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What do gallstones feel like

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Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 20:23

for a few weeks I have had indigestion starting In the usual normal place for heartburn, centrally in the sternum, I feel like I need to burp, but can’t, then keep getting painful hiccups.

I’ve been taking nexium and gaviscon. This does help with the heartburn but then sometimes it travels down and turns into this pain relentlessly nagging and burning kind of gnawing pain for hours and hours that is more on the right hand side where my rib cage ends. No pain in my back. It feels like I have lots of trapped gas, but I don’t, as nothing is happening other than just having this pain. I have to lie down for ages and eventually it might go away of its own accord but nothing I do helps the pain to go apart from time. I’m not sick otherwise in any other way just this pain is ruining my life! It does hurt if I press on the area a bit

Earlier I felt ok a little bit of indigestion. I ate a normal healthy breakfast but then I was at a kids party and the only food was a slice of pizza, I was hungry, couldn’t leave and no other options so I ate one slice and since then I have been lying down for 5 hours with this pain. Regret regret.

I have nothing to compare this to so just wondered if this sounds like an ulcer or something. I will go see a doctor but just wondered if the 2 things might be related in anyone else’s experience

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BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 22:19

PrincessofWells · 12/01/2025 22:16

A bad idea . . . really, you don't need and shouldnt do this. My response to the poster suggesting lieing.

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Why not? I was in agony frequently, they knew how big my stones were and I still had to wait four months for surgery. When it was done my gallbladder was on the point of bursting. What’s wrong with exaggerating the symptoms to hurry it up? I wish I had.

Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 22:17

PrincessofWells · 12/01/2025 22:14

@Kalei87 Immediately adopting a very low fat diet whilst you are waiting for investigation will help. Skimmed milk, no animal fats, 0% fat yoghurt, no meat will help. Good luck.

Thanks I do usually eat this way. I had one slice of pizza and this happened! The other day I think it was bread that set it off. I will start keeping a track. I had this happen to me once 2 years ago after eating a pitta bread and then it didn’t happen again until recently so I didn’t go to the GP as it seemed to be a one off

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PrincessofWells · 12/01/2025 22:16

Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 22:05

I’ve had this on a number of occasions and I added up the longest was 16 hours! So I will make sure I tell them about all this

A bad idea . . . really, you don't need and shouldnt do this. My response to the poster suggesting lieing.

PrincessofWells · 12/01/2025 22:14

@Kalei87 Immediately adopting a very low fat diet whilst you are waiting for investigation will help. Skimmed milk, no animal fats, 0% fat yoghurt, no meat will help. Good luck.

Sunshineandrainbow · 12/01/2025 22:09

When I get an attack usually middle of the night I take 2 buscopan, drink a load of squash, drink some apple juice mixed with apple cider vinegar and then go back to bed with a peppermint tea.

I also cuddle a hot water bottle to ease it.

Eastmeetswest1 · 12/01/2025 22:06

If any help while I waited for the operation the doctor phoned me and told me to cut out all fatty foods - I stopped having puddings and cheese was a biggy to stop too. You want to get checked out ASAP to get the ball rolling.

Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 22:05

BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 22:03

My advice is to exaggerate the pain you’re in. The quicker your gallbladder’s out, the better.

I’ve had this on a number of occasions and I added up the longest was 16 hours! So I will make sure I tell them about all this

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BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 22:03

My advice is to exaggerate the pain you’re in. The quicker your gallbladder’s out, the better.

Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 22:00

BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 21:54

This was one of mine. There were two of these bad bastards.

Holy moly!

I think I have whatever is the sludge or a grumble. I don’t think it is a fully stuck stone it’s not like childbirth. It’s still bloody uncomfortable. I will go get liver etc checked out too. The worst of the pain has passed I’m now just in uncomfortable discomfort

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tunainatin · 12/01/2025 21:56

I agree, worse than childbirth, I had no idea what it was and thought I must be dying.

BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 21:54

This was one of mine. There were two of these bad bastards.

What do gallstones feel like
BIossomtoes · 12/01/2025 21:47

Witchcraftandhokum · 12/01/2025 20:26

My grandmother who had an extremely high pain threshold said it was a pain worse than childbirth.

I am slightly.more wimpy and actually.passed out from the pain.

I agree with your granny, it was like being shot. Worst pain I’ve ever had.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 12/01/2025 21:41

The attacks get worse and worse. I remember eyeing up the kitchen knives during one attack towards the end, wondering how hard it'd be to remove it myself. Sounds nut now, but at the time I was considering the feasibility.

BillyDaveysDaughter · 12/01/2025 21:32

That makes sense @Sebsaloysius - explains why I had long-lasting but less excruciating pain than others have experienced. I always wondered, it's not that I have super human tolerance to pain then!

Sebsaloysius · 12/01/2025 21:29

I had pancreatitis caused by gallstones and I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone, it was horrific. I had my gallbladder taken out as soon as the pancreas inflammation had settled and whilst waiting for the op, I did have two 'attacks' which were equally as dreadful. At one point, I distinctly remember clutching my DH's hand and asking him to go find someone with a gun - I honestly meant it too.

I remember a doctor at the time saying "you must have very small stones in there, Sebs". Apparently, the smaller the stones, the easier it is for them to work their way down the bile duct, and it is this movement that causes the 'get me a gun' type of pain. He said that when the stones are larger, they typically cause less intense pain because they simply can't move around as much, but can cause a blockage in the bile duct and this will often cause less intense, but longer lasting pain than that caused by smaller stones. Chronic versus acute, I guess.

A quick US scan will confirm or rule out gallstones, so definitely book an appointment with the GP as whatever it is, it wants looking into.

Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 21:22

Ok this will jinx it but after over 5 hours it’s finally subsiding a bit. I laid out on my front for ages stretching out as far as I could and something seems to have become relieved and less spasm-y. I read the other thread I am off to try buscopan

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UnhappyAndYouKnowIt · 12/01/2025 21:15

For me it was an awful pain from the centre below my rib cage right through to my back. Nothing relieved it, pouring with sweat and I just didn't know where to put myself.

CharlotteCChapel · 12/01/2025 21:11

I thought I was having a heart attack when my gallstones flared

LostittoBostik · 12/01/2025 21:10

Mine felt like yours. Got sent to a&e by GP who found gall sludge but not stones.

I have only had one attack that improved after taking omeprazole so they haven't put me on the removal list, but I'm entitled to get referred immediately if it happens again.

My conclusion was that it was gastritis and as a result they happened to find the sludge. But I'm obviously keeping an eye on it.

BillyDaveysDaughter · 12/01/2025 21:09

Does sound a bit like gallstones @Kalei87 - like you, I had a gnawing, annoying and persistent stitch pain which was sucking all the pleasure out of my life, but whilst really horribly uncomfortable I'd had worse pain with a kidney infection /stone. Funnily enough it was full fat yoghurt that used to trigger it the most.

It was indeed gallstones, This was my thread at the time. I didn't mention it on the thread I don't think, but my bloods were completely normal - the scan showed a gallbladder jam-packed with stones, but when the surgeon got in there it was one big one. He had to break it into 4 pieces to get it out through the keyhole (along with the gallbladder obvs).

Zanatdy · 12/01/2025 21:08

My experience of gallstones was excruciating pain for 3-4hrs. Sadly mine never properly went away as one stone damaged my pancreatic duct giving me a pancreas disease (acute pancreatitis even more painful). But some people have different experiences so do get checked out. Thanks to my experience I always say get it out asap as you don’t know the damage a little stone can do, I ended up with half my pancreas removed too, which was one massive, long surgery

AppleDumplings · 12/01/2025 21:04

I had the most excruciating middle back pain. I would be pouring with sweat one minute and freezing the next. Utter agony. Eventually passed them. Not reccomended.

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Kalei87 · 12/01/2025 20:58

@spackleplumb I barely ever eat those kinds of foods, I am a chicken and rice girl day to day. Give me sushi all day I am happy. The pizza was just lack of choice 😭

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StartingOverIn2025 · 12/01/2025 20:58

It felt to me like being winded but a very intense dull ache, excruciating pain that literally took my breath away at the top of my abdomen.