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Is this woman a genius or a damaged individual?Bonnie Blue

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Emilyisherenow · 15/01/2025 15:54

I've fallen down a bit of a rabbit hole lately reading about Bonnie Blue and her mate Lily Phillips.

Both are Only Fans 'stars'. Who've recently gone all over the internet. One for having sex with 100 men in 24 hours and more recently Bonnie Blue for claiming to have broken the world record by having sex with over 1000 men in 12 hours.

I've seen some of their leaked only fans stuff and it's all pretty tame and dull but also quite gross in my opinion. Lots of group sex with multiple masked men who call them slluts and slap their willies in the womens faces while the women pretend to be having the time of their lives.

Lily Philips imo looks particular distressed in some of the videos. Bonnie looks much more detached from it.

Bonnie is also making the news with some of her stunts and derogatory comments about women. All done for click bait I'm sure.

Anyway, onto my aibu.

Even putting aside the very obvious dangers and health risks. Bonnie Blue is now a millionaire. She could probably retire by 30 and be set for life.

I can't decide whether I think she's extremely savvy and smart to be able to do these things but ultimately scone a very rich woman or whether she's deep down very distressed and damaged and will suffer long term.

Do you think you could do any of the things this woman has done if it guaranteed you'd be a millionaire in a few years?

OP posts:
JHound · 19/01/2025 20:13

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:03

We know she is not well.

We know that the mother is also not well.

We know that something has gone horribly wrong with this family.

We know that the men who join up are sick.

How do you “know” she is not well? How do you “know” any of this.

IDontHateRainbows · 19/01/2025 19:03

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 19/01/2025 18:46

I hope she is paying all her taxes due on it....!

I heard her husband is divorcing her, but hasn't done so yet as I bet he's dragging his heels whilst the marital pot increases exponentially, what a dilemma he must be in .

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 19/01/2025 18:46

IDontHateRainbows · 19/01/2025 16:26

She's earning 600k a month so it will take a while to burn through that.

I hope she is paying all her taxes due on it....!

IDontHateRainbows · 19/01/2025 16:26

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 19/01/2025 15:45

She will probably end up deep down regretting it AND blowing the money.

Responsible, sensible people don't sleep thousands of men in one go and plaster the footage all over the internet.

Something tells me she won't be responsible or sensible with the money she gets from it either.

She's earning 600k a month so it will take a while to burn through that.

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 19/01/2025 15:45

She will probably end up deep down regretting it AND blowing the money.

Responsible, sensible people don't sleep thousands of men in one go and plaster the footage all over the internet.

Something tells me she won't be responsible or sensible with the money she gets from it either.

louddumpernoise · 19/01/2025 15:13

User32459 · 19/01/2025 11:30

I know people look at it and think "there's something wrong with her". And there will be, but she's just a symptom of a culture and a society that's in the gutter.

I disagree...

People have always done extreme sexual things, its just now we get to hear about them.

& people have always said society is a cesspit too, was ever thus.

User32459 · 19/01/2025 11:30

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:03

We know she is not well.

We know that the mother is also not well.

We know that something has gone horribly wrong with this family.

We know that the men who join up are sick.

I know people look at it and think "there's something wrong with her". And there will be, but she's just a symptom of a culture and a society that's in the gutter.

IDontHateRainbows · 19/01/2025 11:25

Agix · 19/01/2025 08:22

A lot of women go through sexual abuse and trauma without becoming millionaires, and having had 0 control over the experience. So, I guess, going through that through your own decision and becoming a millionaire is a heck of a lot better than a lot of women have it.

Well by that logic having a hand chopped off is better off than having all four limbs chopped off but it doesn't mean having a hand chopped off is anything to aspire to.

Agix · 19/01/2025 08:22

A lot of women go through sexual abuse and trauma without becoming millionaires, and having had 0 control over the experience. So, I guess, going through that through your own decision and becoming a millionaire is a heck of a lot better than a lot of women have it.

Pebblesonthebeach40 · 19/01/2025 08:15

Sounds grim.

She basically became a hole gorva 1000 pokes of less than a minute for fame and only fans money. Very grim. Her body though.

PigInAHouse · 19/01/2025 08:03

StrawberryDream24 · 19/01/2025 07:55

The first female to reproduce in the homo sapiens species (or further back?) was a prostitute.

Okaaay.

Edited

I wonder what currency she was being paid in?

StrawberryDream24 · 19/01/2025 07:55

Pussycat22 · 16/01/2025 23:21

I think not.

The first female to reproduce in the homo sapiens species (or further back?) was a prostitute.

Okaaay.

JHound · 19/01/2025 02:16

Moonshinebaby · 16/01/2025 18:21

It massively reduces your dating pool though.

Many men wouldn't bring a Bonnie Blue home to meet their parents.

Yes I said a lot of men will be put off. But a lot of men prioritise beauty in a woman above all else.

These women won’t struggle for dates especially if they are sensible with the type of men they go for.

3luckystars · 18/01/2025 17:23

Oh no.

AliasGrace47 · 18/01/2025 17:15

I'm really sorry for Lily Phillips after reading a DM article about her life. Apparently her parents were 'sexually open', esp her mother, & she first watched porn at 13, always thinking from then she'd go into the adult industry. I think her parents are v creepy & one way or another they damaged their daughter very badly. In a podcast she made a joking reference to being autistic,& while she didn't strike me that way herself, (not that I know much), who knows? If she did have such a disability it would be even worse...

wriggleigglepiggle · 18/01/2025 16:25

The DM has a story about her husband but it's behind a paywall

ARealitycheck · 18/01/2025 15:57

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:56

The fact that her behaviour is so far from the ordinary and somewhat predictable rthymn of mammals, human and animal, is my first clue.

The video linked above confirms my initial suspicions. She cries when her day is over.

She becomes emotional and cries at a very particular point. It is instructive.

She is overcome when remembering that the men insisted on their right to orgasim, regardless of her state of being; they came a long way, waited a long time; it is what they had been promised etc.

She recognizes that to them she is a commodity. She owes them. Regardless of how she is or feels, they want their pound of flesh.

Note that ALL the men HIDE. Not one has the courage to show his face.

Nothing in the endeavour implies that she is healthy in mind.

Nothing in the endeavour implies that the men have any integrity.

So yes, I know.

Well no, you are creating your own viewpoint out of very little information.

Emilyisherenow · 18/01/2025 15:17

@andIsaid I think you are getting mixed up with Lily Phillips. She is the one who had sex with 100 men and made the documentary.

Bonnie Blue is a different woman who had sex with the 1057.

Although I still agree with everything you've said.

It's the absolute extreme end of human behaviour.

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BlueRobins · 18/01/2025 15:01

MermaidEyes · 18/01/2025 13:00

All I can think about is how clean the men were. I mean, did they all have to shower beforehand?! She's sucking on all those sweaty cock and balls. 🤮🤮

indeed, omg

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:56

ARealitycheck · 18/01/2025 13:09

How do you know that?

The fact that her behaviour is so far from the ordinary and somewhat predictable rthymn of mammals, human and animal, is my first clue.

The video linked above confirms my initial suspicions. She cries when her day is over.

She becomes emotional and cries at a very particular point. It is instructive.

She is overcome when remembering that the men insisted on their right to orgasim, regardless of her state of being; they came a long way, waited a long time; it is what they had been promised etc.

She recognizes that to them she is a commodity. She owes them. Regardless of how she is or feels, they want their pound of flesh.

Note that ALL the men HIDE. Not one has the courage to show his face.

Nothing in the endeavour implies that she is healthy in mind.

Nothing in the endeavour implies that the men have any integrity.

So yes, I know.

DiscoHippo · 18/01/2025 13:25

theworriermum · 16/01/2025 22:17

If men wanted to join a group of five, then they had two minutes with Bonnie Blue. If men wanted to do it alone, then they had 30 to 45 seconds with her. Bonnie Blue apparently only took two three-minute breaks throughout the whole 12 hours. Her team confirmed to Fabulousus*^ magazine that she slept with the very specific 1,057 men because there were 57 men still in the queue before the 12 hour time period was up, and she didn’t want to disappoint them

I just read this online on The Tab.com (came up on FB). This makes no sense. How can anyone only take 2 x 3 min breaks in 12 hours? The human needs to drink water and go to the toilet every 3-4 hours? Pushing it maybe 6 hours but how did she manage that... drinking water on the way to the WC? Not healthy at all holding your pee in that long. She willl have caused herself a UTI.

Walking away with ‘just’ a UTI from that would be a miracle.

ARealitycheck · 18/01/2025 13:09

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:03

We know she is not well.

We know that the mother is also not well.

We know that something has gone horribly wrong with this family.

We know that the men who join up are sick.

How do you know that?

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 13:03

User32459 · 16/01/2025 22:05

She's just the next Katie Price. Car crash of a life but anything for attention and money.

We know she is not well.

We know that the mother is also not well.

We know that something has gone horribly wrong with this family.

We know that the men who join up are sick.

MermaidEyes · 18/01/2025 13:00

All I can think about is how clean the men were. I mean, did they all have to shower beforehand?! She's sucking on all those sweaty cock and balls. 🤮🤮

andIsaid · 18/01/2025 12:58

RobinMcfly · 16/01/2025 16:39

to be honest and if the people could pick the clients and if society was not as judgemental as it is, i wonder what percentage of people would rather get paid for the business so to speak

if society was not as judgemental as it is

This makes no sense.

In today's world there is no sex or kink shaming.

Escorting and sex work is encouraged as a valid income stream by universities.

Only Fans is heavily promoted as valid income steam.

Gay Pride parades the world over feature mainly naked men and every iteration of male sex life that is possible to imagine - furries, men in leather thongs leading other men on dog leashes, drag queens in g strings, transexuals, transvestites, old men with young men, and so on.

Entire Greek Islands and towns in Spain are dedicates sex resorts.

Cruise ships are dedicated sex cruises.

Pornography is the most searched for/watched product on the internet, world wide, and the industry is in the top three wealthiest in the world.

Lap dancing clubs are legal.

Sex trafficking is legal in all but name.

Rape is almost legal.

Orgies are promoted by tabloids,

There has never been more sex available.

Everything goes at all times.

So how is society judgmental?

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