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To think London is in a major decline?

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Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:07

I’ve lived in London (zone 2) for 10+ years. It’s always been pretty ‘real’ here but since the end of covid really everywhere just seems so, so awful.
Dog shit everywhere, spit everywhere, council owned parks closed and locked, people littering more than ever before. Get on a bus and it’s just people screaming in to a FaceTime on top volume, people blasting TikTok. Kids being stabbed in broad daylight, people shooting up heroin near the nearby primary school. The area has a lot going for it but it really seems wherever I go there is an awful decline.
Has anybody feeling the same actually moved out? Do you regret it?

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Coldanddamp · 19/01/2025 22:20

London has declined if your living here on say less than 100K , but for everyone earning a lot more than that, its a brilliant city, an international city like New York or Paris and its not for everyone.

To get that great London lifestyle now though you really have to live pretty central which is ££££.

7plusthinking · 19/01/2025 22:15

NutsForMutts · 19/01/2025 21:59

This thread is hilarious because there are so many opposing views of the same place. I witnessed the gangsters of Walworth Road, the junkies of Kings Cross, the crack smokers of Rye Lane and the hustlers of Waterloo. That was the 2000s and I'd say the city is in a better place now and you can get a much higher standard of food for one thing. 😂Stay safe out there but it's all part of the rich tapestry. Neighbourhoods and streets have their ups and downs and the economy does matter. But London isn't going anywhere and will always be one of the most dynamic places on earth. It is what it is because of the new migrants and the desperate, and it is what it is because of the hedge fund bros and the global rich too. If you can't embrace it all - then maybe it's not the right place for you. But it's a tradeoff of wonderful and awful and compared with other global metropolises it is doing just fine, IMO.

THIS.

If you weren't born and raised in London its really hard to see how much its changed from 'back in the day' .

London has got 'worse' , for the very poor , its a fuck load harder city to live in if your even middle class , compared to even 15 years ago.

OP said 'hard working people in East London moved to Essex' - The truth was they cashed out on buying their council flats and ran for leafy suburbs, that was EVERYONES dream who was working class growing up in London, to get the fuck out and the working class did it droves.

London has declined if your living here on say less than 100K , but for everyone earning a lot more than that, its a brilliant city, an international city like New York or Paris and its not for everyone.

Boiledeggandtoast · 19/01/2025 22:13

bombastix · 18/01/2025 20:52

@VoodooRajin - used to motorcycle in but frankly the roads got busier... and more dangerous!

I've been cycling in London since the 1970s and I think it's much safer these days, not least because there are far more cyclists and motorcylists on the roads and cars are more aware.

Greyish2025 · 19/01/2025 22:13

VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 22:02

Ah the clichés keep on coming

It dosen’t mean it’s inaccurate though

VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 22:02

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:41

Yep. Most of the hard working east London working class folk moved to Essex.

Ah the clichés keep on coming

NutsForMutts · 19/01/2025 21:59

This thread is hilarious because there are so many opposing views of the same place. I witnessed the gangsters of Walworth Road, the junkies of Kings Cross, the crack smokers of Rye Lane and the hustlers of Waterloo. That was the 2000s and I'd say the city is in a better place now and you can get a much higher standard of food for one thing. 😂Stay safe out there but it's all part of the rich tapestry. Neighbourhoods and streets have their ups and downs and the economy does matter. But London isn't going anywhere and will always be one of the most dynamic places on earth. It is what it is because of the new migrants and the desperate, and it is what it is because of the hedge fund bros and the global rich too. If you can't embrace it all - then maybe it's not the right place for you. But it's a tradeoff of wonderful and awful and compared with other global metropolises it is doing just fine, IMO.

Greyish2025 · 19/01/2025 21:58

7plusthinking · 19/01/2025 21:50

This whole post is nuts.

South Clapham is the 'least grim' - based on what? The handful of places you lived in one of the biggest cities in the world ....??

Based on the fact that I lived in London for 15 years and was familiar with an awful lot of areas not just the areas I lived in

7plusthinking · 19/01/2025 21:56

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:21

Let me guess you don’t even live in London 😂😂

OP only lived here for 10 years, you wouldn't believe how GRIM London used to be. Ask anyone like me , born and bred in London.

If its declined , declined from what? Zone 2 is pretty much central London now, and if you think rubbish now, fuck, you would have had a heart attack back in the 70s and 80s.

7plusthinking · 19/01/2025 21:50

Greyish2025 · 17/01/2025 12:41

There are some very rough spots in London, if you don’t like the particular area you live in then move as living in those surroundings can have a direct impact on your MH, I lived in London for 15 years and the area that I was living in for the last 3 years (Tottenham) was so grim that it was part of the reason I left London altogether, every time I left the house you just see miserable shit every where

I lived in some lovely areas as well but a lot of London is quite grim and depressing

Of all the areas that I lived in , I probably thought South Clapham was the least grim

This whole post is nuts.

South Clapham is the 'least grim' - based on what? The handful of places you lived in one of the biggest cities in the world ....??

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:41

Coldanddamp · 19/01/2025 21:37

Respectfully, zone 5 is barely London

They will come for you now!

I agree though!

Hehe 😜

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Igavebirthtoabanana · 19/01/2025 21:41

JoanChitty · 17/01/2025 14:53

@Igavebirthtoabanana I was born and brought up in south London and went to school in the Elephant in the early seventies. It was grim at that time with many homeless alcoholic men. We would run through the subway hoping we didn’t meet any! At my school they would queue at the Convent door where the nuns would hand out packed lunches.
I went through it on the train awhile ago and saw how the big the area was where the shopping centre used to be. Its certainty changed.

@JoanChitty Sorry about the late reply! I loved reading that. I’m familiar with Elephant from 1998 onwards. The shopping centre was like a time warp, even in the modern times.

My friend grew up in Aylesbury Estate, from early 70’s onwards. It’s so interesting to hear how it used to be.

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:41

Greyish2025 · 19/01/2025 21:32

Definitely think there is a class in many areas of London that don’t even qualify for the title of working class and that is the Underclass, and a lot don’t even have a desire to rise up from it.
It would be an insult to working class people to bundle them in the same category

Yep. Most of the hard working east London working class folk moved to Essex.

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Boiledeggandtoast · 19/01/2025 21:40

ComtesseDeSpair · 17/01/2025 15:44

Phone and bag theft in London is rife - at least half my friends have had at least one phone or bag stolen in the past couple of years, mostly in the West End and central West. I had my clutch bag snatched in Soho about six months ago - gang of youths on bicycles just swarmed the pavement from behind and grabbed any phones or bags that were easily detached from their owners. Likewise shop raiding - I’ve been in Lewisham shopping centre twice now (and I don’t go to Lewisham shopping centre that often) and just seen a group of men in hoodies and balaclavas shove their way into a shop, grab armfuls of stuff from shelves / rails and leg it.

Our council is pretty great about clearing up fly tipping, but it’s still a problem.

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I'm only half-way through reading this thread and felt I had to comment. I have lived in Lewisham since 1987 and have never seen anything like this. Lewisham Centre is generally well managed with good, friendly security.

Coldanddamp · 19/01/2025 21:37

Respectfully, zone 5 is barely London

They will come for you now!

I agree though!

Greyish2025 · 19/01/2025 21:32

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:16

I’m also hazarding a guess you’re in Barking or similar, and that wasn’t always a shithole as much as it is now, no way. That’s got way worse, too. Was a working class area, yes, but now it’s underclass

Definitely think there is a class in many areas of London that don’t even qualify for the title of working class and that is the Underclass, and a lot don’t even have a desire to rise up from it.
It would be an insult to working class people to bundle them in the same category

Laurmolonlabe · 19/01/2025 21:23

I live in zone 2 it's no worse than before the pandemic, except people are far more rude and less cooperative- but that's pretty much all big cities, and maybe smaller ones too.

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:21

VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 21:19

So let's get this straight, zone 5 (which is still london), and hampstead are not in decline, but zone 2 is - which covers approx 93sq miles? And that's all gone to shit?

Let me guess you don’t even live in London 😂😂

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Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:21

VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 21:19

So let's get this straight, zone 5 (which is still london), and hampstead are not in decline, but zone 2 is - which covers approx 93sq miles? And that's all gone to shit?

Not what I’ve said at all but you seem to want a bit of conversation via argument tonight- perhaps a bit too much time on your hands.
I’m not the person for that, maybe try another commenter :)

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VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 21:19

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:11

I don’t have social media so no. I live in zone 2, as I said. Respectfully, zone 5 is barely London 😂

So let's get this straight, zone 5 (which is still london), and hampstead are not in decline, but zone 2 is - which covers approx 93sq miles? And that's all gone to shit?

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:16

izimbra · 19/01/2025 21:04

Errr, no.

Have you been looking at a lot of Reform social media?

I live in zone 5, in a poor area. It's no worse here than it was 5 years ago. The less poor parts of London are gorgeous.

I’m also hazarding a guess you’re in Barking or similar, and that wasn’t always a shithole as much as it is now, no way. That’s got way worse, too. Was a working class area, yes, but now it’s underclass

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Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 21:11

izimbra · 19/01/2025 21:04

Errr, no.

Have you been looking at a lot of Reform social media?

I live in zone 5, in a poor area. It's no worse here than it was 5 years ago. The less poor parts of London are gorgeous.

I don’t have social media so no. I live in zone 2, as I said. Respectfully, zone 5 is barely London 😂

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izimbra · 19/01/2025 21:04

Errr, no.

Have you been looking at a lot of Reform social media?

I live in zone 5, in a poor area. It's no worse here than it was 5 years ago. The less poor parts of London are gorgeous.

Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 20:56

Fridayfridaycatsandblamange · 19/01/2025 19:58

My oldest friend moved to Shoreditch (in social housing) 25 years ago and would 100% agree with this.

We are very very close to this area- believe me it’s correct what’s being described here.

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Phannyphart · 19/01/2025 20:55

Wow! I’ve just caught up.
It seems it really is area dependent, even street dependent. Although I did love all the comments such as the “it’s fine where we are in Hampstead” haha 😝 of course it bloody is!
I do believe we will probably at some point jump ship, maybe London will come to be amazing again, who knows.

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VoodooRajin · 19/01/2025 20:50

User32459 · 19/01/2025 19:49

It's like the Bonnie Blue thing. There's a 'last days of Rome' feel about the UK in terms of crime, debauchery and cultural decay.

Probably said the same in dicken's time