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Should parents be held more accountable to tackle teenage knife crime?

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Gotthatbigpenergy · 11/01/2025 08:08

Hi all,

I wanted to share an idea I’ve been thinking about to help tackle teenage knife crime, and I’d love to hear your thoughts.

In the US, there have been recent cases where parents were charged after their children committed school shootings because they failed to lock up their guns properly. This got me thinking about whether we should adopt a similar approach here in the UK when it comes to knife crime.

My suggestion is this: for children under 16, parents should be held responsible for ensuring their kids don’t have unsupervised access to knives. If a child leaves the house, parents should make sure all knives are secured—whether that means reducing the number of knives in the home or locking sharp knives away in a safe box.

Parents need to take responsibility for the children they are raising and the environments they are creating at home. By implementing stricter rules around knife access, we might reduce the risk of these weapons ending up in the wrong hands.

Of course, this shouldn’t just be about punishment or blame. The government should also step in by increasing funding for early intervention services for families, so parents and teachers can get help if they feel they’re losing control of a child. We need to tackle this issue at its root by supporting struggling families and identifying warning signs early.

https://apnews.com/article/james-crumbley-jennifer-crumbley-oxford-school-shooting-e5888f615c76c3b26153c34dc36d5436

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c9wj0vyl8xko.amp

Jennifer Crumbley stares at her husband James Crumbley during sentencing at Oakland County Circuit Court, Tuesday, April 9, 2024, in Pontiac, Mich. The Crumbley's were each sentenced to at least 10 years in prison Tuesday for failing to take steps that...

Michigan school shooter's parents sentenced to 10 years in prison for not stopping a 'runaway train'

Jennifer and James Crumbley, the first parents convicted in a U.S. mass school shooting, were sentenced to at least 10 years in prison.

https://apnews.com/article/james-crumbley-jennifer-crumbley-oxford-school-shooting-e5888f615c76c3b26153c34dc36d5436

OP posts:
verycloakanddaggers · 11/01/2025 08:15

Gotthatbigpenergy · 11/01/2025 08:11

I have 2.

Did you lock away the kitchen knives and scissors in your home?

imip · 11/01/2025 08:15

Adults would be selling children knives, groomed children would be able to obtain knives. It’s not the same as guns - they should def be locked away.

i have four teens. They need to learn to cook, put things away. Due to self harm, we have gone through a period of locking sharps - it is extremely difficult. And if not knives, there will be something in its place.

Address the root cause - poverty, grooming, mental health concerns.

Simonjt · 11/01/2025 08:14

Gotthatbigpenergy · 11/01/2025 08:11

I have 2.

Which lock box are you currently using for knives in your home?

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 11/01/2025 08:14

I work in criminal justice, young people aren't using their mum's kitchen knife to stab people. Hth

verycloakanddaggers · 11/01/2025 08:13

The point with the US charges is it is the parent's weapon and they have not locked it away. You even said that in your OP.

Really we need to prevent knife crime, rather than just punish more people afterwards.

Gotthatbigpenergy · 11/01/2025 08:11

I have 2.

OP posts:
Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 11/01/2025 08:10

How many teenagers have you had?

imip · 11/01/2025 08:10

Ridiculous idea….