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HELP! [Child rape gangs in Bradford]

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bradfordisdamned · 09/01/2025 17:39

I know this is a horrible subject.

This news article from today shows how much it's being ignored here

After the death of Star Hobson, Bradford was stripped of its child protective services because it was completely unfit.

It continues to be an absolute disaster. I feel that this nightmare is being ignored because Bradford just so happens to be the city of culture for 2025. It's being ignored for many more reasons than that of course, but this is completely and utterly unacceptable. I think officials just don't want to be accused of racism and our children continue to suffer because of it.

Can you please help me make some noise with this? I am going to be writing to my MP, but this needs more attention. We need to put pressure on prominent people to get a public enquiry underway. Rejecting it is despicable. They just don't want to admit we have a major problem.

I am pasting the article here because unfortunately the newspaper site can be riddled with ads that sometimes make it unusable, but I didn't want to ask for Mumsnet help without providing sources.

I don't think I'm being unreasonable to want this enquiry to go ahead. I think Mumsnet will agree with me. Thank you in advance.

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Officials reject new calls for public inquiry on child abuse

A PUBLIC inquiry examining child sexual abuse in the Bradford area is "unlikely to provide us with any new learning", according to the district's safeguarding partnership.
In the House of Commons on Monday, Robbie Moore, Tory MP for Keighley and Ilkley, said "rape gangs and child grooming" have "haunted" the district "for decades" - and he again accused local leaders of refusing to launch an inquiry.

He added that he feared the scale of child sexual abuse and exploitation across the Bradford district would "dwarf that of Rotherham".

In 2014, a report by Professor Alexis Jay described how more than 1,400 children were sexually exploited by gangs of mainly Asian males in Rotherham, South Yorkshire, between 1997 and 2013.

Phillipa Hubbard, of the Bradford District Safeguarding Children Partnership, responded to Mr Moore's remarks by saying: "The national Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse, which was published in October 2022 and to which Bradford contributed, has made it very clear that this is a national issue.

"Like many local authorities up and down the country, we know that agencies in our district have made mistakes in the past.
"This is why we commissioned an independent review into child sexual exploitation which was published in 2021 so that all the agencies in our district who work with children can implement the learning from past cases.

"The review was extremely detailed and thorough, and was written by an independent author. It looked in-depth at local and national learning and best practice.
"In addition to the review, our multi-agency safeguarding team undergoes regular independent scrutiny from Ofsted and the partnership also publishes an annual report, which anyone can read and which is open to public scrutiny.

"All the local agencies who are working in our district to keep children safe are committed to continued development and improvement.
"The view of our partnership remains that a public inquiry would cost a huge amount of money, use precious officer time and is unlikely to provide us with any new learning that would better-protect children from being abused."

In response, Mr Moore said: "This is a complete and utter dereliction of duty.
"The Council says its 2021 review was 'detailed', but it focused on just five children.
"Meanwhile, the Rotherham inquiry focused on the experiences of over 1,400 children.
"The idea that a Bradford inquiry would bring about no new information is an outright falsehood - and I am completely shocked by these comments.

Officials reject fresh calls for public inquiry on child abuse in Bradford

A public inquiry examining child sexual abuse in the Bradford area is "unlikely to provide us with any new learning", according to the…

https://www.thetelegraphandargus.co.uk/news/24843152.officials-reject-new-calls-public-inquiry-child-abuse/

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MushMonster · 10/01/2025 10:33

We do definitively need to get the full picture of what is happening and what happened in the past, all the details and factors behind it. And take drastic action to stop it and never ever again have anything of this kind.
In our primary and secondary, they do quite hammer the concept of grooming and consent into the kids. They do have regular police chats too, where they talk to them about these issues, abuse at home, how to contact someone for help, drugs... name it, they have this. I think it is the best way of defense.
We need to address this with our children, warn them of what has happened in the past, how groomers act, including how particular groups like these specific gangs act, have the difficult talks.
I hope you get a resolution OP. You and all the women who have been raped and assaulted. And to the boys and young men too, because it is starting to look to me like very young gay or bi boys are being mistreated just as much and extensively as young women.

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 10:12

Well if you do engage with me again, please explain how acknowledging that rape is endemic throughout society in every country that has men regardless of the ethnic or religious makeup of the population is a dismissal of harms to females around the world. It's certainly something I've never been accused of so I am curious to your reasoning.

Trying to frame rape as race issue when it's about systemic misogyny harms women and girls. I live in these areas that are being discussed. I don't see how scapegoating brown men will make my vulnerable autistic teen daughter safer when it has been white men who have harassed her.

Make the police prosecute rape. Don't let them make any excuses. You're letting them off. You're giving them the out of saying they were afraid to look racist. Make them afraid to look sexist.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/01/2025 10:01

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 09:58

You're typing words but they don't mean anything.

This is the last time I am going to engage with you because your dismissal of harms to female children and women globally is despicable.

My words mean nothing to you because you don't 'care. That's a you problem.

Many people do care.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/01/2025 09:58

Dialogue essentially, is the answer to all things. Not judgement from any one side, no hatred or finger pointing, just talking and working together for the betterment of everyone involved.

100%.

Pretending it doesn't exist helps no one and perpetuates racism and misunderstanding.

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 09:58

You're typing words but they don't mean anything.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/01/2025 09:57

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 09:34

"Difficult conversations have to be had. You are playing into the hands of ALL men by refusing to acknowledge the issue."

Confused I'm sure you believe that makes sense.

Brushing inconvenient facts under the carpet doesn't help women and girls.

You know that but don't care.

Pussycat22 · 10/01/2025 09:42

lifebow · 09/01/2025 21:50

Name changed I grew up in Bradford. I'm Sikh Punjabi, every week in our Gurdwara (in the 80, 90 and 00s) we would have community leaders coming to talk to us about the dangers of men in the Pakistani community, trying to groom Sikh girls. We would be told about girls that had gone missing.

I remember getting so much hassle being called a Sikhni, being told we were easy, I remember going into a shop and the shopkeeper trying to put his hand down my top. I got hassle from his friend all the time too.

It was good we were warned in the Gurdwaras and also our men knew so would look out for us.

One of my white friends at school was regularly abused by her 'boyfriend' she would come in bruises - wearing polo necks. Turns out it was a gang of Pakistani drug dealers operating in the area (this is 1994). So I'm tell you now this has been going on decades.

I'd say millenniums.

HappyPanda613 · 10/01/2025 09:39

I see a lot of comments like “easy meat” and passed around like “a piece of meat” which is hugely provocative and nice for a headline, but I think it is a little too simplistic to be taken at face value. When you look at the Pakistani heritage community in a lot of these northern working class towns, what you see is a communal, tightly knit, socially conservative but highly spiritual network of families that live in a society that in many ways is completely alien to them. It would be like hundreds of English families being transported to Kyoto in Japan and then left to their own devices. For the people in these communities, they see the way we dress and behave (which is absolutely our right by the way) and for some it can be quite confusing, it goes against the way they see the world and how it should be.

I think what’s needed is a coming together of community elders on one side, and Labour councillors from these towns and cities on the other, and a proper hashing out of what we as a modern, multicultural society expect from one another, in order to solve any issues that there might be.

Dialogue essentially, is the answer to all things. Not judgement from any one side, no hatred or finger pointing, just talking and working together for the betterment of everyone involved.

And also the conviction of anyone involved in any crimes that may have been committed to young girls, like the ones who are sharing their horrific stories on this thread.

Pussycat22 · 10/01/2025 09:38

bradfordisdamned · 09/01/2025 17:56

Bradford has child rapists and abusers from all backgrounds, as you can see from the linked article about Star Hobson.

The Telegraph & Argus article talks about Asian men, but if the enquiry goes ahead I think it would find men from all backgrounds involved. This is also why it's important to go ahead with it.

My hard hat is firmly on, I don't care about being yelled at anymore.

You are right, makes you wonder if there are people higher up who don't want this to come out and are blocking investigations.Just look at Epstein.

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 09:34

"Difficult conversations have to be had. You are playing into the hands of ALL men by refusing to acknowledge the issue."

Confused I'm sure you believe that makes sense.
lifeturnsonadime · 10/01/2025 09:12

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 08:21

I'm not interested in learning. I know exactly why they did it. They did it because they could. This is why rape is used in every war. Why all your favourite male musicians have got revolting stories of underage groupies.

Because our society doesn't give a shit about women.

There are no sacred castes other than the group collectively known as "men". 😒

But if I were to post a thread calling for inquiries into why men are basically being allowed to rape legally I don't think it would go down well on MN. Because people don't actually care about that. They care about one small group that are getting away with the same thing as all other men because they happen to be brown. This is a massive issue that has nothing to do with race.

I'm sorry but that is a complete and utter cop out.

Filed under too difficult just like the poor women of Afghanistan who are subjugated by some Muslim men to the point they can't talk to each other and are not educated.

Not ALL muslim men treat women badly and certainly not ALL second generation muslim Pakistani men form groups to target white children to torture and rape because they see them as 'white slags' because of the way they dress or because they see non- muslim females as 'easy meat', but some do, unless you are saying that these children and young women are lying?

Difficult conversations have to be had. You are playing into the hands of ALL men by refusing to acknowledge the issue.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/jan/08/jack-straw-white-girls-easy-meat

White girls seen as 'easy meat' by Pakistani rapists, says Jack Straw

Row erupts after former home secretary says grooming for sexual abuse is a problem among some Pakistani men

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/jan/08/jack-straw-white-girls-easy-meat

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 08:59

I still can't quite believe how nuts people went over the Sun losing its teenage boobs and "hilarious"jokes about women having opinions on the news while topless.

Kendodd · 10/01/2025 08:53

GooseMoose2 · 09/01/2025 22:31

Oh yes forgot about that lovely term that was used.

The attitude from police and a lot of men that these girls were complete slappers that would go with anyone ‘even p*s’.

These girls were the furthest away from the ‘perfect victim’ as imaginable - from what I remember they were either poor, scruffy and smelly as they often were neglected and with learning difficulties in some cases.

Or otherwise more streetwise and looked older than their years but having family troubles.

In all cases the vulnerability obvious to the men.

I remember a front page of the Sun once. Teenage girl, with a pushchair 'I don't know who may baby's dad is'. The article talked about how it could be any one of a large number of men. The whole tone of the article was - what a slag. I don't remember any criticism of the men. This was probably peak teenage mother, benefits, council flat, criticism.

Also, can we just remember the Sun has Sam Fox on page 3 age 16.

HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 08:23

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HettysHandbag · 10/01/2025 08:21

lifeturnsonadime · 09/01/2025 23:17

If you are interested in investigating why a group of seemingly normal, middle class white men acted as a group to rape a drugged Giselle Pellicot you should be equally interested to understand how groups of Pakistani men of Muslim religion acted as a group to sodomise and violently rape white children.

They are all violent men and we should have no sacred castes.

I'm not interested in learning. I know exactly why they did it. They did it because they could. This is why rape is used in every war. Why all your favourite male musicians have got revolting stories of underage groupies.

Because our society doesn't give a shit about women.

There are no sacred castes other than the group collectively known as "men". 😒

But if I were to post a thread calling for inquiries into why men are basically being allowed to rape legally I don't think it would go down well on MN. Because people don't actually care about that. They care about one small group that are getting away with the same thing as all other men because they happen to be brown. This is a massive issue that has nothing to do with race.

AgentJohnson · 10/01/2025 07:55

Because another national enquiry will do what exactly?

I think a lot of people genuinely want change but they are being gaslit by the buck passers and agitators who give zero fucks about the victims. National enquiry’s take years and they aren’t the magic bullet that people want them to be.

The chair of the last enquiry, Baroness Jay, has made it clear that the recommendations from her report need to be put into practice and the time for buck passing is over. The local areas where this is happening have had more then enough time to get their houses in order and the cries for another national enquiry, is just a cynical way to do sod all in plain fucking sight. There will probably be an enquiry and Reform and Elon will claim victory and the local governments who have power to affect change will claim they can’t do anything while an enquiry is ongoing.

The sad depressing truth is that there are far too many men, who see children and women as fair game. Just when you think the depravity of some men could not get worse, it always does. Just when you think the laziness and or incompetence of so called professionals could not get any worse, it always does.

Did race play apart in these crimes, yes it did, in the same ways that other paedophiles of other races cynically leverage power and bank on the silence of individuals and organisations who know better but choose not to do better.

I have just listened to a Radio 4 broadcast over a list of members of a Paedophile advocacy group, dating back 40 years. The Police had the list in their possession but hadn’t done anything with it. These men supported the lowering of the age of consent to four years old! The membership included teachers, head teachers, social workers etc.

I do not believe that fear of racism or the race of the children was the overriding factor for why this was not tackled. These children were vulnerable and came from disadvantaged backgrounds and thus easy to ignore or discredit.

Sadly the tolerance for violence and exploitation of children and women is still far too high and is a disgrace. Yes I want change and I want an end to the excuses but the way that this has been weaponised leaves a bad taste in the mouth.

Another fucking enquiry is only going to kick the can further down the road and while all fingers are pointing at another politician who talks a good game when it suits them, this is still happening.

GooseMoose2 · 10/01/2025 06:36

https://archive.ph/VPkPI

in the times today about the victims

Userxyd · 10/01/2025 06:02

Agree re more stop and search powers too - of loitering cars as well

Userxyd · 10/01/2025 06:01

@Itsverycold it's fucking horrendous - why no media interest? Why no funding? Have there been protest marches in these towns and cities? Risk of riots would be the reason given but risk of attention and justified outcry more like.
We need to keep the momentum going on this - literally 1000s of lives being ruined, probably 10,000s, with more perpetrators being created as this criminal family rape culture mushrooms unabated.

Itsverycold · 09/01/2025 23:27

Menopausalsourpuss · 09/01/2025 23:15

Yes it has and since they reduced stop and search alot more mostly black men have been stabbed and died. Another thing the left don't care about.

I was stopped and searched. I was fhe random tenth person they stopped ij the train station that day. I happily showed the inside of my handbag and got my train home from work. To then get abused by south asain males when I got off the train in my home town. Called the police - cobwebs….

I actually think there should be more stop and search powers. Even though I was a “victim” of one.

in fairness the officers who stopped me thanked me for my cooperation and told me my handbag (a trendy large shopper from the market) wasn’t very secure and gave me some advice on how to not get pick pocketed. That was almost twenty years ago though when the police sometimes did some actual policing

lifeturnsonadime · 09/01/2025 23:17

HettysHandbag · 09/01/2025 21:25

Does anyone really believe that the male rioters weren't also sexual abusers? Extremely violent angry men with no emotional control.

The statistics on men who rape and who would be prepared to rape given the right circumstances is what you should be afraid of. What happened in France is what you should be terrified of. No one gives a shit. Not the police, not the media. The fact that these specific cases involve brown men make it useful for a certain sort of person. But they don't give a shit about the women involved.

If you are interested in investigating why a group of seemingly normal, middle class white men acted as a group to rape a drugged Giselle Pellicot you should be equally interested to understand how groups of Pakistani men of Muslim religion acted as a group to sodomise and violently rape white children.

They are all violent men and we should have no sacred castes.

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Menopausalsourpuss · 09/01/2025 23:15

HettysHandbag · 09/01/2025 21:45

It doesn't even stop them from going after young black men on the streets in "random" stop and searches for things like drugs and paraphernalia.

Yes it has and since they reduced stop and search alot more mostly black men have been stabbed and died. Another thing the left don't care about.

Itsverycold · 09/01/2025 23:15

Userxyd · 09/01/2025 23:09

Thankyou OP and all other PP sharing their horrible experiences. So sorry for you and I hope you're ok now - brilliant you're using that to fight for other young girls. It's utterly horrific and heartbreaking for all these girls.
Totally agree we need action on the existing inquiry AND a new focussed one specifically looking at these long established networks of highly organised rapists from a specific Pakistani region.
These and all girls need to be protected, and these disgusting men need to be locked up/booted out/ dropped in the ocean.
There needs to be specific funding allocated to prevent this continuing asap. Which charities work in this area- lots of victim support stuff like Women's Aid etc but is there anything that protects girls and helps stop this happening, gives them a safe space?
Maybe we need something like youth centres entirely for girls with classes, support, networking etc. Boys could have one too run by anti gang charities/ people like Andrew Bernie Bernard to help prevent boys getting into these revolting rape gangs. Starmers promised more spending and I'd put this at the top - it's a real risk to the fabric of society if you ask me.

there is no funding, there is nothing - because apparently it is not happening according to the authorities and all governments involved.

Despite the last inquiry and despite people seeing it with their eyes or sadly young girls living it.

Userxyd · 09/01/2025 23:09

Thankyou OP and all other PP sharing their horrible experiences. So sorry for you and I hope you're ok now - brilliant you're using that to fight for other young girls. It's utterly horrific and heartbreaking for all these girls.
Totally agree we need action on the existing inquiry AND a new focussed one specifically looking at these long established networks of highly organised rapists from a specific Pakistani region.
These and all girls need to be protected, and these disgusting men need to be locked up/booted out/ dropped in the ocean.
There needs to be specific funding allocated to prevent this continuing asap. Which charities work in this area- lots of victim support stuff like Women's Aid etc but is there anything that protects girls and helps stop this happening, gives them a safe space?
Maybe we need something like youth centres entirely for girls with classes, support, networking etc. Boys could have one too run by anti gang charities/ people like Andrew Bernie Bernard to help prevent boys getting into these revolting rape gangs. Starmers promised more spending and I'd put this at the top - it's a real risk to the fabric of society if you ask me.

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