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To send them home? (trigger warning grooming gangs)

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DarkAndConfusingTimes · 11/01/2025 13:43

The Rape and Grooming scandal is blowing up on twitter/social media and the extent of the scandal is actually mind boggling. Apparently up to 250,000 girls may have been affected 😱

This initially shocked me but when I thought of it, although I’m based in a rural area I know of two girls who have been caught up in it - one of whom in my class at school was raped in a park aged around thirteen and another family friends daughter found naked in a room with a group of adult men at the age of 14 and was blamed for leading them all on. Those living in towns/cities must see so much more of this?!

I’ve also heard today that Pakistan is willing to take back criminals convicted in the Uk of these crimes (UK-Pakistan Prisoner treaty agreement) and has been for a number of years but we’re not sending them back. I know not all perpetrators are Pakistani and not all Pakistani men are capable of such evil (and I work with plenty of decent Pakistani men), but of those who are convicted and born there why on earth are they still here in the UK if we can remove them as a danger from our society and their home country is willing to take them?

In have two daughters and I’m honestly terrified for their future given this significant threat to young girls in this country. It seems like no one cares enough to rock the boat.

YABU - No they should remain here and we should deal with it
YANBU - They should be sent back

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TriesNotToBeCynical · 15/01/2025 01:31

How do you strip a British Citizen of their Citizen ship please?

@istheheatingonyet By being an evil, cynical and populist Home Secretary with no consideration for a groomed child; and there being some tenuous hint of an alternative citizenship they could obtain. And she was also born British, not naturalised. It is actually inexcusable.

istheheatingonyet · 14/01/2025 21:01

Lucy0o · 14/01/2025 13:33

Most of them were born in Britain though. I don’t care. If Shamima Beghums citizenship can be stripped then so can there’s. They are far more of a danger to people in this country imo than she is

How do you strip a British Citizen of their Citizen ship please?

I'm all ears.

I don't think you get to swap Shamima for Abdul , that's not how it works.

Lucy0o · 14/01/2025 13:35

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Lucy0o · 14/01/2025 13:33

GingerWineIsGood · 14/01/2025 12:33

No. About the ones of them who aren't. As I would expect British criminals to be deported back to Britain. Good grief. How hard is it for some people?

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Most of them were born in Britain though. I don’t care. If Shamima Beghums citizenship can be stripped then so can there’s. They are far more of a danger to people in this country imo than she is

username299 · 14/01/2025 12:37

GingerWineIsGood · 14/01/2025 12:33

No. About the ones of them who aren't. As I would expect British criminals to be deported back to Britain. Good grief. How hard is it for some people?

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It's very, very hard for some people. Foreign criminals are deported where possible in Britain. Why start a thread about it?

Deport foreign criminals! We already do...

GingerWineIsGood · 14/01/2025 12:33

username299 · 14/01/2025 11:38

"Send them home" about largely British people?

No. About the ones of them who aren't. As I would expect British criminals to be deported back to Britain. Good grief. How hard is it for some people?

GingerWineIsGood · 14/01/2025 12:32

FakeNewts · 14/01/2025 11:22

When did Mumsnet turn into the Daily Mail? I'd expect this sort of 'brown people are all evil rapists' there, but I thought Mumsnet was better than that. Obviously not.

There only people mentioning skin colour are those who are shouting racism. It's not about skin colour. Read the thread again, carefully, paying attention to your reading comprehension. This is one reason why proper, sensible discussions can never be had.

username299 · 14/01/2025 11:38

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 14/01/2025 11:36

I must have missed the post that said that, I’m sure you must have reported it though

"Send them home" about largely British people?

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 14/01/2025 11:36

FakeNewts · 14/01/2025 11:22

When did Mumsnet turn into the Daily Mail? I'd expect this sort of 'brown people are all evil rapists' there, but I thought Mumsnet was better than that. Obviously not.

I must have missed the post that said that, I’m sure you must have reported it though

FakeNewts · 14/01/2025 11:22

When did Mumsnet turn into the Daily Mail? I'd expect this sort of 'brown people are all evil rapists' there, but I thought Mumsnet was better than that. Obviously not.

EasternStandard · 14/01/2025 10:31

OneAmberFinch · 14/01/2025 10:28

The 1951 Refugee Convention is a product of a different world, and should be replaced with something that acknowledges the massively different patterns of migration that exist 70 years later.

Jailing someone until they can be deported (in the case of Afghanistan, etc) is also completely within our power.

It's nonsensical the way we completely disempower ourselves through all these bits of "international law" that will never be enforced. There is no way the US for example is going to set a precedent of going to war or imposing economic sanctions on an ally because they were too mean to rapist refugees. There just isn't. These are just words on paper and we increasingly live in a world where people see them as such.

I agree we’ll see strain around a convention that was created at a different time

All these political shifts we’re seeing are due to inability to deal with huge change in migration and those profiting from that

The US might be some sort of trigger for change

OneAmberFinch · 14/01/2025 10:28

The 1951 Refugee Convention is a product of a different world, and should be replaced with something that acknowledges the massively different patterns of migration that exist 70 years later.

Jailing someone until they can be deported (in the case of Afghanistan, etc) is also completely within our power.

It's nonsensical the way we completely disempower ourselves through all these bits of "international law" that will never be enforced. There is no way the US for example is going to set a precedent of going to war or imposing economic sanctions on an ally because they were too mean to rapist refugees. There just isn't. These are just words on paper and we increasingly live in a world where people see them as such.

LondonLawyer · 14/01/2025 10:12

EasternStandard · 14/01/2025 09:08

Is he waiting for a decision on asylum?

I'm sorry, I don't know about this particular case.

LondonLawyer · 14/01/2025 10:11

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 14/01/2025 09:03

Who cares if he's in fear of persecution. Actions have consequences and he should have thought about those before he raped.

I am not responsible for the law, honest.

The UK has, however, been a signatory to the Refugee Convention since it was created in 1951, and under that it's not possible to return someone with a "well-founded fear of persecution" unless he is excluded from the Convention because of a "serious non-political crime".

Under Article 3 of the ECHR there is no exclusion; the UK cannot send someone to a country where there is a "real risk" of inhumane and degrading treatment.

In practical terms, too, it's going to be very difficult to send someone to (for example) Afghanistan.

EasternStandard · 14/01/2025 09:08

LondonLawyer · 13/01/2025 21:04

That's certainly not about one particular case. If any "foreign criminal" has a well-founded fear of persecution in the country to which he would be deported then he won't be deported. He's unlikely to be granted status as an asylum seeker, though, it's more probable he'll get a series of short-term periods of leave to remain in the UK.

Is he waiting for a decision on asylum?

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 14/01/2025 09:03

LondonLawyer · 13/01/2025 21:04

That's certainly not about one particular case. If any "foreign criminal" has a well-founded fear of persecution in the country to which he would be deported then he won't be deported. He's unlikely to be granted status as an asylum seeker, though, it's more probable he'll get a series of short-term periods of leave to remain in the UK.

Who cares if he's in fear of persecution. Actions have consequences and he should have thought about those before he raped.

Hungryheart2025 · 13/01/2025 22:22

I believe that sentences should be served in the country where the crime took place, with deportation and a ban on returning following as soon as they finish their sentence.

I don't think that people with an non-UK nationality should be deported for littering, but it should be dependent on the type of crime and/or the lenght of time served.

This is about protecting children, I realise that there are commentators online using it for race matters, and they don't care about the kids at all, but children were raped and abused, and the safeguarding of children needs to be centred. If an inquiry finds that the police and social services didn't do enough to protect these kids, then new proceduers can be put in place. I just don't understand why first the Tories, and now Labour, are refusing to carry out an inquiry.

It doesn't matter whether the abusers were white or brown, all abusers acting as part of these networks need to face lengthy sentences, and police and agencies need to be aware that these crimes happen, and actively work to protect these kids. It's a bonus that you can deport non-national criminals, home grown you're stuck with.

I'm an EU national, and if I committed a serious crime, I think it would be reasonable for the UK to deport me.

KTheGrey · 13/01/2025 22:00

JHound · 13/01/2025 10:50

Just above “littering”?

So non payment of TV license, a speeding offence, a caution for public intoxication, party drug use - all deportation?

How can we hope for integration where we have such an extreme two tier justice system?

I cannot imagine that it makes sense that a crime that would have a slap on the wrist for Britons would have a deportation for somebody born elsewhere.

Would it not make for more integration because nobody would misbehave? There are still Britons imprisoned for not having to licences btw - system is pretty two tier for women offenders.

HermioneWeasley · 13/01/2025 21:52

foreign criminals should be deported. This should not be controversial. Nobody is forced to rape someone. This country is a joke.

LondonLawyer · 13/01/2025 21:50

OneAmberFinch · 13/01/2025 21:46

This is such a legalistic technicality - "he won't get asylum but he'll still get to stay". Come on.

It does make a number of practical and legal differences.

OneAmberFinch · 13/01/2025 21:46

LondonLawyer · 13/01/2025 21:04

That's certainly not about one particular case. If any "foreign criminal" has a well-founded fear of persecution in the country to which he would be deported then he won't be deported. He's unlikely to be granted status as an asylum seeker, though, it's more probable he'll get a series of short-term periods of leave to remain in the UK.

This is such a legalistic technicality - "he won't get asylum but he'll still get to stay". Come on.

LondonLawyer · 13/01/2025 21:04

HermioneWeasley · 13/01/2025 20:37

It was in the Times today that a rapist (not part of a grooming gang) can’t be deported because he’s bisexual and will face persecution in his home country.

WTAF? I do not give a fuck about the human rights of rapists. If you are LGB and that means you will face persecution in your home country, perhaps don’t rape innocent women in Britain.

it’s a fucking joke. And the lawyers defending and protecting this scum should be ashamed.

That's certainly not about one particular case. If any "foreign criminal" has a well-founded fear of persecution in the country to which he would be deported then he won't be deported. He's unlikely to be granted status as an asylum seeker, though, it's more probable he'll get a series of short-term periods of leave to remain in the UK.

HermioneWeasley · 13/01/2025 20:37

It was in the Times today that a rapist (not part of a grooming gang) can’t be deported because he’s bisexual and will face persecution in his home country.

WTAF? I do not give a fuck about the human rights of rapists. If you are LGB and that means you will face persecution in your home country, perhaps don’t rape innocent women in Britain.

it’s a fucking joke. And the lawyers defending and protecting this scum should be ashamed.

istheheatingonyet · 13/01/2025 14:56

If any of them cared one jot about poor girls in Northern towns being abused they would have said something or done something.

They are playing people and stirring up WW3

istheheatingonyet · 13/01/2025 14:52

DarkAndConfusingTimes · 11/01/2025 21:07

I don't understand the relevance of your last statement? Are you assuming as they are men and working in politics that they don’t care?

I'm assuming that they are making political capital from abuse.

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