So the title is a bit misleading because it doesn't annoy me the majority of the time but it mean he is gone alot most weekends. I'm 28 weeks pregnant with a 2 year old and I have Sciatica and recently horrible headaches. He had a 4 hour run planned since last week obviously this was fine when it was planned. This morning when his alarm was going off at 4.30am and he couldn't hear it so our DC woke up just after 5 and he needed to leave as soon as. I woke up with a terrible headache, I was up most of the night with back pain and leg cramps and DC was having a hard time because she didn't want her Daddy to go.
He got his back up because I was in a mood about the situation. Like he thinks I have a problem with his running, I don't. I just thought it was all a bit much this morning and probably came across selfish. I ended up giving DC my phone for YouTube and going back to bed for an hour l, got her up to eat and I had to lay in bed because my head was splitting. On top of this he has the car and I need to get some things in the shop but walking is so tough right now with my back pain. I'm just feeling hard done by maybe.
So how do I explain it's not the hobby I have a problem with? Maybe it's a bit of jealousy as hes with his mates and will probably go for breakfast etc after and I'm really struggling at home. We both work full time too and he does try to make his runs for early in the morning so hes not gone alot but I'm noticing that after the week, I really need a lay in. Am I just being a nag?