are very fond of is dying and is booked into vets on Friday. If she doesn’t go before then, Friday will be her last day 😭 She has messaged to tell me this, and that now is our chance to see her one last time.
Should we go ?
AIBU - Yes go, I’ll regret it otherwise.
AINBU - Don’t go, it’s too upsetting and nothing good will come from it and you’ll regret it.