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Usedphone · 17/01/2025 14:32

I've got two dogs, and a cat. So our dogs are used to cats, but one is an airedale terrier, that does like to chase squirrels but really loves the cat (they were raised together from babies).

So while I was walking my dogs in the field, we encountered a family walking their cat, off lead and without any way to safely contain it.

My dog got excited and went after it like she would have with a squirrel (it's a field after all with plenty of dog walkers and squirrels).

The family got annoyed with me as the cat was very distressed (poor kitty!)

It was a very bizarre encounter but I think they should.at least have had a plan B beyond cuddles to contain their kitty cat.

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eightIsNewNine · 19/01/2025 14:05

dynamiccactus · 19/01/2025 13:05

I think this is a joke thread to be honest. Cats may follow their owners if they go for a walk but they don't get taken out on leads.

Some do. Primarily indoor cats which aren't used to the wild world outside can enjoy relatively safe walk on the lead to meet new smells.

Anyway, it doesn't matter whether the cat was on lead in this case - the cat jumped to it's human's arms. The issue is the dog

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 19/01/2025 13:18

dynamiccactus · 19/01/2025 13:05

I think this is a joke thread to be honest. Cats may follow their owners if they go for a walk but they don't get taken out on leads.

Except that some are.

dynamiccactus · 19/01/2025 13:06

Valeriekat · 18/01/2025 20:14

What an odd thing to say!

Why is it an odd thing to say? You don't put cats or squirrels or voles or foxes on leads.

You do put dogs on leads if there is any chance they will bother other people or animals.

dynamiccactus · 19/01/2025 13:05

LBFseBrom · 17/01/2025 15:28

I've never in my life seen anyone walk a cat, with or without lead. They walk alone! Is this in England?

I think this is a joke thread to be honest. Cats may follow their owners if they go for a walk but they don't get taken out on leads.

Rachmorr57 · 18/01/2025 23:23

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peachgreen · 18/01/2025 23:16

Valeriekat · 18/01/2025 20:14

What an odd thing to say!

… How is that odd?!

Valeriekat · 18/01/2025 20:14

peachgreen · 17/01/2025 14:47

If your dog can't be trusted around other animals, it's the one that should be on a lead. Obviously.

What an odd thing to say!

dementedpixie · 18/01/2025 18:44

This is a post my catsitter put on fb. I have taken a picture from the video she posted

Cat walking off lead
OhCrumbsWhereNow · 18/01/2025 18:10

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 18/01/2025 17:55

Pic or it didn't happen 🤣
Honestly though, I can't imagine how you walk a cat off lead as they give zero fucks and never do as they're asked?!

You walk and they walk in front, alongside or behind... or all 3... with various rest stops while they climb a tree, investigate a bush or decide they just want to sit for a bit.

They tend to do exactly the same on a lead as well. Which is a bit annoying when they get it caught on things, but not quite as tricky as walking a ferret.

Mainly they just want to be with their human and see what you are up to, so don't tend to go more than a few feet away.

And correct, zero fucks are given as usual so you just have to hope they are being cooperative.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 18/01/2025 17:55

Pic or it didn't happen 🤣
Honestly though, I can't imagine how you walk a cat off lead as they give zero fucks and never do as they're asked?!

Hotflushesandchilblains · 18/01/2025 17:53

oakleaffy · 18/01/2025 00:29

Poor girl. That must have been terrifying for you and her.
Glad she's ok {apart from limp}.

Thanks @oakleaffy it was! it was unnerving to be shouting, hitting the dog with a spare lead and trying to push it off and find it was so clamped on her it did not pay any attention. Even when my neighbour hit it with a broom. In the end, I had to straddle it, hook my hands under the collar and twist to make it let go. Poor old cat, she tried to run off and I thought it had broken her pelvis, she could not walk. Her whole torso was purple bruises and punctures, and she got really infected. So, all in all, a limp is not a bad outcome.

AlpacaMittens · 18/01/2025 06:06

Usedphone · 17/01/2025 14:48

I've never had an issue with my dog!

-Someone was walking their animal off a lead! And my dog chased it!
-Was your dog on a lead?
-No, my dog is speshul. It only chases after squirrels and cats (more animals TBC). Am I being unreasonable (I know I'm right).

Typical AIBU thread. The whole bingo.
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Eenameenadeeka · 18/01/2025 05:40

Your dog should have been on a lead if you can't control it. Not the cat? What in the world 😂

Paisleyandpolkadots · 18/01/2025 00:37

Your animal attacked their animal. Your fault. The cat had as much right to be unleashed as your dog. Their cat went to them while you were the one who couldn't recall their dog. Ideally, of course, both would have been leashed though most cats are very resistant except maybe some exotic breeds.

oakleaffy · 18/01/2025 00:29

Hotflushesandchilblains · 17/01/2025 19:24

Dogs unfortunately can and do kill cats.

Just to add, walking kitty got attacked just in front of our drive way by an aggressive out of control dog who had got out of its garden. It would have killed her if I had not been there to pull it off, 100%. She still has a limp 8 months later and is likely to have it for the rest of her life. She still likes to come along on a walk if she can sneak out though.

Poor girl. That must have been terrifying for you and her.
Glad she's ok {apart from limp}.

OhCrumbsWhereNow · 17/01/2025 22:00

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 18:57

The Oriental breeds do seem very partial to a stroll with their people.
Burmese, Siamese and Bengals- have seen all these breeds walking with their humans - sometimes accompanying the family dog.

Orientals are like a dog/cat hybrid I think. They're more into people than places and want to know what you are up to all the time.

There's a Bengal in my village who likes to lie in wait for people walking to the station on a very rural footpath. He hides in the bushes and then jumps out and grabs your ankles for fun.

He's very affectionate and friendly but I worry terribly that he'll get injured or stolen - he's stunningly beautiful.

dementedpixie · 17/01/2025 19:29

My cats walk with us when we put our bins out on a Friday night. We walk half way round our estate (it's a Crescent) and then walk back. They aren't on leads and follow us round and back for dreamies in the driveway. We sometimes see dogs with owners and the cats tend to hide under a car as the dogs are usually on leads.

Chemenger · 17/01/2025 19:25

Usedphone · 17/01/2025 14:48

I've never had an issue with my dog!

Well, you have now, surely. Your dog has a strong prey drive and was not under control.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 17/01/2025 19:24

Dogs unfortunately can and do kill cats.

Just to add, walking kitty got attacked just in front of our drive way by an aggressive out of control dog who had got out of its garden. It would have killed her if I had not been there to pull it off, 100%. She still has a limp 8 months later and is likely to have it for the rest of her life. She still likes to come along on a walk if she can sneak out though.

Puddingrun · 17/01/2025 19:23

My cat insists of following me everywhere. My husband has to hold it when I leave for work or he would follow me there. I have got to work before and then seen him and had to take him back home, daft cat! We sometimes go out for a walk with him. Our house backs on to the woods so we walk through there and if he sees a dog, he just shoots up the nearest tree.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 17/01/2025 19:21

That is crazy. I have a cat who will sometimes follow up on dog walks - but will run off and hide if we see another dog she does not know. If there is no where for her to go to, I pick her up. Its not ideal (its better if she does not come with us, but she is really good at predicting when we are going out and often pops up when we have started the walk). The really need to make a better plan for their poor kitty- she could get injured, and it will really be their fault.

HPandthelastwish · 17/01/2025 18:59

Mahoosive cat being walked in St James Park

Cat walking off lead
oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 18:57

Meezer2 · 17/01/2025 18:12

My old Siamese was very partial to a walk with his family in fields near us. I would have been very upset if an out of control dog with no recall ran at him.

The Oriental breeds do seem very partial to a stroll with their people.
Burmese, Siamese and Bengals- have seen all these breeds walking with their humans - sometimes accompanying the family dog.

oakleaffy · 17/01/2025 18:49

user2848502016 · 17/01/2025 18:08

I think the posters saying this sort of thing fundamentally don't understand dogs.
There's a massive difference between chasing a cat/squirrel/rabbit and actually catching and killing one. The vast majority of dogs would never kill even if they somehow managed to catch something. It's the chasing they like, it's a game.

Dogs unfortunately can and do kill cats.
Parent’s next door neighbours had a lovely old cat who was asleep in a sunny spot in his own front garden.
An off lead dog killed him as it was walking by with it’s owner who should have had it on a lead.
It was very distressing, and entirely preventable.

Dogs also chase sheep causing them serious stress and harm , even if the sheep aren’t actually killed or injured ( which they often are when a dog or dogs get amongst a flock.

eightIsNewNine · 17/01/2025 18:37

user2848502016 · 17/01/2025 18:08

I think the posters saying this sort of thing fundamentally don't understand dogs.
There's a massive difference between chasing a cat/squirrel/rabbit and actually catching and killing one. The vast majority of dogs would never kill even if they somehow managed to catch something. It's the chasing they like, it's a game.

It's a game only if both parties enjoy playing.
Everything else is a cruelty.

And it isn't a nature when a well fed, well groomed pet with a warm home and medical attention goes to have some fun on a "safari" chasing the actual wild animals in a nature reserve.

The dog owners often say that they mutt wouldn't kill, but how do you know? Once the dog catches, it might be still "playing" but the playing can easily kill the smaller animal. And, with the increased number of dogs around, what might had been insignificant numbers in past is growing and growing.

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