To be pissed off that he didn’t offer?

You should've asked. I wouldn't feel comfortable cooking in someone else's house unless they made it clear they wanted me to. I wouldn't want anyone else cooking in my house either.

Why will he only eat a full cooked breakfast?

Why didn't you say to him you felt unwell and to make something?

It all sounds a bit bizarre to be honest. You haven't known each other that long, however it is long enough you have invited him to stay. I am not sure I would want to go raiding someone's kitchen without permission, but I would also be ok if they said to me about making food.
You say it got to midday and you both felt hungry, why didn't you mention it then? 'Oh you must be feeling hungry, I know I am. Could you please cook today as I am not feeling great?' at that time of day you could have ordered a takeaway lunch if neither of you wanted to cook.

You're an adult, why didnt you just ask him to make breakfast.

"What shall we do breakfast" is the question.

Or if neither of you wanted to cook - UberEats!!

He is lazy, if you’re comfortable enough with someone to have sex you should be comfortable enough to use their kitchen. Equally, you should be able to say “your turn to cook the eggs”.

I disagree

3 months can still be pretty casual, and it's taking it a bit too far to make yourself at home. Some people are also very territorial about their kitchen, and very dismissive of things "not done the right way".

I wouldn't open all the bathroom cabinets either, it's rude, even after you slept together.

It's long enough to TALK however!

Why couldn’t you both just have cereal or toast? Why didn’t you ask him?

I mean you're sharing a bed, Op so it's hardly going to be uncomfortable for him to use the kitchen! You should have just asked for some tea and toast. Two adults just lying there hungry without talking about it is ridiculous.

I wouldn’t feel comfortable helping myself and routing about in someone’s kitchen after 12 weeks I feel I’d be over stepping

at least the host should have mentioned it a long time ago.

I wouldn't offer to cook a hot breakfast to any man until at least our 5th wedding anniversary😂I am not a housekeeper and many places offer hot breakfast better than mine.

IMO if you know them well enough to stay the night, you should feel able to open the fridge and operate the kettle and toaster.

3 months is really early on, and from what you've said he doesn't stay at yours very regularly.
At that point it's relatively normal that whoever's house it is will be in charge of meals. It doesn't mean doing all the cooking or buying all the groceries, but taking the lead on what/when/how.

Yes he could have offered but it's not crazy either that he didn't feel comfortable enough, the same way you didn't feel comfortable enough to ask him.

I now have a massive collection of cookery books and most of the latest kitchen gadgets as when I moved in with DP he expected a proper cooked meal every night. I'm a SAHM so I have the time to cook and I enjoy it now I have a family to cook for

Bloody hell. How did he manage before you turned up? You enjoy it now? Just as well.

Eh? A proper cooked breakfast? You could have asked him to make tea and toast or popped out to the shops for something you could eat straight off.

I wouldn’t cook in someone else’s house 2/3 months in to a new relationship. If you felt that awful you should have just said ‘help yourself to cereal or toast this morning, I’m too tired to do a full breakfast’.

Does he cook absolutely fine at his own house though? When I was single breakfast was toast, lunch was a Tesco meal deal (I walked past Tesco everyday to get to the office) and dinner was a ready meal for one.

I now have a massive collection of cookery books and most of the latest kitchen gadgets as when I moved in with DP he expected a proper cooked meal every night. I'm a SAHM so I have the time to cook and I enjoy it now I have a family to cook for.

Maybe he doesn’t know how to cook? Maybe he was too polite to go through your cupboards and find something? If I stay the night at someone else's house I always wait until they get up to see if they had any plans/anything for breakfast, I wouldn't help myself to anything except a cup of coffee.

Did you say "I'm not feeling well, there's a loaf of bread in the kitchen can you make us some toast/cook the bacon and eggs that are in fridge"? And a coffee for me please.

Did he know you felt unwell? If so I'd expect him to ask what he could do to make you feel better, including tea & toast

More fool you if you’re getting up when you’re feeling crappy to make him a full fry-up when it isn’t something you’d do anyway. Talk about making a rod for your own back!

Well you've kind of made your bed here. He expects a fry up when he's over? I would take a bet that he doesn't cook that for himself at home (and that it wouldn't be offered if you were to stay over) I think you should go and stay at his for a night and see if this breakfast arrangement is reciprocal. Then decide on a scale of 1 to 10 how much of a cocklodger he is.

You need to ask him to cook breakfast or whatever, OP. He's in your home and will assume that you will plan and cook unless you ask him to do it. It would be better if he noted how ill you were feeling and asked what you needed, but some people are not that imaginative.

You both sound immature. How old are you? Normally you would just, you know, talk to each other about stuff like feeling sick, making breakfast etc.

Do you actually cook a full cooked breakfast for him every day or, say, a bacon sandwich? My son (who is a gym bunny and football fanatic and needs millions of calories) makes himself a bacon sandwich every morning before school. He is 15 and has mastered the art of the frying pan, it's not hard! We only have a full fry-up really if we go out for brunch though. Anyway, as others have said, be careful you're not inadvertently growing yourself a cock lodger - or at least someone who expects you to shoulder all the domestic responsibility. Having said that, given you've just got together, he he probably does feel a bit weird cooking for you in your home, if he also thinks you have a fry-up every morning.

He didn't cook because he see's that as your job, you are his new housekeeper.

Why is that the only thing he eats? Does he expect you to make it and does he make that for himself at home?

Are yiu paying for this food you cook?

I think it's a moderate red flag. Ok he's not a mind reader and may not have known you'd like him to offer but honestly at that point of knowing each other my now DH would definitely have been saying

"What can I do for you?" In fact he frequently asks me now which is a definite plus in our relationship.

I get what the PPs are saying about you requesting but I don't like the picture which I'm seeing here of him hanging around waiting for you to get yourself up and cook his breakfast.

I'm not saying dump but do press the brake here on getting attached to this man.