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"Whimsy"

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User09678 · 17/01/2025 08:41

Aibu to have a real aversion to the trend for "whimsy" in current films and TV series? I find it baffling, not funny, I can't suspend disbelief when I'm watching violent scenes interspersed with whatever this new thing is. It leaves me constantly having to shift mental gears to try and understand what's going on and is very unnatural. It might just me. Is it? Am I too old and grumpy now? I'm not sure how I'm meant to be taking it. I probably am being unreasonable. Maybe it always existed and I just notice it now.

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trivialMorning · 18/01/2025 13:46

I loved Fallout and thought the tone worked well. It fit well with the style of the game, with the chirpy upbeat soundtrack and 50s vibe juxtaposed with the grinding misery of the post apocalyptic world.

Sums up what I thought about it - went in knowing very little but did love it.

I can't say it what comes to mind when using adjective Whimsy - Tim Burton - studio ghibli films come first but suppose it fits as it certainly had it's own style.

DaisysChains · 18/01/2025 11:20

I find it hard to clearly separate out gallows humour, coping mechanism, shock value, quirky/cutsie/endearing, surrealism, and whimsy

all to me have slightly different but overlapping purposes and styles

tim burton, the zoe deshanel tv show & Maxxxine are, to use a phrase from childhood, “the same, only different” 😂

the purposes of the fantastical elements are to move the story along though

the definition of whimsey upthread says it’s ‘tetherless’ so I’m left unsure

surrealism was symbolic and so ‘tethered

dada perhaps is the whimsey equivalent? But then it was a sort of statement in itself?

so not ‘untethered’ as per the definition in the article

all of which to say an expansion of what is meant would be helpful

cos even with the china ornaments - they were in Misery, but as a way to show the character’s obsessive need for control, the merging of reality and fantasy in her head, and as a plot device during the author’s escape from the room

Cunningfungus · 18/01/2025 11:08

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

OMG!! My mum had all of these - you’ve taken me right back to my childhood! Dusting the living room was my Saturday chore as a child and moving all the wee fekkers to dust underneath and putting them all back was the bane of my life!

getthosetitsup · 18/01/2025 11:05

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

That was my thought too 😂

My parents have a massive collection. Started buying loads of them from car boot sales in the 90s from people that didn't realise their value was increasing rapidly.

I would like an example of the whimsy the OP is referring to though, so I can decide if it is one of my many irritants.

Rummly · 18/01/2025 10:52

The term’s too ill-defined for the context. It doesn’t really mean anything when applied to a whole medium like film or TV drama.

A whimsical comment IRL might be a playfully irrelevant one. And that can be portrayed in drama. But whimsy as an idea doesn’t cover the variety of ways to make drama.

I wouldn’t call Mary Poppins whimsy, for example. I’d say it was fantastical wish fulfilment - and it’s very clever and subtle. Mary Poppins is a vain character who likes a drink, but is practical and wise. The social and class observations in Mary Poppins are also brilliantly done.

Turophilic · 18/01/2025 10:26

User09678 · 18/01/2025 09:39

I didn't have any expectations, I never played the game. Knew nothing about it. I just really hated the style.

I think it’s just an aesthetic that doesn’t appeal to you.

I loved Fallout and thought the tone worked well. It fit well with the style of the game, with the chirpy upbeat soundtrack and 50s vibe juxtaposed with the grinding misery of the post apocalyptic world.

I dislike gothic stuff, it grates on me like nails on a blackboard. I give it a swerve now. I used to think there was something I was missing but there isn’t. I get it, I just don’t like it.

User09678 · 18/01/2025 09:39

MartinCrieffsLemon · 18/01/2025 09:34

I don't think I expected Fallout to be a serious drama with no "whimsy" elements ...

I didn't have any expectations, I never played the game. Knew nothing about it. I just really hated the style.

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MartinCrieffsLemon · 18/01/2025 09:34

User09678 · 18/01/2025 06:36

Fallout was what I had in mind when I wrote the post, of which I couldn't make it beyond the first episode. I had read a review of Dark Matter, the Jennifer Connely one, which said it really needed a bit of whimsy. It did not.

I don't think I expected Fallout to be a serious drama with no "whimsy" elements ...

User09678 · 18/01/2025 06:44

MartinCrieffsLemon · 17/01/2025 23:32

Those are a mix of film genres though
Wes Anderson horror films set in dreams
Fantasy/Gothic fantasy

Those are films where you go in know what to expect. I think if you go into a Tim Burton film and expect straight up realism then you're in the wrong film

And none of those are like the OP appears to be referring to

I'll be honest I think Beetlejuice is the only Tim Burton film I've seen - and I love it. It's not got that jarring quality, or the feeling that they're wasting precious screen time, and my time, on someone else's private joke.

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MissBattleaxe · 18/01/2025 06:42

There was whimsy in Shakespeare. The porter in Macbeth talking about needing a wee before Duncan's body is found.

User09678 · 18/01/2025 06:42

What was that Australian programme with Jamie Dornan in it, and Killing Eve, which I actually liked overall. These are examples of this kinda thing. Maybe I'm too old. I enjoyed Amelie and especially Eternal Sunshine when they came out but I was much younger I think it would really annoy me now. Maybe it's not such a new thing but it seems to have infused itself into almost everything now. It doesn't mix with violence or heavy subject matter. It just feels like an annoying heavily put on affectation and my old brain can't cope with the constant gear changes. Sorry if I've annoyed everyone

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BoldBlueZebra · 18/01/2025 06:41

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

Ha ha ha I was trying to think of films with an excess of small china animals

User09678 · 18/01/2025 06:36

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 23:22

And that relates to the violence you mentioned in your OP how? You're still not giving any examples of anything that's annoyed you. Which is annoying i itself

Fallout was what I had in mind when I wrote the post, of which I couldn't make it beyond the first episode. I had read a review of Dark Matter, the Jennifer Connely one, which said it really needed a bit of whimsy. It did not.

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Hanto · 17/01/2025 23:40

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 23:22

And that relates to the violence you mentioned in your OP how? You're still not giving any examples of anything that's annoyed you. Which is annoying i itself

Yes, OP, most of us understand the dictionary definition of ‘whimsy’, but you’ve just linked to an online article that lists some characteristics of whimsical films (and yes, Jean-Pierre Jeunet’s films are whimsical, but he’s been making the same kinds of film for over 30 years — Delicatessen is from 1991! So it’s not new) none of which appear to feature the violence you also mention.

What films or tv programmes are you thinking of?

MartinCrieffsLemon · 17/01/2025 23:32

JennieTheZebra · 17/01/2025 21:38

Timeless, magical realism type stuff. All chapter headings and too bright colour contrasts. Examples are Chocolat, most Tim Burton movies and anything by Wes Anderson. Plus those weird Netflix series about nothing really.

Those are a mix of film genres though
Wes Anderson horror films set in dreams
Fantasy/Gothic fantasy

Those are films where you go in know what to expect. I think if you go into a Tim Burton film and expect straight up realism then you're in the wrong film

And none of those are like the OP appears to be referring to

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 23:22

User09678 · 17/01/2025 21:21

@DappledThings @KrisAkabusi @TMGM

This provides a far better explanation than I could articulate:

"My Shorter Oxford defines whimsical as “characterised by deviation from the ordinary as if determined by mere caprice.” I think of it as a flight of fancy ungrounded in any sort of emotional, psychological, geographical or anthropological realism. I am all for fantasy, by the way, and am not an advocate of unadulterated realism, though it too has its place in the cinema. But the best fantasy is an integral part of the storytelling, and has ties to reality – albeit often in deep cover, buried beneath metaphor. Whimsy, on the other hand, is tetherless. It aspires to be surrealism or magical realism, but it’s really just pulling arbitrary rabbits out of a hat, trying to impress us with its off-the-wall kookiness." Taken from: https://multiglom.com/2015/08/16/filmsy-when-whimsy-runs-riot-in-the-cinema/

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And that relates to the violence you mentioned in your OP how? You're still not giving any examples of anything that's annoyed you. Which is annoying i itself

Turophilic · 17/01/2025 22:19

There's certainly plenty of whimsical stuff in Wes Anderson films, and the lighter Tim Burtons. I'd agree with Amelie. Also Midnight In Paris, The Princess Bride and Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind.

Createausername1970 · 17/01/2025 21:40

squashyhat · 17/01/2025 11:37

It means Lord Peter to me (although different spelling)

Definitely!

I had a bit of a crush on him when I was younger.

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 17/01/2025 21:39

Sheldon??

JennieTheZebra · 17/01/2025 21:38

Timeless, magical realism type stuff. All chapter headings and too bright colour contrasts. Examples are Chocolat, most Tim Burton movies and anything by Wes Anderson. Plus those weird Netflix series about nothing really.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 17/01/2025 21:25

And can you give us some examples?

Because frankly that's just word soup

User09678 · 17/01/2025 21:21

@DappledThings @KrisAkabusi @TMGM

This provides a far better explanation than I could articulate:

"My Shorter Oxford defines whimsical as “characterised by deviation from the ordinary as if determined by mere caprice.” I think of it as a flight of fancy ungrounded in any sort of emotional, psychological, geographical or anthropological realism. I am all for fantasy, by the way, and am not an advocate of unadulterated realism, though it too has its place in the cinema. But the best fantasy is an integral part of the storytelling, and has ties to reality – albeit often in deep cover, buried beneath metaphor. Whimsy, on the other hand, is tetherless. It aspires to be surrealism or magical realism, but it’s really just pulling arbitrary rabbits out of a hat, trying to impress us with its off-the-wall kookiness." Taken from: https://multiglom.com/2015/08/16/filmsy-when-whimsy-runs-riot-in-the-cinema/

The young and Prodigious T.S. Spivet

FILMSY: WHEN WHIMSY RUNS RIOT IN THE CINEMA

In Jean-Piere Jeunet’s The Young and Prodigious T.S. Spivet, the 10 year-old boy inventor embarks on an epic solo journey from Montana to Washington DC, to collect an award for his invention …

https://multiglom.com/2015/08/16/filmsy-when-whimsy-runs-riot-in-the-cinema

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MartinCrieffsLemon · 17/01/2025 21:01

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 18:33

Me also. I only suggested Black Doves as it was the only thing I could think off that mixed light heartenedness with violence which in her brief and vague OP she did mention.

No idea of it is the sort of thing she was actually thinking off though.

Maybe the Kingsmen films?

OP needs to be clearer

CrystalSingerFan · 17/01/2025 19:53

Didactylos · 17/01/2025 13:18

Placetne, magistra?

Yeah!

CrystalSingerFan · 17/01/2025 19:49

BakewellTart66 · 17/01/2025 11:18

God, yes! Whimsy overdose is simply tedious. It’s also forced and somehow smug and twee.
I just watched The Electrical Life of Louis Wain, a film which deals with the dark subject of mental illness. It was good, but would have been excellent without the overlay of quaintness and whimsy.
Let’s leave all that stuff to Mary Poppins and her target audience.

Gotta disagree with your opinion of the Louis Wain film. IMO it was excellent and I wept buckets at the end. Plus, I'm REALLY not a Benedict Cumberbatch fan but I thought he was great in this. Plus, surely, the quaintness and whimsy is necessary given the content of his art and the Victorian attitude towards it?