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To resent the cognitive dissonance that exists around climate change

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JacquesHarlow · 10/01/2025 09:21

Let’s be real - will anything get better when folk’s priorities are usually about themselves?

Let me explain my rather emotional opening point.

There’s been lots of news this week unsurprisingly about how we had the hottest year on record last year. The last 10 years have been the hottest on record. Wildfires, floods, you name it - the earth is changing.

Yet here in the temperate, largely rainy UK, many people I see around me are very happy to have their head in the sand, while also bizarrely choosing just one or two lines of attack on the climate crisis to shame others.

One of the parents i know has an electric car. It’s nice, I’m happy for them. They also take at least five flight a year. They have three children.

Yet if you hear them talk about diesel cars… it’s as if the owners are personally killing everyone around them.

Now don’t get me wrong. Emissions locally are important, the air our kids breathe is important. that might be a focus.

However you see it in the choice of car journeys over trains, of large SUVs over a normal family car like a Golf.

The latter particularly grates. We have a huge climate crisis. Yet Joanna or Nicola has to have a Discovery Sport for her three kids because she needs to sit high up, it’s easier to load them in, and she worries about crash worthiness.

The history books will show that rather than looking up and out for each other, we’re actually turning more inwards. Our own personal economy will always triumph over needing to protect others. If I’m able to pay £400 a month PCP on a Dispcvery Sport, then “I’ll protect my family over anything”, even though the entire thought process is irrational.

We need to take fewer flights and more rail journeys. working from home should mean more walking to school as the commute has gone. instead we’re seeing more car journeys. More flights. More large purchases; throwaway electronics; fast fashion.

AIBU to think there’s a lot of cognitive dissonance and head in the sand about climate change in the UK, and spending power (and the choices it unlocks) is king?

OP posts:
Anniedash · 14/01/2025 06:50

The thing that no one is ever able to answer is that if there is really a so-called climate emergency, why do the US, China, India and others continue to emit so much. Why do celebrities and activists who lecture the rest of us, live their lives as there is no emergency.

Clearly, they are not stupid, if there is going to be some climate related catastrophe, then they will be impacted as much as everyone else. It’s like Nuclear weapons, everyone knows that they are assured mutual destruction, so every country avoids first strike as much as possible. While witn carbon emissions, the rich and the powerful live their lives and powerful countries run themselves normally.

There is only one explanation. There is no climate emergency. The gullible have fallen for that line and are being taken for a ride.

Do as they do, not as they say.

jasjas3008 · 14/01/2025 06:49

Anniedash · 14/01/2025 06:42

EU is not going to do that. Because they are learning the lesson the hard way that climate hysteria damages your country’s living standards irreparably. But even if they went to 0, It’ll still make no difference. EU make up less than 6% of global emissions. India’s emissions alone will grow more than that in the next few years.

As I say feeling good about stuff doesn’t mean it’s worth anything or that it makes any difference to the world. With respect, that’s the term virus signal is so heavily associated with people who see themselves as climate activists or environmentalists.

Well, in that case, lets do nothing at all and see things like floods and fires become the norm & what that will mean for food security.

Its all very well your doom n gloom "there is nothing we can do" attitude but it is a rather negative message.

Anniedash · 14/01/2025 06:42

jasjas3008 · 14/01/2025 06:24

So, lets say all EU/European countries take that attitude? thats a lot more than 1%.... actions add up.

However, i do question some stuff, like chainsaws/strimmers becoming electric... FFS how many people use a fucking chainsaw??

Its just a means to get people in that sector to buy more stuff and manufacturers to make more money.

EU is not going to do that. Because they are learning the lesson the hard way that climate hysteria damages your country’s living standards irreparably. But even if they went to 0, It’ll still make no difference. EU make up less than 6% of global emissions. India’s emissions alone will grow more than that in the next few years.

As I say feeling good about stuff doesn’t mean it’s worth anything or that it makes any difference to the world. With respect, that’s the term virus signal is so heavily associated with people who see themselves as climate activists or environmentalists.

jasjas3008 · 14/01/2025 06:24

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 20:14

It means absolutely nothing. It’s not about feeling and touching. Or any other emotional reactions. The facts are the facts. The US and China emit over a third of global emissions. UK less than 1%. It makes 0 difference what we do. It’s an absolute waste to of time for anyone in this country to jump on this bandwagon.

So, lets say all EU/European countries take that attitude? thats a lot more than 1%.... actions add up.

However, i do question some stuff, like chainsaws/strimmers becoming electric... FFS how many people use a fucking chainsaw??

Its just a means to get people in that sector to buy more stuff and manufacturers to make more money.

Cattenberg · 14/01/2025 01:18

We really need to change the way we calculate each country’s emissions.

The UK’s official figures ought to include the emissions created by the manufacture and transport of the goods we import from China, India, Vietnam etc. Also, the UK is the world’s third biggest exporter of plastic waste, which is sometimes burned, especially in Turkiye.

rozziee · 14/01/2025 00:49

user87349287657 · 10/01/2025 09:50

The only thing that will make any difference to climate change is less people. If the population fell by several Billion, then the environment would recover. But thats not going to happen…so might as well book the overseas holiday and drive a nice car!

Exactly this. A small country like the UK’s population deciding to not book that international flight or get an electric car is not going to make any difference in the scheme of the world.

sleepwouldbenice · 14/01/2025 00:27

That's incorrect but there is no point in trying to change your view

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 22:13

sleepwouldbenice · 13/01/2025 22:08

Not correct. Again who consumes the trade from China ? And again they have spent a fortune on renewable energy and are driving prices down (although I am still not a fan)
Anyway, you are validating the OPs frustration 🫤

It’s a case of being realistic. It is true. Everyone in the UK could live in a mud hut and eat dry leaves (this governments doing its best to get the country to that state) and it still would make 0 difference to the climate. That is simply a fact.

Wait until Trump gets going with ‘Drill, baby drill’. That will a whole other level of global emissions.

sleepwouldbenice · 13/01/2025 22:08

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 20:14

It means absolutely nothing. It’s not about feeling and touching. Or any other emotional reactions. The facts are the facts. The US and China emit over a third of global emissions. UK less than 1%. It makes 0 difference what we do. It’s an absolute waste to of time for anyone in this country to jump on this bandwagon.

Not correct. Again who consumes the trade from China ? And again they have spent a fortune on renewable energy and are driving prices down (although I am still not a fan)
Anyway, you are validating the OPs frustration 🫤

sleepwouldbenice · 13/01/2025 22:04

Ciderwine · 13/01/2025 21:56

Being climate aware is the preserve of those who can afford it. Those of us who cannot are destined to sit by and worry for our children's future.

Not entirely true

You can vote.
You can still choose to consume less, recycle, repair, etc
You can campaign and spread awareness and teach the next generation

But yes many things like an electric car or solar panels cost money and we need the government to spend on effective transport, retrofitting houses, etc which can then help everyone

Ciderwine · 13/01/2025 21:56

Being climate aware is the preserve of those who can afford it. Those of us who cannot are destined to sit by and worry for our children's future.

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:50

Sorry what are you asking me? I'm just saying that I can only control a very small amount of the world, so I choose to do it in an environmentally friendly way. I can't change the world but I can do my part. If you don't want to because you don't think it makes a difference, that's your prerogative.

Luminousalumnus · 13/01/2025 21:38

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 17:16

Yes, but in the meantime all of our individual actions add up. And we can be satisfied in the knowledge that we are doing what we can.

Our individual actions don't add up. They just don't. The UK becoming net zero will not make any difference whatsoever. We could all die in the UK and the whole country could go rewilded and it would not make any difference whatsoever. The world will rebalance itself. Certain forms of life will die out, new ones will emerge. That's fine. Why are you so invested in maintaining the status quo op?

VoodooRajin · 13/01/2025 21:24

jasjas3008 · 13/01/2025 13:26

Well, you ve just agreed with what i ve said BUT as far as i can, there are no moves to address driving standards, nothing on changing sentencing etc.

20mph zones and pedestrianisations are all very well BUT the cyclist still has to get there and what about everywhere else???

Protected cycle lanes just get used by walkers etc who then shout at cyclists for going too fast....... plus the country has no money... though there seems to be always enough to waste.

Another issue is the road surface, driving in Devon yesterday to attend a XC running race... some sections of road would have a cyclist over the bars or smash up your wheels & roads are getting worse, not better.

The car, in the eyes of the justice system, the govt and the public is King, until that changes, nothing will.

Instead we get nonsense about Heat Pumps and EPCs of C... i thought the last lot were useless, this lot are just as useless.

Perhaps AI will save us ?

Well AI does indeed recommend many of the ideas listed on this thread to reduce our carbon footprint

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:14

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 21:13

But it doesn’t. UK is less than 1% of global emissions. Nothing you do makes any difference. It’s a case of numbers and facts. It makes 0 difference.

Oh well. I'm going to carry on as I am anyway though.

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 21:13

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:11

Doesn't really matter if I am doing it to feel good, it still makes a difference.

But it doesn’t. UK is less than 1% of global emissions. Nothing you do makes any difference. It’s a case of numbers and facts. It makes 0 difference.

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:11

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 21:10

So you’re doing it to make yourself feel good, not because it makes sense.

This pretty much sums up irrational climate hysteria

Doesn't really matter if I am doing it to feel good, it still makes a difference.

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 21:10

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:08

No, the purpose is to live your life knowing you're living up to your own morals and doing what you can, and not just think "well I can't solve the whole problem so I won't bother". I'd rather look back at my life knowing I lived it honourably as far as I could. The same as me buying a homeless person a drink isn't going to solve homelessness but it reflects on me that I'm doing what I can to make life a little easier for someone. You can be a good person and acknowledge that without being smug.

So you’re doing it to make yourself feel good, not because it makes sense.

This pretty much sums up irrational climate hysteria

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 21:08

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 19:07

So the purpose is to feel smug? Rather than actual results. That’s called virtue signalling.

Because our collective actions make 0 difference. That’s right 0. Nothing we do in this country makes an ounce of impact on the climate.

No, the purpose is to live your life knowing you're living up to your own morals and doing what you can, and not just think "well I can't solve the whole problem so I won't bother". I'd rather look back at my life knowing I lived it honourably as far as I could. The same as me buying a homeless person a drink isn't going to solve homelessness but it reflects on me that I'm doing what I can to make life a little easier for someone. You can be a good person and acknowledge that without being smug.

JaneBoleynViscountessRochford · 13/01/2025 20:27

I always have major eye roll at threads like this with the underlying sentiment of “if only everyone was just as clever as me they would all understand”…..we do understand but most people don’t care.

I do what I can, walk as much as possible, buy on Vinted as much as possible, don’t overuse heating etc but I have kids, I have a dog, I’m going on two holidays abroad this year, my family eat meat, we go a bit mad on the presents at Christmas, we have a lot of electronics and we have two cars (one is electric). There have been lots of reasons on this thread as to why people don’t or won’t make the massive changes needed, it’s not because their understanding of the matter is somehow inferior to yours.

Fluffyholeysocks · 13/01/2025 20:14

From my experience people want to reduce their carbon footprint but why is it so hard to do so? I want to use the trains as I live close to a station, but with cancellations, the vast expense of tickets and a really shit Sunday service I can't. I want to use local services I can walk to - but any outpatient appointments I have are not at my local hospital - they are 20 miles across county. I don't have the money or infrastructure to purchase an electric car - I live in a victorian terrace.

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 20:14

midgetastic · 13/01/2025 19:30

That's factually incorrect

All carbon savings matter

Very little less means a little less warming

It might not feel like much - but it does matter - your actions might only save one life or home , but that something

It means absolutely nothing. It’s not about feeling and touching. Or any other emotional reactions. The facts are the facts. The US and China emit over a third of global emissions. UK less than 1%. It makes 0 difference what we do. It’s an absolute waste to of time for anyone in this country to jump on this bandwagon.

midgetastic · 13/01/2025 19:30

That's factually incorrect

All carbon savings matter

Very little less means a little less warming

It might not feel like much - but it does matter - your actions might only save one life or home , but that something

Anniedash · 13/01/2025 19:07

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 17:16

Yes, but in the meantime all of our individual actions add up. And we can be satisfied in the knowledge that we are doing what we can.

So the purpose is to feel smug? Rather than actual results. That’s called virtue signalling.

Because our collective actions make 0 difference. That’s right 0. Nothing we do in this country makes an ounce of impact on the climate.

GoldOrca · 13/01/2025 17:16

scalt · 13/01/2025 16:06

First, let's have the celebrities and politicians stop using their private jets and helicopters. They are the ones with money, power and influence; if they care about this, they need to lead by example. It's ironic that some of them use private jets to attend their climate change "conferences".

We also need to have a discussion about the media constantly frightening the pants off the public to sell newspapers; and the government doing likewise to make the public compliant. Because of all this, it is now so hard to tell what is truth and what is lies.

Then, we can talk about sacrifices made by ordinary people in the name of "climate change". Some of us remember when the scary buzzword of the day was "global warming", or even further back "the greenhouse effect" and "the hole in the ozone layer".

Yes, but in the meantime all of our individual actions add up. And we can be satisfied in the knowledge that we are doing what we can.