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Which way do you stand in the shower?!

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Midnightjowel · 10/01/2025 01:57

So, I’ve spent my whole life facing ‘forwards’ as in, back to the mixer. And for some unknown reason today I flip it and stand facing the shower/ mixer and woah, a new world? Why did nobody tell me it’s about 2782929 times easier to wash my hair this way around 😂

got me thinking- what’s the normal way?!

OP posts:
StillweriseLH · 10/01/2025 10:51

Christmasgiraffe · 10/01/2025 03:30

I rotate constantly like a rotisserie chicken.

I fear it’s more like a hog roast for me, but this!

myplace · 10/01/2025 10:51

GetyourheadoutoftheovenIris · 10/01/2025 10:37

Without being rude, Is rotating to do with the size of the person? Or is it down to how powerful the water stream is?
I don’t understand why you wouldn’t be able to wash all over without rotating?

The water is hitting the back of my head and going down my back and legs. It isn’t going to reach my tummy button or under my arms.

I turn and lift my armpits to the jet, move my bust… If water and soap and hair sit in any creases, then I end up sore. I need to rinse thoroughly under my bust which can’t happen with my back to the water.

SurprisedSausage · 10/01/2025 10:50

VerityUnreasonble · 10/01/2025 07:50

I mostly sit on the floor or sometimes even lie in the bath to wash my legs. However, I have POTS and standing isn't really friendly to me. If standing, then spinning is always the way to go to avoid any cold bits and ensure everywhere gets rinsed.

I have POTS too and love a sit down shower!

ElaborateCushion · 10/01/2025 10:40

fivebyfivebuffy · 10/01/2025 02:07

Back to the shower but I spin around to rinse my front!
Don't like getting water in my face

Same. I rotate many times in the shower!

I hate water on my face, so I do it this way to avoid that.

My shower consists of:

  • stand with my back to the shower to wet hair
  • turn around to apply shampoo
  • turn around to rinse shampoo
  • turn around to apply shampoo
  • turn around to rinse shampoo
  • turn around to apply conditioner, then shower gel and scrub, leg shaving, etc, while conditioner sits
  • turn around to rinse conditioner
  • done

It has recently occured to me that I don't rotate all the way around - I just twist back and forth. I had to rotate fully the other day and it just felt really weird!

We have a shower with a rainfall head and a "regular" head too. Only used the rainfall once and (due to the face issue) felt like I was being waterboarded! Hated it and have never used it since! Looks pretty though! 😂

GetyourheadoutoftheovenIris · 10/01/2025 10:37

Without being rude, Is rotating to do with the size of the person? Or is it down to how powerful the water stream is?
I don’t understand why you wouldn’t be able to wash all over without rotating?

Dramatic · 10/01/2025 10:37

Midnightjowel · 10/01/2025 07:39

Of course you can 😂 the water goes all over you either way!

But it just sort of dribbles down the side that's facing away, surely you need to get the actual spray of water on each side of you?

lazyarse123 · 10/01/2025 10:26

How are pp rinsing all over if you don't rotate?
I start off facing the shower but have it lower and stand a bit farther back if not washing my hair and then rotate.
We now have a shower cubicle, no bath as I have mobility issues and I bought a small plastic stool to put my leg on to make access easier, dh thought I was bonkers but after using it himself he thinks I'm a genius.

Chasingsquirrels · 10/01/2025 10:18

I used to face the shower, stopped when heavily pg with dc1 as I kept burning my bump on the mixer bar.

22 years later I still face away from, other than turning round to just since my face off after washing it.

Refitted ensuite with have a rainfall shower with detachable handheld, I don't imagine it will change which way I face though.

Plus shampoo, conditioner etc are on a shelf opposite the shower mixer, so easier to face away and just reach out for them.

rebmacesrevda · 10/01/2025 09:56

I had a rainfall shower in my old house, and a handheld shower head in my current house. I've been here for three years. About a year ago, I was complaining to my friend about the tedium of washing my hair every day, so she (understandably) suggested I don't wash it every day. My view was that I shower every day, therefore my hair gets wet and I wash it too. She looked at me like I was from Mars, and said "Just lower the shower head".
I had no idea! I now wash my hair once or twice a week and my life is so much better. Rainfall showers (and obligatory wet hair) are now a rare treat in hotels for me.

Teenagerantruns · 10/01/2025 09:49

I'm a rotator, always take attachment off to rinse difficult to reach areas...never really thought about this before.🤣

Namechangedforgoodreasons · 10/01/2025 09:46

I move around but mostly sideways to the mixer. (If I stand with back to the mixer I am facing large mirror on bathroom wall outside shower and it’s not a pretty sight.)

SnowballSandwich · 10/01/2025 09:45

@Midnightjowel
Yes as long as I pile it on top of my head with a claw clip.
Occasionally I get a bit of spray at the back of my neck if I turn round to rinse my back but nothing major. I have wavy hair that I generally straighten, it frizzes easily so I wouldn't do it if it didn't work.

Catza · 10/01/2025 09:43

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 10/01/2025 09:42

I face outwards, and take the shower head off if I need to rinse somewhere more directedly (is that a word?) Recently I was speaking to DM who said she never takes the shower head off which I thought downright weird, but then I thought about those rainfall type showers which don't have a removable head. Is it normal then not to take it down to target hair/pits/bits? What do you do?

They usually come with a second attachment with a smaller head.

Catza · 10/01/2025 09:43

I take the shower head off and move it depending on where I need more water... too radical?

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 10/01/2025 09:42

I face outwards, and take the shower head off if I need to rinse somewhere more directedly (is that a word?) Recently I was speaking to DM who said she never takes the shower head off which I thought downright weird, but then I thought about those rainfall type showers which don't have a removable head. Is it normal then not to take it down to target hair/pits/bits? What do you do?

KimberleyClark · 10/01/2025 09:35

I have both a rainfall and a detachable. The latter is of the right height that I can wash my body without getting my hair wet. I mostly stand facing the shower but turn around to wash my bum. Use the rainfall to wash my hair.

CurlewKate · 10/01/2025 09:22

I was watching a 1970s American cop show recently and noticed that a character had two showers and both times faced the spray leaning with his hands against the wall. Mind you, in one of these showers he was stabbed, so maybe not to be recomended? 🤣

OldTinHat · 10/01/2025 09:21

Back to the shower. I panic if water flows over my face!

FruitFlyPie · 10/01/2025 09:08

Theres a meme or reel or something going around at the moment that claims most women have their back to the shower and most men face it. I don't see how this could be true but I'm a woman and I face away so....

StarlightLady · 10/01/2025 08:56

Frostine · 10/01/2025 08:48

Back to the shower but I spin around to rinse my front
Don't like getting water in my face . I've also got dodgy ears so protect them with cotton wool and a little vaseline as recommended by an audiologist .

Zoggs swimmer’s ear plugs are your friend.

Onlyvisiting · 10/01/2025 08:50

Midnightjowel · 10/01/2025 07:00

Omg so there’s a lot of rotaters? It never occurred to me to rotate 😂😭

I think it must depend on the type of shower. My ceiling is low so it sprays out at a bit of an angle not downwards. If I didn't rotate like rotisserie chicken then half my body wouldn't get wet! To rinse my hair I stand with my back to it and tip my head backwards. Facing would just be waterboarding myself, or I'd have to plaster my front to the wall and its my head right back to get it to run backwards and not down my front.
Basic shower routine for cleaning body is wet everywhere, step out of the spary or turn it off, soap everywhere then rinse whole body. Rotating or contorting as required to do so effectively.
And def remove the shower head to better rinse lower body.

Frostine · 10/01/2025 08:48

Back to the shower but I spin around to rinse my front
Don't like getting water in my face . I've also got dodgy ears so protect them with cotton wool and a little vaseline as recommended by an audiologist .

StarlightLady · 10/01/2025 08:48

May l slightly digress. I think l was the first person to come out as a “rotator”. 😀 I travel a lot for work and hate it when I’m in an hotel where the shower head is on a rigid pipe (permanently) fixed to the wall. My handstand skills are poor and l do not like to perform gymnast’s tricks in the shower to wash my bits!

WilmerFlintstone · 10/01/2025 08:47

paranoiaofpufflings · 10/01/2025 02:35

Radical twist - I have a "rainfall" shower and stand right underneath it!

Me too 😁

Ilovemyshed · 10/01/2025 08:45

I rotate, then flip on the drench to fully rinse hair.