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Park Runs: Children - Why?

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Knowillbeflamed · 19/01/2025 09:12

There’s a park run every Sunday near me. They jog along the pavement by the seafront taking the whole damn thing up so no one else can even walk along it.

Honestly, I don’t get running. But, what I understand even less is dragging young children along?! Yes, the older one’s (10+) seem to enjoy it but there’s at least 5x more that seem wayyyy to young - toddlers, very young kids - who hate it. They’re dragged along by their parents, literally kicking and screaming and crying.

AIBU to think if your kid hates running that much or patently doesn’t want to be there, that you do NOT force it on them?! Just because you like running doesn’t mean you force it on them. Find them an activity they enjoy.

PS. Yes I am annoyed by the sheer ignorance of 100+ people taking up that much space and forcing others to dive out the way - but mostly it’s the shrill screams of toddlers being forced to run that drives me bonkers. Someone will pop up and say ‘they love it,’ but I’m sorry - kids screaming ‘it hurts’ ‘I don’t want to’ whilst their parents drag them along by their wrist just angers me. And it’s not one parent one week - it’s multiple different parents on various weeks.

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Magamaga · 19/01/2025 09:22

I hate running but I can think of reasons why people would take their children to it. Can you really not see why getting children involved in exercise is a good thing?

I also know lots of children much younger than 10 who really enjoy running. Not mine.

WeGoSlow · 19/01/2025 09:22

How wonderful that so many children are being encouraged to take part in a healthy outdoor activity.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 19/01/2025 09:20

What’s not to get about running?

As @NerrSnerr says, it’s junior parkrun. Kids often don’t like things that are good for them. Small children often tantrum even when they wanted to do a thing! Should they be at home with coco pops and cartoons because that’s what they say they want?

SpecduckularlyQuackers · 19/01/2025 09:20

The minimum age for junior parkrun is 4 so it should be unlikely there are loads of toddlers being dragged along screaming.

nutsandraisinsrock · 19/01/2025 09:19

Just go to the park at a different time. You have the rest of the week.

Most kids love it, if you're a runner you'll know that some days it's harder than others - as adults we don't tend to cry on a bad run, but kids haven't worked this out yet. Generally it's a good thing to be taking part in - fresh air, friends, exercise - I can't really see your problem.

NerrSnerr · 19/01/2025 09:17

If it's Sunday it'll be junior parkrun which is 2k. It'll be over in 40 minutes maximum (most will be finished within 25-30 mins).

I think it's good that parents are trying to get their children doing something outside and healthy.

You know when it is, Sunday at 9am so just avoid in that narrow window.