How much input do you have in your partners wardrobe/appearance

None. Except his socks and slippers because I bought him some for Christmas. Same the other way around.

What do you mean "let themselves go"?!

Have you never heard of this in relation to appearance?

It generally means looking scruffy/disheveled/no longer caring about appearance (although sometimes it can relate to hygiene too).

Very little, older when met but he'll ask my opinion/I will offer one if shopping together however his style is very much set. He does encourage me to spend more on myself as 25 years of motherhood means I forget that my money is mine now

None, like he doesn't get to say what I wear either.

I mean, if I like a particular jumper or something, I would say "I like that jumper" as I would with anyone I met.

What do you mean "let themselves go"?!

It's fucking rude and controlling to dictate someone else's appearance

We find we increasingly need to anti-coordinate. We have a similar style and are drawn to similar colours. Too often we finish getting dressed and realise we are wearing near identical outfits. One of us will then get changed 😂

I'd rather not have/need to have input but my partner periodically let's himself go and I remind him to smarten up for work at least. He's not materialistic which I honestly admire but he can look insanely bedraggled which is a shame because he's a seriously attractive man :)

Zero.

None. He will ask my thoughts rarely but he decides what he wears. I like his style

OMG my FIL has a wolf fleece!

I'm not quite sure what MIL makes of it to be honest 🤣

I buy clothes for him but only because I love shopping. He chooses his work clothes because they're tailored suits, but I have input in his casual clothes. He wears suits all day but dresses like a son of anarchy outside of work, so I don't mind getting involved.

I buy my clothes but he has a say in them, he's also good at buying me clothes. We're happy to critique outfits and request certain clothes or hair styling etc

We've definitely said "what on earth are you wearing" before!

No input really but he knows he’s not allowed to wear his wolf fleece when he’s out with me 🤣

None.

Might buy them something on occasion. Usually based on what I think they’d like, rather than what I’d like them to wear.

My DH is not interested in clothes really. He buys cheap but functional stuff. Yes I could "improve" him but I'm not that bothered what he wears. Yes he's a bit overgrown teenager in his choices sometimes but we can't all be stylish can we. He has other qualities that make up for a bit of sloppiness clothes wise.

He's pretty good at realising when things don't fit/ are worn out. Apart from a much loved jumper that started to get holes in but he still wore out and about.

Fortunately I found one similar enough for a Xmas present and he has transferred his affection to the new one. He's wearing it now. Bless him.

Mostly none, it would be really controlling to try and dictate what another adult wears. If we were going somewhere formal, where he's there with/because of me, I may ask him to follow the dress code (eg. Not jeans to my sisters wedding), but he would generally manage that anyway.

If I noticed he was regularly wearing a jumper with holes in it, I might buy him a similar new jumper as part of his next birthday/Christmas present, but that would be the extent of my involvement.

No input at all and if he's wearing something particularly nice, I compliment him like I would anyone.

I work with a couple of women who buy their husbands clothes for them and will have a conversation that can last all lunchtime, regarding the best place to buy their shirts, boxers and socks.

It's like they never got past the 1950s 😳🤣

No input into dh’s wardrobe and he doesn’t have any input in mine.
Just neither of us are especially bothered about what the other wears!
I have a colleague who’s fanatical about co-ordinating with her husband when they are going out for dinner, she goes out at lunch to pick him up eg a tie that will match her shoes or a shirt that will compliment her bag. Bonkers imo, because if dh or I go anywhere, the first we know of what each other are wearing will be as we’re getting ready 😂
But we’re all different, I don’t openly judge her decision!