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Have I harmed my baby?

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momofonex · 18/01/2025 04:24

I've done something so stupid

I am 6 weeks pregnant and currently very unwell. I have never felt this ill before - very much cough/cold like symptoms however the headache + the leg aches/pain is just on another level

The only thing that has been helping the pain is soluable Solphadine (not the coedine one, the paracetamol + caffeine one)

I stupidly read somewhere that the caffeine in these tablets is 30g caffeine per tablet (so around 60g for two). However I stupidly stupidly didn't read the packet and it turns out it's over 60 PER TABLET.

I've had 6 in the last 12hrs so that puts my caffeine up to 360+, add in a can of coke and a tea to that within 24hrs my caffeine must be close to 500mg for the day 😢 that's more than double the recommended dose!

I've been in so much pain and feeling so ill that I didn't even check properly and now I'm panicking that I've increased my risk of miscarriage? I've had losses before and this baby is pretty much our last shot before we give up. Please tell me a one off caffeine increase is okay?

OP posts:
TaggieO · 18/01/2025 08:54

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:48

@TaggieO well I ate stuff they say U can't and my baby is fine 🤔🤔 so clearly not enough research tbh I have 4 kids and they all fine so it's bullshit the only thing I say U must take is folic acid cos I was taking it but kept being sick so wasn't in my system and I gave birth to girl 21weeks and she had spina bifda and that was lack of folic acid. Sadly she died so that's the only advice I could give

Can you not see how “I did it anyway and it was fine” doesn’t mean it’s ok? If I run across the motorway and I’m fine that doesn’t mean the next person isn’t going to get hit by a car.

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:48

@TaggieO well I ate stuff they say U can't and my baby is fine 🤔🤔 so clearly not enough research tbh I have 4 kids and they all fine so it's bullshit the only thing I say U must take is folic acid cos I was taking it but kept being sick so wasn't in my system and I gave birth to girl 21weeks and she had spina bifda and that was lack of folic acid. Sadly she died so that's the only advice I could give

fairytailcat · 18/01/2025 08:39

No. The baby is fine

But the caffeine wont do much for your anxiety

TaggieO · 18/01/2025 08:37

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:35

I drank fizzy pop through my pregnancy and my baby is 2weeks old and he's fine , they say all sorts U can't do this U can't do that ,wat U think they use to do in olding days. It's ridiculous

They also had far higher rates of poor outcomes. Just because something is different to how it used to be doesn’t make it ridiculous.

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:36

@momofonex when I was pregnant I got the same fever chills and I used stronger pain killers and he's fine honestly don't worry

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:35

I drank fizzy pop through my pregnancy and my baby is 2weeks old and he's fine , they say all sorts U can't do this U can't do that ,wat U think they use to do in olding days. It's ridiculous

momofonex · 18/01/2025 08:33

I know, trying to save it now for when i desperately need it but wow the pain in my legs/muscles are unreal.

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MissEloiseBridgerton · 18/01/2025 08:30

I wouldn't be too worried about the caffeine. Just be careful with paracetamol though, you are very close to the limit in 12 hours. No more than 8 in 24 hours.

momofonex · 18/01/2025 08:10

Thank you all for your responses you've made me feel alot better!

Sorry yes I meant the limit is around 200mg and the tablet is around 65mg

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WombatStewForTea · 18/01/2025 08:03

TaggieO · 18/01/2025 07:58

65MG not 65G. Each one is 0.065 of a gram, not 65 grams!

This!
But OP get used to only being able to take plain paracetamol when feeling like crap. Solpadeine, Lemsip etc all say can't be taken in pregnancy

TaggieO · 18/01/2025 07:58

65MG not 65G. Each one is 0.065 of a gram, not 65 grams!

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Twaddlepip · 18/01/2025 07:53

I used to have a double strength coffee and 3/4 cups of tea every day. I was very fit and healthy and exercised a lot in pregnancy. All fine.

What I don’t want you to do OP, with your history, is blame yourself were anything to happen. Because it won’t be you and it certainly won’t be this.

TheWholeMealBaby · 18/01/2025 07:51

Easter Bank Holiday weekend 2006 - I went out drinking on the Friday night, Saturday afternoon/night and Sunday afternoon/night. I found out the following week I was pregnant with my first child.
Obviously not ideal but he is now 18 years old , 6'4 and working in engineering, no harm done.
Babies are born in all sorts of less than ideal circumstances and whilst it is great to minimise risk the odd slip up now and again isn't catastrophic, you maybe pregnant but you still have to live your life.

oakleaffy · 18/01/2025 07:14

@momofonex It’s 65 milligrams per tablet, not Grammes- that’s nothing to worry about for one day
Think of all the mothers who love their espresso coffees - Italy and France - put your mind at rest ,phone your midwife, she will reassure you.

RabbitsEatPancakes · 18/01/2025 07:10

1 day of excess caffeine won't have done anything. Especially so earlier, the placenta isn't even fully formed yet and that how the caffeine would be getting to baby.

oakleaffy · 18/01/2025 07:08

WonderingWanda · 18/01/2025 07:02

At this stage and for one day I doubt you've done any lasting damage. The effects of caffeine seem to be linked to poor growth and development over time. One day won't make a difference.

How on earth are you sleeping with that much caffiene in your system?

It surely can’t be 60 grammes (g) per tablet
That would be a phenomenal dose.

WonderingWanda · 18/01/2025 07:02

At this stage and for one day I doubt you've done any lasting damage. The effects of caffeine seem to be linked to poor growth and development over time. One day won't make a difference.

How on earth are you sleeping with that much caffiene in your system?

oakleaffy · 18/01/2025 07:01

No way would it be 60 g ( grammes) per tablet- that’s almost two ounces per tablet and they would be physically massive -
That has been misread, surely?

blackberryhill · 18/01/2025 06:58

I recall reading when I was pregnant that when it comes to caffeine and miscarriage (1) there isn't any clear evidence of a link and (2) where studies have shown higher risks of miscarriage, it's because most people's caffeine consumption is as a result of coffee drinking, and it's not necessarily that higher caffeine increases miscarriage risk, it's that women who can stomach drinking 4-5 cups of coffee in early pregnancy may have lower hCG levels and pregnancies that were already not viable.

Either way, I really wouldn't worry - I'm sure your baby will be totally fine.

Allswellthatendswelll · 18/01/2025 06:57

I really think you will be fine. People do all kinds of things before they even realise they are pregnant.

Youhaveyourhandsfull · 18/01/2025 06:56

I smoked for a few weeks before finding out about DD 😬
12 years later she's fine!

NewYearStillFat · 18/01/2025 06:55

OP when you’re pregnant with no.2 and a small one running around you will doubtless exceed the daily caffeine limit just to survive the day. It’ll be fine.

User09678 · 18/01/2025 06:55

I'm quite sure it won't have done any harm, I think persistent use over a pregnancy could to some extent but how many generations were fine with our mothers drinking several pots of coffee a day!

I would say cool it eith the stimulants if you're feeling so unwell though and try and rest/sleep if you can to give yourself a chance to heal. Early pregnancy feels awful enough as it is.

Jinglesomeoftheway · 18/01/2025 06:54

I didn't know I was pregnant until 10 weeks for one pregnancy and had about the same intake of coffee as that every day until I found out! Child is perfectly chilled and healthy. Guidelines will be much lower than the actual safe amount just so people don't push it too much.

Also I might be wrong but this early in pregnancy I thought baby not connected by placenta yet and still feeding off the yolk, so perhaps wouldn't have even been passed any caffeine anyway? (I'm definitely no expert so could be wrong)

Username19832756 · 18/01/2025 06:54

As people have said drink plenty of water but your baby will be absolutely fine :)