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To be irritated by Carrie Johnson gushing away about the wonderful NHS from her shiny private hospital room?

120 replies

Everythingisnumbersnow · 11/01/2025 13:34

You can bet if you or I were admitted for pneumonia we'd be allocated a ward with three others hacking away all night for a week.

If families of politicians (yes including ex PMs) had to use ordinary services, ordinary services would be a lot better.

OP posts:
Longma · 12/01/2025 10:17

youngoldthing · 11/01/2025 19:21

The lack of compassion on this thread for a woman who’s been unwell with pneumonia and the flu is staggering.

Yes, this.

I dint know the woman well enough to know if I'd like her or not.
I'm not going to judge her in her choice of husband.

However having been really poorly with pneumonia - it's awful. I felt so poorly, could barely walk far enough to reach the bathroom unaided. When I ended up in hospital with it I had a single room. I didn't pay or request it. It helps reduce the spread of flu amongst already vulnerable patients.

Longma · 12/01/2025 10:14

BobbyBiscuits · 11/01/2025 15:42

@AgnesX I know she's entitled. She's very fucking entitled. If you can pay then you should. Especially If you're a Tory who wants to close down the whole service. Or near enough.

Whatever job she has is purely through her husband or connections. I doubt she'd make it as a PA in an SME in the 'real world'.

I thought MN was generally anti paying private for things that should be free and equal for all.

It seems not in this thread.

Private schools - bad (according to Mn)
But suddenly private hospitals - good

Bettyspants · 12/01/2025 01:16

user22446688 · 11/01/2025 18:05

If you were shot, stabbed, having a heart attack or transported by ambulance, no, they're not where I would go. But for a non-life-threatening accident, suspected appendicitis, sepsis, cellulitis, possible pneumonia (which I understand is what she has), etc., they're very good.

just a quick note, you’ve mentioned life threatening illness there such as sepsis which needs a ‘golden hour’ to initiate treatment for best outcomes

PiggyPigalle · 11/01/2025 20:59

Sinkintotheswamp · 11/01/2025 20:32

I'd probably leap from my death bed to give her useless lump of a husband a piece of my mind.

Her "useless lump of a husband" has turned out to be the best friend to President Zelensky and Ukraine who he still visits regularly, long after the rest have fallen away. Good enough for me.
Poor Prime Minister though.

Andoutcomethewolves · 11/01/2025 20:58

I do think it depends on the hospital. I was admitted last night and got a nice private room with toilet. Completely standard NHS hospital and I was only in for a head injury (so not infectious or anything that would mean o should be kept away from others).

I have another chronic health condition so have been admitted a few times over the years. Only once have i ended up on a ward. Always a private room.

BIossomtoes · 11/01/2025 20:51

Wildwalksinjanuary · 11/01/2025 20:46

Honestly it’s sickening the way you are so hateful. You must have an awful life to summon up such spite for someone you don’t even know and have never met.

I think we all know what Johnson is and there would be a very big crowd elbowing @Sinkintotheswamp out the way to get there first.

Wildwalksinjanuary · 11/01/2025 20:46

Sinkintotheswamp · 11/01/2025 20:32

I'd probably leap from my death bed to give her useless lump of a husband a piece of my mind.

Honestly it’s sickening the way you are so hateful. You must have an awful life to summon up such spite for someone you don’t even know and have never met.

Wildwalksinjanuary · 11/01/2025 20:44

I feel sorry to hear Carrie has been so ill as to be in hospital that long. It’s very worrying that fit, young people are becoming so poorly. I hope she is recovering.

Sinkintotheswamp · 11/01/2025 20:32

Phthia · 11/01/2025 16:22

To be fair, perhaps they're protecting the other patients from the sight and sound of her husband if he ever visits her. It would certainly give me a relapse.

I'd probably leap from my death bed to give her useless lump of a husband a piece of my mind.

Thatwouldbeme · 11/01/2025 20:30

Infuriates me, my 83yr old mother spent 28hrs waiting ER, with what turned out to be pneumonia, no permanent bed for her. Sent home with a vertual nurse 🙄. Yes I can say for a woman of her age and how poorly she was a virtual nurse was rediculous

BIossomtoes · 11/01/2025 20:30

Aunty1000 · 11/01/2025 20:28

Yes precisely, that's what I mean, but clearly I am too incensed to articulate properly. Thank you.

I understand. My 94 year old mum was sent home after a stroke with an A&E doctor swearing black was white she hadn’t had one. I don’t imagine I was at my most articulate just after that.

Aunty1000 · 11/01/2025 20:28

BIossomtoes · 11/01/2025 20:27

Instead of moaning about a mother of three small children getting appropriate care you’d be better off railing about the fact that everyone doesn’t get it.

Yes precisely, that's what I mean, but clearly I am too incensed to articulate properly. Thank you.

BIossomtoes · 11/01/2025 20:27

Aunty1000 · 11/01/2025 20:18

I can see I'm not the only one highly irritated by the injustice in our society.

My 90 year old father spent 3 days on a trolley in A&E for the same illness, then packed off home before he was better as there was no chance of beds being available and told to phone the ambulance if he couldn't breathe again... and she gets her own room and proper assistance. Awful. Where's the compassion for the common folk with no connections who also have been suffering with flu and pneumonia... and our old enough to be more susceptible to fatal complications.

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Instead of moaning about a mother of three small children getting appropriate care you’d be better off railing about the fact that everyone doesn’t get it.

Newname85 · 11/01/2025 20:21

Wendolino · 11/01/2025 13:55

Her room looks very like the private room my relative was in for 3 weeks at our bog standard local NHS hospital. It was en suite and very clean too, and she's never been married to a famous politician.

I had a private room at an NHS hospital for a week. Same experience. It was super clean and had an en-suite (which was also super clean)

Aunty1000 · 11/01/2025 20:18

I can see I'm not the only one highly irritated by the injustice in our society.

My 90 year old father spent 3 days on a trolley in A&E for the same illness, then packed off home before he was better as there was no chance of beds being available and told to phone the ambulance if he couldn't breathe again... and she gets her own room and proper assistance. Awful. Where's the compassion for the common folk with no connections who also have been suffering with flu and pneumonia... and our old enough to be more susceptible to fatal complications.

FerretChops · 11/01/2025 20:15

She's in the JR isn't she? Not a private hospital. And she's been really unwell with flu for weeks

What a totally shit thread full of bollocks

dottiehens · 11/01/2025 20:14

Same old haters and disinformation flying around as usual.

Vivi0 · 11/01/2025 19:29

She’s in a private room because she has flu. When I was admitted to hospital with flu, I was in a private room. It’s to stop the spread of the virus.

youngoldthing · 11/01/2025 19:21

The lack of compassion on this thread for a woman who’s been unwell with pneumonia and the flu is staggering.

Longma · 11/01/2025 18:12

To be fair I've been admitted to hospital with pneumonia - albeit over 10 years ago. I was in a private room throughout my stay. I didn't pay for it or request it. It was a single room with en suite area.

I was also given a private room with en-suite when I was in hospital having Dd - induction and then c section.

And again when in and I had covid, with complications, that was a very swift move from ward to private room when the results came back!

When I did go in to a private hospital for surgery (though done via NHS) I was on a ward with 4 beds.

Mrsbloggz · 11/01/2025 18:10

She trying to distract attention away from her husbands book sales, or rather the lack of.

Cynic17 · 11/01/2025 18:08

Grow up, OP. She's clearly in an NHS hospital. She may be in a room on her own but there are lots of single rooms in NHS hospitals and have been for years,
No private hospital would take her for pneumonia.
You may not like her, but don't make up stories to fulfil a political narrative, and have a bit of compassion for someone who has apparently been rather unwell.

Namerchangee · 11/01/2025 18:07

78Summer · 11/01/2025 14:04

I did find it infuriating as a week before Christmas my father had a 5 hour wait for an ambulance was then in an outside atrium for another 2 hours and then died from a blood clot to the stomach. He didn’t have a chance.

This is so awful - I am so sorry. Unimaginable. What has happened to our NHS?

SoapySponge · 11/01/2025 18:05

Last two times I was admitted to hospital as a NHS patient I got a private room.
It was deemed clinically necessary.
YABU

user22446688 · 11/01/2025 18:05

RichardMarxisinnocent · 11/01/2025 17:55

My understanding is that these are Urgent care centres, not full Emergency Departments. For life or limb threatening issues, people still need to go to an ED at an NHS hospital.

If you were shot, stabbed, having a heart attack or transported by ambulance, no, they're not where I would go. But for a non-life-threatening accident, suspected appendicitis, sepsis, cellulitis, possible pneumonia (which I understand is what she has), etc., they're very good.