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Clorrien · 22/01/2025 10:57

I’m feeling really conflicted and unsure what to do.
A few days ago DD (20) and I had a conversation about the likes of BonnieBlue and Lily Phillips. Mostly talking about how exploitative the porn industry is.
Anyway during the conversation she told me, someone we know has a “popular” onlyfans account. She then went on to tell me it is the daughter of one of my closest friends. The girl in question is 22. DD says she only knows as there is a link in one of her social media bios and a few of them who know her have spoken about it. I’m shocked tbh, this girl is beautiful, extremely intelligent (she got a full ride scholarship for a top US uni), and always seemed very well adjusted. Her family are very normal as well, parents very loving, not bad off financially so she has never wanted for anything. Apparently she uses a pseudonym but that seems beside the point.

Anyway, this girls mum and I talk most days and I’m finding it hard to not tell her, I doubt she knows and if it were my DD I’d want to know so I could protect her.

WIBU to tell my friend? Or is it none of my business.

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LittleRedRidingHoody · 22/01/2025 11:05

As a parent, how is she supposed to 'protect' her? I highly doubt the adult daughter is happily going to stop because her mum gets involved!

Also, yes the porn industry is hugely exploitative but using OF, if she's popular she'll be making decent money and controlling everything herself. She'll know what she's doing, and why, and at 22 quite frankly it's none of your business!

FallOfTheHouseOfUtterlyButterly · 22/01/2025 11:02
  1. You're very judgemental tbh, there's something uncomfortable about the way you talk about her being intelligent like you expect OF people to be thick
  2. It's linked on her socials it's not a secret
  3. Don't interfere.
Clorrien · 22/01/2025 11:00

loropianalover · 22/01/2025 10:59

If the link is openly in her social media bios surely her parents have already been told?

And why does she use a pseudonym if it’s linked in her bio?

Edited

Apparently it’s on her TikTok which she also uses a pseudonym on.

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loropianalover · 22/01/2025 10:59

If the link is openly in her social media bios surely her parents have already been told?

And why does she use a pseudonym if it’s linked in her bio?