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Have I harmed my baby?

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momofonex · 18/01/2025 04:24

I've done something so stupid

I am 6 weeks pregnant and currently very unwell. I have never felt this ill before - very much cough/cold like symptoms however the headache + the leg aches/pain is just on another level

The only thing that has been helping the pain is soluable Solphadine (not the coedine one, the paracetamol + caffeine one)

I stupidly read somewhere that the caffeine in these tablets is 30g caffeine per tablet (so around 60g for two). However I stupidly stupidly didn't read the packet and it turns out it's over 60 PER TABLET.

I've had 6 in the last 12hrs so that puts my caffeine up to 360+, add in a can of coke and a tea to that within 24hrs my caffeine must be close to 500mg for the day 😢 that's more than double the recommended dose!

I've been in so much pain and feeling so ill that I didn't even check properly and now I'm panicking that I've increased my risk of miscarriage? I've had losses before and this baby is pretty much our last shot before we give up. Please tell me a one off caffeine increase is okay?

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YankSplaining · 19/01/2025 14:17

Lord, no. I was taking four different psych meds (including Adderall) early in my pregnancy and my ten-year-old is a bright kid with no disabilities. (Except for a shortened finger that the hand specialist said was completely unrelated.)

FoxInTheForest · 19/01/2025 14:13

Also, caffeine is actually given to premature babies as medication. It's not innately bad for them in the way alcohol is.

FoxInTheForest · 19/01/2025 14:12

A not insignificant amount of women are still drinking alcohol at that stage not realising they are pregnant if it's a contraception failure.
The placenta isn't there yet so it's even less significant than later in the pregnancy. Stress will likely do more harm, just relax and be grateful you realised now rather than it happening later in pregnancy.

Balloonhearts · 19/01/2025 14:09

Oh good, just wanted to be sure. There isn't enough caffeine in that to cause damage from using it for one day.

ItGhoul · 19/01/2025 12:17

This will have absolutely zero effect on your baby. You really, really don’t need to worry about this. It’s caffeine, not crack cocaine.

NewYearStillFat · 19/01/2025 12:13

Hipalong · 18/01/2025 18:06

Theyre not professionals, they just read off a screen. They won't have a notion.

But it's fine.

I agree it’s entirely pointless phoning. But 111 can get a doctor to call you back and sometimes offer advice.

My son ate some of a toilet disc when he was a toddler and they were able to look it up and advise me on the phone. Not totally useless.

Icanttakethisanymore · 18/01/2025 20:11

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 08:48

@TaggieO well I ate stuff they say U can't and my baby is fine 🤔🤔 so clearly not enough research tbh I have 4 kids and they all fine so it's bullshit the only thing I say U must take is folic acid cos I was taking it but kept being sick so wasn't in my system and I gave birth to girl 21weeks and she had spina bifda and that was lack of folic acid. Sadly she died so that's the only advice I could give

You don’t understand risk, at all.

edit to add, I didn’t read the end of your post, I was having a someone visceral reaction to the first half of it (I’m a statistician), but I’m genuinely very sorry for your loss. Xx

momofonex · 18/01/2025 19:55

@Balloonhearts it's this one I've took

Have I harmed my baby?
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Frlrlrubert · 18/01/2025 19:49

Solphadine Headache is paracetamol and caffeine only.

There was another thread on caffeine in pregnancy other day, honestly OP, you'll be fine.

The studies they set the dosage off, when you actually look into them, show that you'd make yourself physically ill with it before you harmed your baby.

Balloonhearts · 18/01/2025 18:54

momofonex · 18/01/2025 17:22

It wasn't the coedine one. Just the dissolvable ones that has paracetamol + caffeine x

Are you sure? Because I googled solphadine to check dosage and there wasn't one with no codeine. There was one with no caffeine but not one with no codeine.

Hipalong · 18/01/2025 18:06

TMGM · 18/01/2025 05:02

Call 111 they can alleviate your worries as they’re professionals (unlike most of us on here!). I doubt you’ve caused any harm but best to check and be fully reassured.

Theyre not professionals, they just read off a screen. They won't have a notion.

But it's fine.

TMGM · 18/01/2025 17:45

Tandora · 18/01/2025 17:22

There’s literally no advice they can give someone 6 weeks preg who’s consumed caffeine other than to say “it’s fine”. That’s it. That’s the option.

If it would make OP more comfortable/ give her reassurance she could by all means call/ text her midwife, who will also be unable to say anything other than “it’s fine”.
Calling 111 or seeking emergency care would be totally pointless.

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As I said, some people need to hear “It’s fine” from a professional rather than internet randoms with no qualifications otherwise they could be stressing and worrying over nothing.

Additionally, you’re literally told to go through 111 if you can’t get hold of your midwife and have a concern.

Tandora · 18/01/2025 17:33

momofonex · 18/01/2025 17:29

Thank you so much for the reassurance. I'm not usually this anxious but I think feeling so ill combined with lack of sleep and the general anxiety in the first trimester has just sent me a tad insane 😁

Early pregnancy can be such an anxious time. Wishing you all the best OP and congratulations ❤️

momofonex · 18/01/2025 17:29

Thank you so much for the reassurance. I'm not usually this anxious but I think feeling so ill combined with lack of sleep and the general anxiety in the first trimester has just sent me a tad insane 😁

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Ttrwq · 18/01/2025 17:26

@momofonex think of the very many people who don’t even know they are pregnant until 8 plus weeks and have worse than caffeine! Don’t worry. So will be fine.

Tandora · 18/01/2025 17:22

TMGM · 18/01/2025 15:54

Lol, yes they can. Advice entails anything ranging from “don’t worry about it” to “come in and get your stomach pumped” (obviously not going to happen, before you say it). A quick phone call for them to say “don’t worry” is likely be all that’s needed, but it’s better for someone medically trained to say there’s no concern than from internet ransoms with no discernible medical background.

I can guarantee the people on 111 prefer you to call so they can alleviate fears than the one time someone doesn’t call and the worst happens. Do what feels right for your situation, but don’t tell people they are being silly when they are just looking for reassurance on a medical issue, you don’t know if they’ve had previous losses that cause them to be more anxious about things like this. If something god forbid happened to the baby they could easily end up blaming themselves.

There’s literally no advice they can give someone 6 weeks preg who’s consumed caffeine other than to say “it’s fine”. That’s it. That’s the option.

If it would make OP more comfortable/ give her reassurance she could by all means call/ text her midwife, who will also be unable to say anything other than “it’s fine”.
Calling 111 or seeking emergency care would be totally pointless.

momofonex · 18/01/2025 17:22

Balloonhearts · 18/01/2025 12:31

That dose as one off isn't going to harm her, just don't make a habit of it. I'd be more concerned about the codeine in it, I was always told not to have codeine while pregnant.

It wasn't the coedine one. Just the dissolvable ones that has paracetamol + caffeine x

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TMGM · 18/01/2025 15:54

Tandora · 18/01/2025 12:16

There’s no “medical advice” or assistance they can provide regarding having consumed a bit of caffeine at 6 weeks pregnant

Lol, yes they can. Advice entails anything ranging from “don’t worry about it” to “come in and get your stomach pumped” (obviously not going to happen, before you say it). A quick phone call for them to say “don’t worry” is likely be all that’s needed, but it’s better for someone medically trained to say there’s no concern than from internet ransoms with no discernible medical background.

I can guarantee the people on 111 prefer you to call so they can alleviate fears than the one time someone doesn’t call and the worst happens. Do what feels right for your situation, but don’t tell people they are being silly when they are just looking for reassurance on a medical issue, you don’t know if they’ve had previous losses that cause them to be more anxious about things like this. If something god forbid happened to the baby they could easily end up blaming themselves.

Balloonhearts · 18/01/2025 12:31

That dose as one off isn't going to harm her, just don't make a habit of it. I'd be more concerned about the codeine in it, I was always told not to have codeine while pregnant.

Tandora · 18/01/2025 12:16

TMGM · 18/01/2025 11:37

Not silly at all, it’s better to have a quick phone call to be sure and calm your mind than take medical advice off of strangers on the internet. Pregnant women have enough to worry about already.

There’s no “medical advice” or assistance they can provide regarding having consumed a bit of caffeine at 6 weeks pregnant

TMGM · 18/01/2025 11:37

Tandora · 18/01/2025 06:52

That will be totally fine, those things are just daily guidelines it really won’t hurt the pregnancy honestly xx
(People telling you to go to day assessment or call 111 are being silly)

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Not silly at all, it’s better to have a quick phone call to be sure and calm your mind than take medical advice off of strangers on the internet. Pregnant women have enough to worry about already.

TaggieO · 18/01/2025 09:07

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 09:00

@TaggieO that's just ridiculous 🤣 never heard so much crap in my life the comparison is not the same!!!!! 😂😂😂😂

My point is that safety advice is safety advice for a reason. If you choose to ignore it and got lucky then that’s just it - luck. It doesn’t mean the next person. Will be as lucky. I’m sorry you don’t understand that.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/01/2025 09:05

I've been taking the cold and flu tablets that have caffeine in, and i drink plenty of coffee and have the occasional energy drink. I've really cut down on the energy drinks though used to be 1 or 2 a day now 1 a week. Lots and lots of coffee though!!!

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/01/2025 09:03

I probably have that amount of caffeine every day including through 2 pregnancies. I have a really high caffeine tolerance and can't really get through the day without it. At all my antenatal appointments I did say I was worried about it but they didn't seem too bothered, just made vague noises about me trying to cut down.

Michah89 · 18/01/2025 09:00

@TaggieO that's just ridiculous 🤣 never heard so much crap in my life the comparison is not the same!!!!! 😂😂😂😂