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To not want to sit and watch YouTubers all night?

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Miserableat29 · 14/01/2025 21:45

Been at work all day cooked put the DS to bed who is a pain for bedtime takes me a good 45 minutes to get him to sleep. Finally come downstairs to relax and have a cuppa DH is watching his fav YouTubers one after eachother. Really cringy childish stuff I can’t stand it. Had a huge argument about it and he’s gone upstairs in a huff and kicked the bin over!!

Am I supposed to just go along with what he wants.

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mondaytosunday · 16/01/2025 01:32

There should be something you could both enjoy watching together. He should have stopped. I watch loads of YouTube but do it on my own.

OonaStubbs · 16/01/2025 00:30

this is such a strange thread. Youtube is just a TV provider nowadays, no different to Netflix or the BBC. We watch far more Youtube than anything else as the content is so varied, there's always something interesting to watch.

SpikeGilesSandwich · 15/01/2025 23:31

@RisingSunn My dad is nearly 80 and he loves Itchy Boots, he's always telling me about her adventures in great detail. (I don't actually care but glad it makes him happy!)

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 15/01/2025 19:09

@mumofoneAlonebutokay
Absolute History
Architectural Digest
Animal Adventures

Do they sound like childish Andrew Tate conspiracies?

Just a small selection from the channels I'm subscribed too. There's Vogue as well, as in the magazine, they produce content exclusively for YouTube as do other companies. Many of these things from all these channels are full length (ie 1 hour plus documentaries/ interviews) and perfectly fine to stream to the main tv- obviously if everyone is happy to watch!

Myself and my partner watched a really cool documentary about Britain's Most Intereresting Council Houses.

I've got hundreds of channels I've subscribed to and the vast majority are not "Youtubers" or tutorials.

I suppose you could call Jonna Jinton a youtuber but it's beautiful scenic shots of her life in the arctic circle.

HOWEVER

ALL OF THIS IS IRRELEVANT TO THE OP

It really wouldn't matter WHAT was on the main tv the point is she's done the bulk of the work for the last for hours and she wanted something they BOTH enjoyed to just relax together! His reaction of kicking the bin is pathetic and childish.

Currently my dp has the football on the main tv hence me being on MN but we all take turns.

It's about communication and fairness which sadly seems to have been lacking in this instance.

C8H10N4O2 · 15/01/2025 16:52

The problem isn't YouTube (which has plenty of good content - its not just nutters with conspiracy theories) its the lack of discussion or agreement about what to watch in the shared space.

It would be no different if he was dominating the TV watching terrestrial channels or streamers - sharing needs discussion.

Wateroffacatsback · 15/01/2025 16:48

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Glad to see all the nutty posts have been purged

Screamingabdabz · 15/01/2025 14:06

I think I’d be more irritated that you’d done the cooking and bedtime and he’s downstairs with his feet up. What was his contribution other than having a little temper tantrum and kicking a bin?

Tommarvolo · 15/01/2025 14:02

I find the constant talking (wittering) and pace of speech very irritating on YouTube. There are no silent shots between the constant talking talking talking. Arrrgh!

MyIvyGrows · 15/01/2025 13:10

I think you’re thinking of the 2009 version of YouTube.

it’s this. It took me ages to not cringe at the suggestion to watch something on YouTube because for a good few years after launch it was just nonsense made by randoms. But - like any decent web platform - it’s very different now!

MorrisZapp · 15/01/2025 12:34

'he was watching his fav youtubers, one after the other. Really childish, cringy stuff'

From the OP. No philosophy, one hit wonders or deep dive podcasts mentioned. I'd have thrown the telly out of the window. Mindless scrolling of silly videos is strictly for phones or personal devices.

LeaderBee · 15/01/2025 12:31

Wateroffacatsback · 15/01/2025 00:20

I love the idea that YouTube isn't worth watching and is "icky", but Twitter is fine.

Or instagram - just a bunch of flakes posting pictures for attention.

Ginkypig · 15/01/2025 12:24

Forgetting peoples opinions on YouTube for a second.

the main tv is for sharing!

if more than one person is there then you find something all people want to watch.

I have programs I watch and save until I am on my own because no one else is interested and I expect others to do the same.

unless the other people in the room say no it’s fine John,Linda,jemima etc you watch that I’m not bothered

Cheesyfootballs01 · 15/01/2025 12:17

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 15/01/2025 10:38

Watching a youtuber as an adult man is despicable was my original point - i stand by it

Watching YouTube for any purpose other than what I've said, is weird

The tv is for tv programmes and films - not some random explaining his opinion on a historical event

If you have to watch YouTube for a short time it's fine on your phone/tablet for those specific tutorials you need

Its for teenagers and conspiracy theorists

I'm way outnumbered here so there's no point keeping on 😄😄 but in the cold light of day, I stand by what I've said 🥰

You are so funny.

So the millions of people who are watching YouTube are watching make up tutorials or drunkenly trying to find old songs/music?!

Because I have just watched a clip of Graham Norton’s show that’s been viewed 23 million times ( from 5 years ago no less ) and and a History Hit documentary about the real Uthred of Bamburg that’s been viewed 1.3 million times.

I guess they were all teenagers and conspiracy theorists…

🤣

slashlover · 15/01/2025 12:07

LeaderBee · 15/01/2025 11:26

The one hit wonders guy i think is called scott in the shadows? Maybe? he's very informative.

It's Todd in the Shadows, he's great and does a lot of research.

MartinCrieffsLemon · 15/01/2025 11:41

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Are you allowed on your phone in school?1

LeaderBee · 15/01/2025 11:26

slashlover · 14/01/2025 23:33

The music one was a guy who does deep dives into one hit wonders.

The psychology one is psychologist Emma Kenny.

The crackers is a random.

Not sure what you think I would be seeing that's untrue? Do you think he showed things in the crackers which weren't there?

There are lots of differing opinions on youtube, you'll find flat earthers, conspiracy theorists etc if you want. You end up finding what you like and subscribing to certain channels, it's not as if other media is always 100% truthful.

The one hit wonders guy i think is called scott in the shadows? Maybe? he's very informative.

LeaderBee · 15/01/2025 11:20

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 14/01/2025 22:32

Im fine with having a narrow view on the various uses of YouTube 😄

It feels icky honestly because i only ever used it as a teen so it doesn't seem age appropriate for a grown up but I accept that there's more to it

I'd get more of an "ick" (what a stupid term) from someone who watched TikTok and Insta reels.

LeaderBee · 15/01/2025 11:18

Wateroffacatsback · 14/01/2025 22:22

I think we should use this thread to recommend all the good stuff on YouTube.

I nominate JCS Criminal Psychology channel. Someone has also uploaded all of the Ricky Gervais Show cartoon series.

Tasting history with Max Miller
The great war and World war two with Indy neidell.
The Townsends 18th century cooking
Ashens and Lindy Beige

Boredlass · 15/01/2025 11:08

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 14/01/2025 21:48

Ew that would give me the ick tbh, a grown man watching YouTube, dunno why 😄😄

I think it is for kids and make up tutorials

Yanbu

It really isn’t

RobinMcfly · 15/01/2025 11:06

Augustus40 · 15/01/2025 11:00

I watch YouTube every day. Always plenty on it. Much better than tv!

excalty, ill admit many of the documentarys were orignally on tv, but theres that many, then when some youtubers do their own eg making a bike etc it all adds to knowledge

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 15/01/2025 11:02

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Augustus40 · 15/01/2025 11:00

I watch YouTube every day. Always plenty on it. Much better than tv!

ItGhoul · 15/01/2025 10:52

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 15/01/2025 10:38

Watching a youtuber as an adult man is despicable was my original point - i stand by it

Watching YouTube for any purpose other than what I've said, is weird

The tv is for tv programmes and films - not some random explaining his opinion on a historical event

If you have to watch YouTube for a short time it's fine on your phone/tablet for those specific tutorials you need

Its for teenagers and conspiracy theorists

I'm way outnumbered here so there's no point keeping on 😄😄 but in the cold light of day, I stand by what I've said 🥰

Ironically, you sound really immature and silly.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 15/01/2025 10:38

ThisDangDeer · 15/01/2025 08:13

You know those threads where people post about weird rules they had growing up and there would be tales of mum’s who had banned ITV from the tv and everyone laughs because it’s quite ridiculous really. 30 years time @mumofoneAlonebutokay‘s children are going to be telling everyone that their mother had this weird aversion to YouTube Grin

Watching a youtuber as an adult man is despicable was my original point - i stand by it

Watching YouTube for any purpose other than what I've said, is weird

The tv is for tv programmes and films - not some random explaining his opinion on a historical event

If you have to watch YouTube for a short time it's fine on your phone/tablet for those specific tutorials you need

Its for teenagers and conspiracy theorists

I'm way outnumbered here so there's no point keeping on 😄😄 but in the cold light of day, I stand by what I've said 🥰

ThisDangDeer · 15/01/2025 08:13

You know those threads where people post about weird rules they had growing up and there would be tales of mum’s who had banned ITV from the tv and everyone laughs because it’s quite ridiculous really. 30 years time @mumofoneAlonebutokay‘s children are going to be telling everyone that their mother had this weird aversion to YouTube Grin

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