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To think London is in a major decline?

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Phannyphart · 17/01/2025 12:07

I’ve lived in London (zone 2) for 10+ years. It’s always been pretty ‘real’ here but since the end of covid really everywhere just seems so, so awful.
Dog shit everywhere, spit everywhere, council owned parks closed and locked, people littering more than ever before. Get on a bus and it’s just people screaming in to a FaceTime on top volume, people blasting TikTok. Kids being stabbed in broad daylight, people shooting up heroin near the nearby primary school. The area has a lot going for it but it really seems wherever I go there is an awful decline.
Has anybody feeling the same actually moved out? Do you regret it?

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TheGander · 17/01/2025 19:47

That’s awful @BigSkies2022 . Drugs really are a plague. Cousin is a prison chaplain ( in France admittedly) the stories are horrific, a gang ordered the execution of a prison guard at her home because she “ humiliated” a convict drug lord.

Coldanddamp · 17/01/2025 19:39

@PointsSouth suppose it depends on what you think is better. I’m a SW londoner, born & raised so I’m aware of how things have changed. Certainly somethings are better but it’s lost somethings too.

BigSkies2022 · 17/01/2025 19:29

jokeynever · 17/01/2025 15:59

Not sure why it's such a problem then. Cannabis doesn't generally make people violent - if anything, the opposite.

I can see the problem with smack etc. in terms of the public health hazard from used needles, and increased burglary to pay for it. But I can't get excited about people smoking a joint in public or being open about dealing in it.

Well, as the parent of a teenage lad in a south east London school, who had to work very hard to keep him in school, and on a path to exams, university and a better life with more opportunities, I can absolutely see the problem with cannabis dealing and use. Because from about the age of 15, he, and all his peers, were continually approached on the way to and from school by the poor sods, more or less their ages, on county lines, offering weed, coke, specialK, molly - all could be brought to the doors of their homes. If you don't see it as problem, you're pretty naive about the impact the filthy trade has.

EasternStandard · 17/01/2025 19:18

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:33

@Sunholidays - I was also in Australia recently and was quite shocked at how Melbourne has gone downhill since last time I was there 20 years ago. Especially suburbs like Fitzroy and St Kilda.

Absolutely those suburbs same here

Quite an eye opener, plus drug use

There are still nice areas though

PointsSouth · 17/01/2025 19:11

Coldanddamp · 17/01/2025 13:11

Brixton is way better than in the 80s

😁

It is.

Because London is so big and so ever-changing, the reputation and fortunes of each district cycle.

I grew up in Wandsworth in the seventies. It was pretty down-at-heel. All the big Victorian houses around the Common were originally built for newly-rich tradespeople and their families who needed to be within reach of the centre, but who wanted to live where there were trees and open spaces. By the mid-twentieth century, that was the inner city. You couldn't give away a huge Victorian house at that time. No one wanted red brick and stained glass porches and tiled fireplaces and coving and sculleries. The houses were split into flats for the less-prosperous.

So the reputation of the neighbourhood dropped, and the area became undesirable. Which meant that property got cheaper. Which meant that by the end of the century, aspirational young people could afford to buy there. Which meant there was more money about and hip restaurants started to open, and junk shops became antique emporia. There was a shop on Wandsworth Common which, when I was a kid, had a dusty window and some kind of bakelite machine on display. I never knew what their business was and I never saw anyone in there. Before I was thirty, Marcus Wotsisname had turned it into a fashionable expensive restaurant. Wandsworth is very wealthy now. Same goes for Greenwich, Peckham, Clapham, Balham.

And usage changes too. When the docks became defunct, Southwark and Bermondsey - which had always been rough and lively - became rough and deadly. You really wouldn't want to be caught on Tooley Street after dark in the seventies. Especially if you had blue hair and red boots. For instance.

Now, Tooley Street is bustling, alive, touristy, reborn.

Many people will moan that it has lost its working-class character - and it has. But that character was lost when the docks closed. It wasn't redevelopment that killed it.

London's always done this. The West End - let's say from Regent's Park to Trafalgar Square - was a huge urban renewal project. And to make it happen, acres and acres of slums were cleared. The character of the place was not just changed. It was expunged, mercilessly. Thousands of people were summarily chucked out.

But you rarely hear people moaning that Regent Street has destroyed the soul of London. No one ever suggests that Portland Place was much more chummy before it was gentrified.

Is London in decline? Undoubtedly bits of it are. And bits of it are on the up. That's how London survives. Two thousand years, and counting.

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:33

@Sunholidays - I was also in Australia recently and was quite shocked at how Melbourne has gone downhill since last time I was there 20 years ago. Especially suburbs like Fitzroy and St Kilda.

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:23

At least of you live in a crap area of London, you can probably walk quite quickly to a more pleasant area and sort of cheer yourself up a bit in this way. Or get the tube or bus. It's easy to get around and people have options where they want to meet, or spend more time.

What is depressing are too many average sized towns across England, where its the same old same old town centres with same old same old chain shops in every one. That's if most of the shops haven't been boarded up. All young people can do is hang around in these shite town centres with no atmosphere. And train fares are so ridiculous, they can't get out of their towns very often.

Sunholidays · 17/01/2025 18:22

Newmoon8 · 17/01/2025 18:13

No other country, going out in pijamas is only seen here

I have seen it lots in Melbourne

Newmoon8 · 17/01/2025 18:13

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:07

People are so doom and gloom, but take a walk around Chelsea, or Notting Hill, Hampstead, Knightsbridge - or basically anywhere in the West End at any time - the streets are heaving and no sign that people aren't spending money. It's the same in so many parts of London.

It's a very walkable city, unlike many other capitals.

I'm sorry to say this, but you need to go to other cities in the U.K. if you want to see the real declining state of the nation. Liverpool for instance - the harder lifestyle is visible on people's faces. Many more overweight people everywhere. People actually look different. So many drunks staggering everywhere as well. And groups of women who think it's normal to wander about the Liverpool One shopping centre area in their pyjamas and with rollers in their hair. This is Britain. Where else would you see that? It's like another world.

No other country, going out in pijamas is only seen here

suburburban · 17/01/2025 18:13

BackoffSusan · 17/01/2025 16:27

@suburburban yes youre right Stoke Newington had a terrible reputation in the 70s. But its very popular now, even without decent transport links, you're looking at 1.5million for a 3bed house and that's for a house near a crack den with someone using your doorstep as a toilet. No thanks.

Yes, even if it is gentrified there are still the social problems

suburburban · 17/01/2025 18:11

Anniedash · 17/01/2025 17:54

The whole country is in decline. The UK is fast on its way to becoming a third world country.

We have millions of people say around at home because they are too sad to work, living off an ever shrinking base of taxpayers. We are importing a million low skilled migrants who are a net drain on the economy. They are brought in because lazy here witn work. An ever smaller number of net contributors pay for them and then pay for the incoming net taker migrants who will never earn enough to sustain their use of public services.

At the same time we have scummy politicians, civil servants and government officials stealing off that same base of shrinking net contributors.

Millionnaires are leaving the country and the minority that are keeping this gravy train going for the majority will eventually also give up.

This country is doomed. Of course it is looking rough.

I think you are right unfortunately

Newmoon8 · 17/01/2025 18:11

LlynTegid · 17/01/2025 17:59

I'm not sure that's being kind to third world countries to compare.

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I am from a third world country which I left more than 15 years ago and I am afraid to say this is true. The UK is becoming a third world. I do worry for our children future

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:08

And don't even get me started on Glasgow or Aberdeen.

catcafeatno10 · 17/01/2025 18:07

People are so doom and gloom, but take a walk around Chelsea, or Notting Hill, Hampstead, Knightsbridge - or basically anywhere in the West End at any time - the streets are heaving and no sign that people aren't spending money. It's the same in so many parts of London.

It's a very walkable city, unlike many other capitals.

I'm sorry to say this, but you need to go to other cities in the U.K. if you want to see the real declining state of the nation. Liverpool for instance - the harder lifestyle is visible on people's faces. Many more overweight people everywhere. People actually look different. So many drunks staggering everywhere as well. And groups of women who think it's normal to wander about the Liverpool One shopping centre area in their pyjamas and with rollers in their hair. This is Britain. Where else would you see that? It's like another world.

LlynTegid · 17/01/2025 17:59

Anniedash · 17/01/2025 17:54

The whole country is in decline. The UK is fast on its way to becoming a third world country.

We have millions of people say around at home because they are too sad to work, living off an ever shrinking base of taxpayers. We are importing a million low skilled migrants who are a net drain on the economy. They are brought in because lazy here witn work. An ever smaller number of net contributors pay for them and then pay for the incoming net taker migrants who will never earn enough to sustain their use of public services.

At the same time we have scummy politicians, civil servants and government officials stealing off that same base of shrinking net contributors.

Millionnaires are leaving the country and the minority that are keeping this gravy train going for the majority will eventually also give up.

This country is doomed. Of course it is looking rough.

I'm not sure that's being kind to third world countries to compare.

Anniedash · 17/01/2025 17:54

The whole country is in decline. The UK is fast on its way to becoming a third world country.

We have millions of people say around at home because they are too sad to work, living off an ever shrinking base of taxpayers. We are importing a million low skilled migrants who are a net drain on the economy. They are brought in because lazy here witn work. An ever smaller number of net contributors pay for them and then pay for the incoming net taker migrants who will never earn enough to sustain their use of public services.

At the same time we have scummy politicians, civil servants and government officials stealing off that same base of shrinking net contributors.

Millionnaires are leaving the country and the minority that are keeping this gravy train going for the majority will eventually also give up.

This country is doomed. Of course it is looking rough.

VoodooRajin · 17/01/2025 17:39

I think it's just what you're choosing to notice, start looking for good things

Alainlechat · 17/01/2025 17:34

I grew up in a London Borough that is basically unrecognisable to me now and a shithole frankly. I moved out 20 years ago.

Some other parts of London have gone the other way and become trendy and gentrified.

samarrange · 17/01/2025 17:32

Thepeopleversuswork · 17/01/2025 16:09

I don't think its ever been considered "acceptable", its just one of those things and you get used to it. I actually feel like people are more considerate about this now than they were when I was a child. Area dependent of course.

Hawking phlegm in the street though is another level of evil. People do it absolutely casually. I'd almost prefer dogshit to that.

Hawking phlegm in the street though is another level of evil.

I remember "No spitting" signs when I was growing up (60s/70s). I imagine there was more of it back then, with respiratory diseases and so much more smoking.

That said, I had a cold/cough a couple of weeks back and I was walking along in the drizzle when a chunk of phlegm came up. I chose to spit it into a drain in the gutter rather than reach for a tissue or swallow it. 🤢 So, my apologies for that...

Coldanddamp · 17/01/2025 16:39

It is a Class 2 restricted drug and those who buy it (as distinct from growing their own) are financing illegal drug dealing which exploits vulnerable youngsters and contributes to knife crime.

Exactly & it’s often the same people who partake in a bit of a recreational drug use who complain about increased crime…

Karneval25 · 17/01/2025 16:34

“There's not really any reason for seeing openness about buying cannabis as a problem in an area. The vast majority of people buying it aren't going to be made violent by it, or need to commit crime to fund it. They could legalise it tomorrow and it would be no different from anybody buying anything else.”

THIS is exactly the attitude that we need to fight. We live in a society which depends on the rule of law. Cannabis is a Class 2 drug and dealing it is against the law. If young people see that adults are happy to ignore the laws on cannabis why should they respect the laws on under age drinking, under age sex, littering, picking up dog shit, shop lifting or whatever?

If you don’t like the laws on cannabis fight to get the law changed.

Laws in a democratic country are a Menu Fixe. It’s not à la carte.

DaphneduM · 17/01/2025 16:32

MidnightPatrol · 17/01/2025 13:19

IMO cities need creative people, artists, musicians, students etc to have energy and thrive (or at least - in the way we imagine).

All of this is being driven out of London by the high cost of living.

Everyone I work with under about 28 lives at home. I’m not much older, but we could at least afford to rent flats together.

Rents unaffordable, no council housing for those kinds of people - it will kill London eventually IMO.

I agree. Unfortunately now Bristol is going the same way - massive increase in house prices which, it could be argued, have been fuelled by people from London moving to the area. All the creatives, artists, etc. are being priced out.

Greyish2025 · 17/01/2025 16:31

Crushed23 · 17/01/2025 15:20

I've left London now (emigrated) but my pocket of SE London was lovely. So it might just be an East London thing.

I think it's a great city and it didn't feel like it declined in the 12 years I lived there. Admittedly I mainly frequented nice, leafy areas and stayed away from famously sketchy areas.

It isn’t just an East London thing, it’s all over except for very small pockets

ilovebrie8 · 17/01/2025 16:30

Veronay · 17/01/2025 16:15

Combination of economic failure, austerity, failure to protect british assets from overseas ownerhip and completely rampant immigration.

This in a nutshell

BackoffSusan · 17/01/2025 16:27

@suburburban yes youre right Stoke Newington had a terrible reputation in the 70s. But its very popular now, even without decent transport links, you're looking at 1.5million for a 3bed house and that's for a house near a crack den with someone using your doorstep as a toilet. No thanks.