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To think London is in a major decline?

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Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:07

I’ve lived in London (zone 2) for 10+ years. It’s always been pretty ‘real’ here but since the end of covid really everywhere just seems so, so awful.
Dog shit everywhere, spit everywhere, council owned parks closed and locked, people littering more than ever before. Get on a bus and it’s just people screaming in to a FaceTime on top volume, people blasting TikTok. Kids being stabbed in broad daylight, people shooting up heroin near the nearby primary school. The area has a lot going for it but it really seems wherever I go there is an awful decline.
Has anybody feeling the same actually moved out? Do you regret it?

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dottydodah · 17/01/2025 14:08

I grew up in London as a child .I moved when my parents grew tired of it in the 70s .Live in Bournemouth now . There are many homeless people . shops have closed .I still visit London and enjoy it. seems rather grubby though!

Whammyyammy · 17/01/2025 14:06

London is truly awful. I only go LHR or paddington on way to LHR if taking the train.

bombastix · 17/01/2025 14:05

Having lived all over London and watched parts gentrify over time and some parts stubbornly not, the dividing line is property ownership. The central parts of London are now safety deposit boxes for foreign investors who want standard flats to protect their money.

The outer zones depend on owner occupancy. The more resident owners there the better it is. The noticeable thing in decline is landlords who are exploiting their tenants.

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 14:04

I do agree though that as a whole, all things considered, we are lucky to have the standard of living we have here in the UK.
I think the issue is, many of us remember a time with much less people, less litter, less noise.

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SmallCatMama · 17/01/2025 14:03

All cities are disgusting and dirty in general a certain way out and a certain way in

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 14:02

Crazycatlady79 · 17/01/2025 14:00

Sorry, I was actually replying to another poster who travels to London regularly, but lives in Somerset.
My arthritic fingers missed the Quote button!

Ohh! Although, if you have a spare few quid. The request still remains :)

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LetThereBeLove · 17/01/2025 14:01

SlapTheMelon · 17/01/2025 13:48

Londoners voted for that vile man khan who had to ask for definition of child grooming. He doesn't give a toss about crime rate as long as DEI target is met. What do you expect?

I didn't, nor did anyone I know, but the no hopers put up alongside Khan were equally awful.

MosaDiCello · 17/01/2025 14:01

I love London it's my home town and always will be. I recently moved to Bracknell from Ealing, I was like you feeling overwhelmed by the decline in my area which I can only speak of as I lived there. I've learnt to take the balance of what it is I'm actually missing and what I want. I miss the old Ealing, the community, vibrant, beautiful green Ealing. Over the years I've seen the decline in our high street, the community a lot of places have closed due to no funding and the ever growing sky rise buildings. Though I do understand also that we need to build new homes as our population grows, also the area is what you make it, Bracknell is not Ealing but it's less hectic and seems pleasant enough. I've only been here for less than a month and so far no issues it's very well connected, I have two buses running from outside my home, yes they do come every 30mins but that just means you need to plan your journeys rather than when living in London you could pop out and you knew there was a bus every 5 mins. Then again in London I was always stuck in traffic here in Bracknell there is of course traffic but only in the morning and in rush hour not throughout the day. I do miss Ealing of course it's still early days here but I plan to make the most of Bracknell and explore the area, plus I'm not bound to stay here one good thing I would say about renting is you have flexibility to move around if you don't like an area.

Crazycatlady79 · 17/01/2025 14:00

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:33

Feel free to pay my mortgage off!

Sorry, I was actually replying to another poster who travels to London regularly, but lives in Somerset.
My arthritic fingers missed the Quote button!

Unpaidviewer · 17/01/2025 14:00

I haven't been to London for quite some time but what you're describing sounds like the area I'm from. Housing has become so expensive and as the older generation have downsized or died their homes have been turned into HMOs or buy to let's. Less homeowners seems to mean less people giving a shit about the area. Everything just looks grubby and uncared for.

Beowulfa · 17/01/2025 13:59

I live in a not-posh bit of Zone 4 and was actually thinking on my way to work this morning that my Council is fairly decent:

-newly refurbished swimming pool/gym with friendly staff
-library open 6 days a week, inc after office hours most weeknights
-knackered footpaths currently being resurfaced
-green areas regularly mown (the grass does grow really fast with our wet summers of course)

The main problem is domestic fly-tipping. I used to live 10 minutes up the road in the leafier Tory voting bit (same Council) and it just wasn't an issue there. The Council offers what seems to me to be good rubbish/recycling services, and there is a very efficient tip, but how do you force lazy skanks to use them? Why do so many people think the rest of the world wants to walk past their stained mattress, broken kids toys and obsolete telly?

To end on a positive note, I was on a bus the other day when 3 feral teenage lads slouched on without paying. Then they started smoking. The driver stopped the bus and shouted that they had to get off. He was a short, slight young man and there were 3 of them, but his anger was audible; how dare they violate the holy sanctity of public transport! The 3 scrotes sloped off sulkily muttering. It was brilliant.

pongy · 17/01/2025 13:57

Mindyourfunkybusiness · 17/01/2025 12:45

Yup, I'm SW London born and raised but one of my kids needed to go study in eu (she's underage) so we are most of the year now in eu. Wow what a difference. I go back to London reluctantly and at first I was in tears leaving. Now any holidays I don't bother going back every time, instead friends and family prefer to come visit me.
My area isn't even that rough but it's just dirty with dog poo etc, seems everyone is smoking cannabis (here we don't even get a whiff ever!) And I can't adjust to being that little bit more aware. Atm I carry my phone back pocket of jeans without even worrying I'll get robbed 😂
Omg and my local shopping centre in London got done up but its only got like a handful of shops. All the big shops closed and for good like Debenham etc been empty for years. Just looks sad. Up the hill there's a nice little range of shops and restaurants and bars but as a mum I don't really care for those anymore!
I've not officially moved out of London but I go back less and less and really have to consider what my next moves are. I think living somewhere peaceful and going back really just opens your eyes.

As a mum you don’t care for shops and restaurants? I didn’t know when I had a child I had to give up shopping or going to restaurants. How weird.

EasternStandard · 17/01/2025 13:56

SlapTheMelon · 17/01/2025 13:48

Londoners voted for that vile man khan who had to ask for definition of child grooming. He doesn't give a toss about crime rate as long as DEI target is met. What do you expect?

Khan doesn’t help. Hopefully out at some point, been ages

Newgirls · 17/01/2025 13:55

I think London is the smartest I’ve ever known it! With the new developments at kings Cross, Borough, Battersea etc it’s hugely improved.

but yes still areas of poverty and poor urban planning - but those have always existed. They really shouldn’t and I hope it continues to improve

MidnightPatrol · 17/01/2025 13:54

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 13:50

I guess the areas around here are either
people very poor- in social housing
people very rich- in nice shiny new builds or Victorian properties.
there is no balance and no inbetween.

Well also - and slightly bizarrely - these are the same houses.

I know more than one person who has bought a terrace house in zones 1-3 for £1m+ and found they have a large / extended family living next door that are known as local drug dealers / gangsters, police turning up at all hours etc.

London has always been a real mix of rich and poor, but you now have these weird parallell societies, with half needing £££ for housing while others get long term low cost rentals.

I massively support council housing, but in London there’s a real challenge that housing for the majority is so wildly expensive, having council housing is like winning the lottery. And half the time it’s exactly the same housing.

Shwish · 17/01/2025 13:54

Its lovely round here - south east London.

EasternStandard · 17/01/2025 13:54

I really think litter is a big downer

I very much hope we haven’t lost our road guy as the street looks awful after a few weeks

Plus anyone who leaves dog poo around, horrible

I still get energy from the city and love parts of it, but just past us is really a down area. It just drops quite a bit

trivialMorning · 17/01/2025 13:54

beAsensible1 · 17/01/2025 13:44

because nobody can afford to have kids, or more accurately afford a house big enough to put them in london.

I read an article about Nottingham zero carbon school.

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/money/other/new-net-zero-school-closed-before-admitting-a-single-pupil-because-of-lack-of-children/ar-BB1rnmfv?apiversion=v2&noservercache=1&domshim=1&renderwebcomponents=1&wcseo=1&batchservertelemetry=1&noservertelemetry=1

The school's failure stems from significantly lower demand than anticipated from the nearby 350-home Nottingham Waterside Trent Basin development.

Despite properties in the development costing up to £500,000, most residents are older couples and young professionals without children.

...
The development was expected to provide the majority of pupils for the new school, but the demographic makeup of the residents has made this impossible.

Meanwhile we are in a rare higher birth area in our region with all the schools full which is rare - why housing cheaper than surrounding cities and it's commutable to nearby cities with work in.

I

MSN

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/money/other/new-net-zero-school-closed-before-admitting-a-single-pupil-because-of-lack-of-children/ar-BB1rnmfv?apiversion=v2&batchservertelemetry=1&domshim=1&noservercache=1&noservertelemetry=1&renderwebcomponents=1&wcseo=1

ClareBlue · 17/01/2025 13:53

ThatMerryReader · 17/01/2025 12:15

It's not London. It is post-Brexit UK.
Not that we did not warn it...

Except I travel to plenty of countries that are not in the EU and don't see this. And then there are those that are in the EU that have cities with exactly the same issues. It a lazy and misinformed argument to blame the civic decline of UK urban areas on Brexit. Dublin is dangerous and dirty, Marsaille is in a different league to London for violence and filth, Paris, Naples. Frankfurt is seriously dangerous in certain areas. Berlin has no go areas. There are numerous drivers for this but Brexit is way down the line.
And it's continually used as an excuse to not do anything positive or address the issues. We told you so, bla bla bla. Adds nothing to finding solutions, does it.

theDudesmummy · 17/01/2025 13:52

PS I do believe that Dublin is also very problematic, but I don't know it so am not comparing.

Fridayfridaycatsandblamange · 17/01/2025 13:52

I see Peckham mentioned a lot on here and I think that it's not actually a huge part that has been gentrified. Peckham Rye definitely feels quite edgy at times ;)

theDudesmummy · 17/01/2025 13:51

I lived and worked in London for 35 years, and then moved to Ireland in 2020. I go back to the UK every few months for work for a few days. I have been struck by the apparent decline everywhere. I was initially away and didn't see the UK for two years because of the pandemic, and London did appear worse to me when I saw it again in 2022, in terms of dirt, homelessness, general run-down-ness.

Since then almost everywhere I have gone in the UK seems to be declining rapidly and I actively dislike going to most places. London still has its attractions, and its my home town and I know it so well, but its still much worse than it was. Birmingham and Sheffield were now horrible. Manchester seemed just about OK (talking about the central areas in all these cities, not suburbs or outer areas). The only place I look forward to going back to is Edinburgh.

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 13:50

I guess the areas around here are either
people very poor- in social housing
people very rich- in nice shiny new builds or Victorian properties.
there is no balance and no inbetween.

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Fridayfridaycatsandblamange · 17/01/2025 13:49

I think in London though unless you're in the very residential or more historically affluent areas then it's always been a bit like that.

I lived in Stoke Newington for years and even though it's a really lovely and, now, hugely desirable area of London to live, it's definitely not without it's 'dodgy' areas and ditto the whole of Hackney (not just Hackney BTW). I love the energy, shops and everything else that is there but there is still lots of deprivation that goes hand in hand with the £million houses and gentrification. I can't say I notice it more (except the really loud music being played on buses which drives me mad.) London has always felt like this. My sister lived in Hackney in the Eighties and that felt very scary to me at the time, but she loved it, probably for all the reasons I found it to be terrifying.

My dad lives just in a village outside a town in Somerset and .whenever I go there it feels really rundown and I hate walking around there at night. My dad would never go out there at night anymore, but the village he lives in 20 mins down the road he feels safe as houses. I think it goes to show it's not limited to London (or other big cities).

Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 13:49

Sorry just catching up. Some really valid points.
I think another issue, if I really did think about it, in my area, integration hasn’t really worked and there are bubbling tensions between remaining working class folk, the new cohort of young hipsters and the migrant population. I know people get uncomfortable talking about immigration and race, but in many areas around me there is a dominant population (Bangladeshi) who have failed to assimilate, whereby we are now on to 2nd and 3rd generation families where the children don’t mix with the white working class children, don’t speak English etc. My children are past school age but our nearest school children with English as a foreign language as of 2022 statistics is 92%- these are mostly children born and raised in this country. You have whole schools of Bangladeshi children and whole schools of white and black children- with the sides never ever really mixing.
I am a very liberal leftist and I would not have believed what I see here until I saw it with my own eyes.
I think we do have to have an honest conversation about how we see the future of London and other areas when we have groups that will not integrate and do not want to do so. We also need to be honest about the cultural differences (IE litter dropping, sanitation) and start to educate communities in how we ‘operate’ in this country. This would stop tensions perhaps?

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