As title says.. Been with my partner 19 years. We have 3 kids together. I've had to give up my job that I loved after continues backpain. On going for 5 months. He works full time. We were enjoying a glass of wine earlier. I mentioned that I wasn't particularly happy with our dog groomer, she always cuts her to short. He went over the top saying we will cancel etc in a dramatic way. I tell him this is the second time today I've voiced an opinion and he's overreacted. He then gets up and smashes a wine glass telling me I'm a shite unsettled person and punches a door on the way out. What the actual. I'm literally in shock. Yes I've been sad I've lost my job but still looking after my house and making sure that twat has a cooked meal after his shift😌