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How many times to pass driving test?

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Ionasmum19 · 14/01/2025 16:17

Ive failed my driving test for the second time today and I'm so disappointed in myself! Got me curious, how many times did it take others to pass? I feel like giving up now!!

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stopringingme · 14/01/2025 18:35

1st time

YourWinter · 14/01/2025 18:35

I passed on my second attempt when I was 17. Two of my offspring passed first time, one the second time.

I used to work with two women in their 40s who had each failed seven times, then both learned and took tests in automatics and passed first time without gear changes to worry about. It means they’re only licensed to drive automatics but that doesn’t bother them.

unbalancedBella · 14/01/2025 18:34

I'm the only one in my family not to pass first time. I'm also the only one in my family to have never been in a road traffic accident and to never have had a speeding ticket.

Make of that what you will.

IlooklikeNigella · 14/01/2025 18:34

Eighth!

oakleaffy · 14/01/2025 18:32

Does anyone remember Maureen from Driving School?
It was very long ago now, but even Maureen passed in the end, bless her.
In an Automatic, then I read she’d passed her ordinary driving test.

Poor Maureen cried, calling herself “ thick and stupid “ - she wasn’t any of these things-
It was Maureen that made the programme entertaining.
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GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 14/01/2025 18:31

Dds both took 3 goes to pass at 17/18. A lot of lessons! But we live in a busy area, so by the time they actually passed, we were confident that they’d had plenty of practice in traffic.

A friend of a dd, who passed after just 12 lessons in a relatively quiet area where her DPs had a holiday home, was then too scared for months to drive in busy traffic anywhere near her own home!

I passed first time, but it was abroad ages ago, where it was definitely easier. We knew of someone who actually drove through a red light, and still passed! The examiner just said, ‘Remember next time!’

And when we lived in Oman, a (Brit) colleague of mine was learning with a local instructor. At one point she told him she really needed to practise reversing, to which he replied, ‘Oh, they don’t ask ladies to go backwards here.’ 😂

That was ages ago though - I bet they do now, far more cars on the roads.

Supergirl1958 · 14/01/2025 18:30

XenoBitch · 14/01/2025 16:44

I had my motorcycle license over a decade before my car one. Got told I would find car test easy... nope!

My fiancé was the other way round. He’s been driving for 18 years and struggled to pass his motorbike test!!

winter8090 · 14/01/2025 18:29

Get it rebooked OP.

Third time lucky!

Supergirl1958 · 14/01/2025 18:29

Oh came back to say I know of two different stories where people shouldn’t really have passed.

years ago a friend of mine got a morning cancellation and had been out drinking hours before so was either still drunk or badly hungover when taking her test!

another friend did the majority of her test behind a herse so couldn’t go anywhere and she subsequently passed without really doing any manoeuvres!

Meh7 · 14/01/2025 18:27

I passed first time, my 18yo passed 2nd time in October

Comedycook · 14/01/2025 18:27

I passed on my third attempt....keep going op!

oakleaffy · 14/01/2025 18:26

Keepingittogetherstepbystep · 14/01/2025 18:21

My 1st test was 10 days after my friends were involved in a fatal crash, I failed and was a bag if nerves. Lots of expectations as everyone knew.

Passed 2nd time, didn't tell anyone about it and took a lot of kalms tablets.

Don't give up

That’s absolutely awful- Poor friends.
No wonder you were nervous- Anyone would be in those circumstances.

Like last year , those four young lads in a car that came off the road in Wales-

There was talk of not allowing young and newly qualified drivers to be able to carry passengers for at least six months after passing a test- very good idea, I think.

Supergirl1958 · 14/01/2025 18:25

Ionasmum19 · 14/01/2025 16:17

Ive failed my driving test for the second time today and I'm so disappointed in myself! Got me curious, how many times did it take others to pass? I feel like giving up now!!

7!

the final test was going to be my final
test! On my second test, it was the same guy who finally passed me, I watched him add extra minors on my paper before telling me I’d failed. But with no major faults, just too many minors!! But was livid after I watched him mark them down at the end of the test, like they were made up!! I’ll add to this that before the test, he asked me which team I supported because I told him the previous night I’d watched the team to relax because he’d asked me to make conversation. Let’s just say our teams are huge rivals (think Celtic/rangers) and I think it went against me!

When I eventually passed, it was the same examiner!

Ketzele · 14/01/2025 18:24

I passed on my second try, over thirty years ago, and haven't driven since!

HollaHolla · 14/01/2025 18:22

I was first time, both in the UK (at 17), and then in Australia (at 22). Also my Advanced Driving Test. Drove for almost 30 years without incident. Then, in the last 2 years, I've hit a wall whilst reversing, scraped the underside of the car on a high kerb, and also scraped the door on a pillar. I blame menopause. I can't suddenly have become a terrible driver?!

My sister was 3rd time, and my brother either 4th or 5th. But they got there! As will you. 😀

Keepingittogetherstepbystep · 14/01/2025 18:21

My 1st test was 10 days after my friends were involved in a fatal crash, I failed and was a bag if nerves. Lots of expectations as everyone knew.

Passed 2nd time, didn't tell anyone about it and took a lot of kalms tablets.

Don't give up

oakleaffy · 14/01/2025 18:21

Rachie1973 · 14/01/2025 16:30

Eek. I have my first test booked for end of April at the age of 52. I’m not sure what I was thinking really!

Best of luck 🤞
You can do it!!
Your instructor wouldn’t put you in for the test if he didn’t think you were ready.

wendywoopywoo222 · 14/01/2025 18:20

I passed first time, had ten lessons one a week after I turned 17 and was on the road 3 months later.

That was 43 years ago so no theory test, just a few Highway Code questions.

Member984815 · 14/01/2025 18:20

The answer is do it until you pass

Yirk · 14/01/2025 18:14

5th time, I did it the fifth time in my own car, felt more relaxed.

AmateurNoun · 14/01/2025 18:13

I passed first time but I shouldn't have. I am fundamentally unsafe on the roads. I would have run a red light the week before my test if my instructor hadn't slammed the breaks and I nearly crashed on a roundabout just before the test. My parents wanted me to pass even though I was obviously terrible. I haven't driven since.

You could this as comfort that driving tests aren't that great at testing drivers 🤷‍♀️

oakleaffy · 14/01/2025 18:09

Ionasmum19 · 14/01/2025 16:27

It was a silly mistake, it was a set of double lights and I got through the first one at green but the next changed to red so I stopped, turned out they were connected lights that both changed at the same time and I shouldn't have stopped at the second light!! So annoyed!

My ex husband failed ( at 17) because he was asked to “ Take the next available left turn, and he turned at the first left into a no entry ⛔️ road..

He passed second time and was always aware after that about no entry signs!

Petrine · 14/01/2025 18:06

I passed first time.

jennyt82 · 14/01/2025 18:05

I passed first time but my sister passed on her 15th attempt, she just fell apart during the tests but I admire her for not giving up

oakleaffy · 14/01/2025 18:05

HundredMilesAnHour · 14/01/2025 17:33

I passed first time at 17. Lessons only (my parents couldn't afford to pay the extra insurance for me to be on their car).

But my Dad is a petrolhead and ex-racing/mechanic so I was immersed in cars from childhood. I would never have handled the grief if I'd failed my test. The earache I would have got doesn't even bear thinking about!

What is so ironic, mum and I passed first go ( probably the less confident drivers) but the men in the family passed second or third time-

We try not to crow about it too much! 😂
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