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AIBU?

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To think this is just shit luck? Or is there something else going on?

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ImWorkingLateCosImASingerrrr · 09/01/2025 10:01

I'm having a bit of a rant and a moan. Feeling a bit sorry for myself.

I know most of the country is ill with some sort of illness so I'm probably being unreasonable and just need to get on with it.

I have been ill since 7th December. On 7th December I came down with a usual winter cold / cough. On 12th December I was scheduled for gynae surgery. The anaesthetist did a full exam and was happy to proceed as I did not have a temp and it didn't go to my chest. Perhaps this was my demise. Surgery recovery was fine apart from infection. I was put on a course of antibiotics for 7 days. During this time I developed an infection in one of my surgery entrances. 2nd set of antibiotics. But the cold then developed into my chest. I couldn't shake it and eventually after feeling awful on 27th December went to OOO who said I had pneumonia. Another set of antibiotics prescribed. All finished. The chest infection has cleared, but I am still very bunged up and have a dry, hacking cough. Not out the woods yet and very tired still. Monday evening I was struck down with what I think is norovirus. 3 full days of complete V&D and not being able to keep fluids down or food. Today is the first day I haven't been sick. But it was horrendous and knocked me for six. Still feel like I could easily be sick now.
This morning I have woken up with a horrible UTI. I'm guessing it's from the Diarrhoea or dehydration. I surely cannot be out back on a 4th set of antibiotics in a month!? The UTI isn't great. I have a small amount of blood when I wipe. A red tinge more than blood.

What sort of fuckery is this? Is anyone else just getting infections back to back?

My immune system is shite. I had a long and gruelling cancer battle a with multiple surgeries, but that all finished 5 years ago. I have 2 heart conditions (prolonged QT and SVT) which was brought on from my chemo. Managed with meds. I was a 26 weeker and twin so I guess my immune system has never been fabulous.

But I am STILL not entitled to the flu and pneumonia jab! I have been to my GP 3 times. I have been to OOO once. What else can I do at this stage? I do get ill every winter without fail and hold on to illnesses but this takes the fucking pish!

Any ideas on who I can see, or what I can do? AIBU to think the GP should be helping me more or do I just need to suck it up? I eat a low UPF diet, plenty of fresh fruit and veg. But I've had zero appetite since 7th December and lost over a stone. I was only 9 stone to start with.

Rant over. Sorry for the long whiney post. I know there's people out there much worse than me. I am just so fed up. Trying to work and be a mum to DD and uggghhhh. Pulling my barnet out! Just desperately in need of some advice on what I can do to improve all of this!

OP posts:
ImWorkingLateCosImASingerrrr · 09/01/2025 10:12

Wakeywake · 09/01/2025 10:10

That sounds really tough. I'd just get the flu jab privately, it's £15 well spent. But I'm quite impressed you're already better after pneumonia, it took me at least 6 weeks to get back on my feet, awful illness.

I'm not better from the pneumonia at all, I'm far from being out of the woods.

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MadameCholetsDirtySecret · 09/01/2025 10:11

If you can afford it, you can pay for the flu jab. I did at boots. I booked for a free jab as I have asthma, but the nhs conditions for the free jab changed and because I only have the blue inhaler I wasn't eligible. They let me pay though. (I think it was about £20).
I don't know about the pneumococcal vaccine though.

Wakeywake · 09/01/2025 10:10

That sounds really tough. I'd just get the flu jab privately, it's £15 well spent. But I'm quite impressed you're already better after pneumonia, it took me at least 6 weeks to get back on my feet, awful illness.

Barney16 · 09/01/2025 10:06

I hope you feel better soon OP. I have no medical advice really other than going back to GP and back again and again but just wanted to say that it all sounds absolutely awful and you should be extremely proud of yourself for soldering on.

CoastalCalm · 09/01/2025 10:06

Can’t you just get the flu jab at the chemist ?