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I've got myself in a pickle for telling a lie

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mumspiration1997 · 20/01/2025 22:08

Ahh I've really got myself into a pickle.

A family member asked me the week before Christmas would I drop a gift into someone.

It would have taken me an hour and I genuinely was putting it off until I had time I even thought ill pop it in after Xmas (the recipient was on holidays so did not see the immediate rush)

I was transferred the £40 to buy the gift.

However when my family member asked me did I sent it in I said yes I did (and as I said fully intended to before the recipient returned home) and now someone (another family member) has checked for it while checking on the house and its not obviously there . I already said I dropped it off otherwise I could say ah it's still in my car.

Now they have just text saying.

"Hi tried to contact you. Either the gift wasn't there or it has been stolen I'd like to investigate this further. I'm down £40"

I'm so embarrassed! I didn't steal the money. Should I just say "I don't know what's happened I'm transferring you the money back" or fabricate some story about "Oh the neighbours cat took it"

I am NOT saying I didn't leave it in at this stage, I feel belittled enough.

Help!!!! I'll never fib again...but I'll also never take on anyone else's chores again!!!!!

OP posts:
Icanttakethisanymore · 20/01/2025 22:15

Say you’d meant to drop it roubd but it’s in your car. Drop it round asap.

TrixieFatell · 20/01/2025 22:14

Could you not say that because the person is away you didn't want to leave an expensive gift out until they had returned? Say you misunderstood what they were asking in terms of have you done it.

Edited to say the suggestion above is better

Porkyporkchop · 20/01/2025 22:13

But the gift and take it round, apologise to everyone “I thought I dropped it off, but actually gave it to Susan by mistake “ or something along those lines

mumspiration1997 · 20/01/2025 22:13

Summerdew · 20/01/2025 22:12

Buy the gift, take it round and put it behind the sofa / in a bedroom and say you left it out of sight in case of burglars.

Oooh I like this idea.

OP posts:
Summerdew · 20/01/2025 22:12

Buy the gift, take it round and put it behind the sofa / in a bedroom and say you left it out of sight in case of burglars.

mumspiration1997 · 20/01/2025 22:12

HalfMumHalfBiccit · 20/01/2025 22:11

Buy the gift drop it round apologise.

Thank you. Apologise to my family member or the recipient? How can I do this without them finding out I didn't originally do it.

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HalfMumHalfBiccit · 20/01/2025 22:11

Buy the gift drop it round apologise.

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