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Is it disrespectful/problematic to take a sex toy in hand luggage to Marrakech?

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sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:26

We are going to Marrakech for a holiday in a few weeks and I would like to take my vibrator.

I’m likely to take just cabin bags.

Will I encounter issues either going through or leaving the airport? I know it’s not illegal but I don’t want issues - or to appear disrespectful.

No judgments please, advice only.

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onwardsup4 · 09/01/2025 13:26

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

😂 sure it is you rebel

BeLilacSloth · 09/01/2025 13:25

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

Oh please!! This is ridiculous, if you don’t want any embarassment at the airport then don’t take it. Simple as that.

Whatafustercluck · 09/01/2025 13:24

They are quite tight at the border

In which case, perhaps op needs to remember the lube, too.

Sorry.

MudpiesinEssex · 09/01/2025 13:23

Waitingfordoggo · 09/01/2025 12:44

Not the point but I'm amazed sex toys are illegal in Thailand considering what goes on there!

They don't like the competition.

CollectedStories · 09/01/2025 13:23

Moonlightstars · 09/01/2025 13:19

They handle far worse!

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I once made a security guy at a small airport gag. I was commuting by plane regularly, and had just thrown my wallet and passport into a bag I hadn't used in a fortnight, since the last time I flew -- and he put in his (fortunately gloved) hand and drew out a banana so black and soft it had disintegrated entirely, took one look and gagged, poor man.

I apologised literally every time I saw him for ages. I think his colleagues took to piss out of him...

Ilovelifeverymuch · 09/01/2025 13:22

Sounds like a threat to Morocco's national security 😂

Don't worry about it, cover it in your bag so it's discreet and not popping out if they open your bag and everyone sees it, but it's not illegal or disrespectful unless you're doing some silly tiktok prank or something.

Enjoy your trip and have fun flicking the bean 😂

MobilityCat · 09/01/2025 13:22

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:26

We are going to Marrakech for a holiday in a few weeks and I would like to take my vibrator.

I’m likely to take just cabin bags.

Will I encounter issues either going through or leaving the airport? I know it’s not illegal but I don’t want issues - or to appear disrespectful.

No judgments please, advice only.

Taking a vibrator in your cabin bag shouldn’t be an issue at airport security, as it is not illegal. However, since Marrakech is in Morocco, which has more conservative cultural norms, it’s a good idea to take some precautions. Perhaps you could pack the vibrator in a way that is discreet and doesn’t attract attention. It’s battery-operated; so just remove the batteries to avoid it turning on accidentally. If it’s rechargeable, make sure it’s switched off. When your bag is searched, remain calm and polite. It’s a common item, so it’s unlikely to cause issues, If you’re still feeling worried, you could check directly with your airline or Morocco’s customs policies for extra reassurance. Safe travels, and enjoy your holiday!

Nutribioadvanced · 09/01/2025 13:22

Actually, I think there is a fair bit of judgement on this thread. Lots of remarks that suggest that what the OP is suggesting is offputting/disgusting. It's feels pretty prudish.

Whilst I probably wouldn't bother taking one, as it seems potentially a hassle, I totally understand why the OP would want to. Most women i know use and carry a vibrator with them when they travel.

Whatafustercluck · 09/01/2025 13:20

bigkidatheart · 09/01/2025 11:54

Make sure you clean it at the other end, you don't know where their hands have been lol

The base or the tip?

Moier · 09/01/2025 13:20

Google is your friend!!!

Is it disrespectful/problematic to take a sex toy in hand luggage to Marrakech?
Is it disrespectful/problematic to take a sex toy in hand luggage to Marrakech?
Moonlightstars · 09/01/2025 13:19

RobertaFirmino · 09/01/2025 11:40

I'm not sure it is fair on the security staff to put them in a position where they have to handle a used sex toy.

They handle far worse!

andthat · 09/01/2025 13:17

BlackStrayCat · 09/01/2025 12:23

I have been all over Morocco with work, boyfriends and later, my DD.

I would not take this in hand luggage to Marrekesh and DEFINITELY not during Ramadam. They are very particlular about things like this. DD(5) was taken away for 15 minutes qestioning once. Just because. Alcohol (unopened) has been confiscated.

No idea about legalities, but I would not do it. Also be very respectful with clothing.

This.

It is clear that previous posters cannot comprehend cultural differences and/or have not travelled to the country in question.

Whilst Morrocco might have sex shops… it’s certainly seen as taboo for women to go to them and OP could find herself in an uncomfortable situation.

PointsSouth · 09/01/2025 13:14

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 09/01/2025 12:23

I'm going to sound like a massive prude....
I think it's quite disgusting to have a vibrator in your hand luggage when someone is potentially going to have to go through your luggage. Like maybe you are getting off on the fact that the security person has to handle your used vibrator?

It's a bit like men watching porn on the tube / bus... involving unwitting people into their fantasy wank bank.

You don't sound like a prude. Given where your imagination's going, quite the opposite.

LostittoBostik · 09/01/2025 13:14

They are quite tight at the border. Not related to luggage but I was held up for an hour while I was quizzed about my job.

Pigsinblankets13 · 09/01/2025 13:14

Kenway01 · 09/01/2025 11:57

the other option is buy a vib when your there ?

Or a cucumber?

Pigsinblankets13 · 09/01/2025 13:13

RobertaFirmino · 09/01/2025 11:40

I'm not sure it is fair on the security staff to put them in a position where they have to handle a used sex toy.

Eugh fanny batter 🤢😂

Ablondiebutagoody · 09/01/2025 13:12

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

Not as judgemental as security and fellow passengers will be when they pull it out at the airport

CaptainMyCaptain · 09/01/2025 13:12

despairnow · 09/01/2025 12:35

lol. I've been to Morocco, it's very conservative. You need to. Wear head covering and cover up. It just seems an awful idea. And risky.

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I've been twice and my adult daughter went last summer. They don't expect western women to cover their heads or cover arms and legs.

Rewindpresse · 09/01/2025 13:11

bigkidatheart · 09/01/2025 12:56

It was a joke, i personally wouldn't take it and would buy one over there if i needed it

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I was also joking…

Riverswims · 09/01/2025 13:09

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:34

Unnecessary comment

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but true

QuietlyWonderful · 09/01/2025 13:08

poemsandwine · 09/01/2025 12:50

Nailed it, I think.

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So to speak ...

CaptainMyCaptain · 09/01/2025 13:07

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

It was just a suggestion to save your embarrassment.

Jc2001 · 09/01/2025 13:06

Imperrysmum · 09/01/2025 12:44

death by dildo

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I don't think I have that version of Cluedo.

AgnesX · 09/01/2025 13:04

sleepitoff · 09/01/2025 11:38

I think the comment about using my hand is judgemental about using a vibrator.

That's your sensitivity, which presumably is why you're posting.

I can't see how it's judgemental.

Zebedee999 · 09/01/2025 13:04

The worst that can happen is you'll have to throw it away at security. I've had ti throw stuff away they wouldn't allow on board.

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