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Do you expect other women to agree with you when you talk about the plight of women ?

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amijust · 10/01/2025 12:45

And what do you think about the ones that just stay silent ? Every time it comes up ?

Just wondering, as I've noticed someone in my life is always entirely silent when these convos come up.

How would you feel about someone like that ?

A couple of examples that have come up :

  • mental load being all on the woman a lot.
  • housework being a woman's problem a lot to the time.
  • at work, taking maternity leave and having kids often hurts a woman's career.
  • working from home, isn't good for women as a whole because it means a lot to women pick up even more housework and tend to work from home more to ferry kids around, this in turn hurts their careers etc.
  • being the default parent.
  • workplaces not being set up for parents in general.
  • women's health problems being largely ignored. Women being told to suck up extreme period pain for example.
  • when women show emotion, being branded as hysterical etc etc

These are just some conversations that have come up around another woman I know ( no kids yet ). Other women have agreed / disagreed or engaged on the topics. This person stays entirely silent.

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username299 · 10/01/2025 12:49

She hasn't got children OP and you're talking about bias against women with children.

Whattodo1982 · 10/01/2025 12:49

What if some of the points made do not apply to her? Because not everyone will experience the above points.

amijust · 10/01/2025 12:48

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Who said I always raise it though. No one.

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usernother · 10/01/2025 12:47

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I agree with this

celerymarmite · 10/01/2025 12:46

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