DH cheated, I don’t believe his version of events

I put something similar to this the other day and I got well slammed for it off people on here thinking she should let him walk all over her,your so right tho once hes done it and she's allowed it then he will keep doing it now,it was maybe the part where I said she needs more respect for herself which I think she does,if he doesn't respect her then she needs to herself

Read the thread!

@Bellanova Does it even matter if they had penetrative sex or not?? He did hard drugs, spent the night with a stranger & was the willing recipient of 2 blow jobs!! The pathetic 'Oh, but I was under the influence' excuse doesn't cover the following morning!!
No. Just no. You wouldn't see me for dust.

Are you really going to stay with him??

He wasn't that messed up to get her instagram
though was he? And the fact he didn't even delete her should tell you everything.

OP I have just caught up with your replies, I am so sorry you are going through this wishing you and your little one all the best for the future and remember non of this is your fault he’s the one at fault don’t you ever doubt that for a second.

Wow. Is this how you are in real life, or just on the internet?

I agree you were correct about the husband. And I am fine with myself, thanks.
You sound really upset for some reason.
I am not on the habit of getting into ‘agg’ with anyone, especially on the internet.
We are all entitled to our own opinions, you are right on that, too.
So if I have upset you in any way, I apologise.
MN is a place to support each other. There’s enough going on in the world that’s confrontational right now.
So it’s a new day. Hope you have a good one. And I hope wherever she is OP is okay because she’s had a terrible time.

Some people on here have been REALLY triggered at suggestions they RTFT or even just OP's posts.

There is no problem tho! And also absolutely no point to any of it! It's strangers venting on the Internet! Some woman implying a blow job somehow isn't cheating. I just saw it and replied. What's the big deal?? Oh wait, there isn't one. And yeah, get over yourself. Oh wait, you don't like that either..take yourself off for a lie down.

The problem/point is it had moved on since the original post so there was no point in you replying to that without reading the updates 🤷🏻‍♀️

As for "Get over yourself". Are you 12?

Didn't realise there was a point! It's just venting on the Internet isnt it! I was correct in my original post about the hubby so what's the problem?? Get over yourself.

And by the way @sparepantsandtoothbrush that wasn’t aimed at you at all. I’m just joining in after your response.

I am not sure what’s idiotic about reading the OP’s updates? Surely that’s the whole point?
In this case the situation moved quite quickly, the OP was clearly devastated and not returned.
However, in many threads, especially longer ones there can be a lot of developments and the OP returns several times for support.
The fact is sometimes an OP will return after reading the posts after many days, will often feel a sense of support even if they don’t feel like updating constantly.
What difference does it make if you read the OP’s posts? A lot.

Bit much 😂

Did someone have a bad day by any chance?

You don't need to read every message but at least read the OPs. It's not hard to click the button

I’m so sorry OP. I can see from your messages how much you wanted to be able to get through this “indiscretion” and how you so wanted it to be a one off. I know it must hurt so much right now but I’m so glad you know the full extent of his betrayal. He sounds horrendous.
Please seek support from loved ones. Don’t face this alone. Xx

1. read the OP’s posts
2. take them into account before replying. Feel for OP, she’s not been back and I don’t blame her.

Not all of them no, there were so many but yes I did suggest other people look at all of OP's posts - you would have known that if you had read more of the thread.
However, it was intended as a helpful suggestion as not everyone is aware of the option on threads
Still, if you want to take it as a personal insult then just do whatever makes you happier

I assume you’ve also tagged other people who haven’t read all the updates too. Or is it just me who has the pleasure of your input?

You can read just OP's posts rather than the whole thread before posting if you want to be relevent

@TwinklySquid

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Nor does replying to my post or expecting people to read 600+ previous posts.

Sometimes the best advice is the realistic/harsh advice. I say this from experience.

if you feel so passionate about this, why don’t you do a running commentary as opposed to adding nonsense to an already long thread?

Dont get your knickers in a twist pet! Who's got time to read thru every msg?