After years of broken sleep due to DH snoring I decided to move into my eldest DS room now he has left home. I decorated it myself and it’s lovely. I am well rested, happier and enjoy not been woken constantly with the noise. I’ve tried everything. Earplugs for me, snoring aids, sleep apnoea clinic (he doesn’t have it).
anyway DH is kicking up a fuss and sulking big time. We are still intimate and at thr weekends I go to bed with him and when the snoring is too bad I move but during the week most nights I just go to my own room. I still work 12 hour shifts and get tired but he wants me in his bed every night “to cuddle” before I go off to my own bed. I do sometimes but AIBU to want to some nights go to bed early with my book and just chill? You would have thought this was the worst thing I could do. Any other separate roomers on here with some words of wisdom and experience? I think he’s being selfish and he thinks I am.