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GP surgeries discriminating against kids

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Shwish · 09/01/2025 10:01

Is there anyone I can complain to about this? I think it's outrageous AIBU?
We just moved to a new area. Signed up with a GP who just told me that the system they work is - book online for routine appointments, call up at 8 for urgent - they only release a few a day, or submit an eConsult for GP to be triaged and they'll fit you in urgently if they feel it's necessary. Great! EXCEPT that doesn't apply to kids. For kids you call at 8 and if you're lucky you might get one of the golden "urgent" appointments. When I asked if that meant in practice that kids often didn't get seen when needed because of the lack of triage for them the receptionist admitted that was he case and if I was worried and thought they needed to be seen I should take them to the hospital. BUT ADULTS DONT HAVE TO DO THAT! They get triaged and seen if needed. Why? How is this right? I dont know if something is serious or not a lot of the time because I'm not medically trained. And kids can go downhill so bloody quickly
I tried another surgery and they have that same system.
It seems mental. And ageist frankly. Imagine if they said the same about any other group.
And frankly the age group that's going to be hardest to wait patiently for hours at the hospital is surely toddlers? Luckily my kids are ten so probably could handle waiting a bit better.

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Ponkeypink · 09/01/2025 14:27

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 09/01/2025 12:27

Because anyone with an actual sick kid goes down there when they open and sits in the waiting room til seen. Doctors always prioritise sick children, always, if they are sick. Plus no one will tolerate an 18th month old screaming with an ear infection for more than about 10 minutes space will be made. It's not that they don't prioritise children, they just know that parents with a real sick kid will bring them there as a priority, not grumble about how outraged they are over the phone.

Also kids shouldn't wait to be triaged at a GP surgery, they are right. If you are concerned enough to think you need immediate medical attention for a child and the GP can't deal immediately then you should take them to hospital instead, to be on the safe side.

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I hope you’re right. I agree with an 18 month old screaming, so they’d be seen but not so much a 12 year old in the same pain but won’t be as vocal. That’s the worry.

Flossflower · 09/01/2025 14:22

Most GPs will try and fit children in even if they have filled up all their emergency appointments.

TRACKOK · 09/01/2025 14:14

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 09/01/2025 13:55

It's time to charge people to see a doctor, say 100 quid for a face-to-face, 50 for an e appointment. Treatment thereafter would still be free. End of people not turning up.

And where do you suppose the people who can't afford to feed their children are going to get that money from?

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 09/01/2025 13:55

It's time to charge people to see a doctor, say 100 quid for a face-to-face, 50 for an e appointment. Treatment thereafter would still be free. End of people not turning up.

UncharteredWaters · 09/01/2025 13:50

SevenWeeks · 09/01/2025 12:31

The bottom line is, there aren't enough appointments and there's no 'priority system' that can create appointments from nothing.

This - a million times over!!!!

crackfoxy · 09/01/2025 13:50

That sounds odd and should be, if anything the other way around? I'd ask the Practice Manager for clarification.

Cece92 · 09/01/2025 13:46

Never heard of that before. Anytime I've phoned for my daughter it's been an instant appointment or the GP has called back very quickly and made a face to face for her. I suppose it is different in different areas xxx

MolluscMonday · 09/01/2025 13:43

You’ve misunderstood the intention. It’s precisely because kids go downhill so quickly (plus littler ones can’t communicate so there’s a greater reliance on F2F exam) that they’re kept out of the eConsult queue. They will always be found an in-person on the day if it’s urgent, and if not, a routine in-person in due course.

Snugglemonkey · 09/01/2025 13:31

We have the same system. In practice, if I ring about one of my children, they tell me when to come in.

DwarfPalmetto · 09/01/2025 13:28

My surgery uses econsult and triages everything, there is no other way to get an appointment. For people who can't use it for whatever reason, they phone and the receptionist fills in the form on their behalf.

bzarda · 09/01/2025 13:19

That's really odd. My surgery have an online portal and everytime I've filled one in for my toddler I've got a phone call within the hour and sometimes an on the day appointment too.

angelopal · 09/01/2025 13:17

Can they extend Econsult to children? Ours uses it and the first question is who are you filling it in for. I have filled it in for my DC and it has been reviewed and been given a same day appointment if it's required.

LadyQuackBeth · 09/01/2025 13:13

Is there a pharmacy attached to the GP surgery? It sounds a terrible system, but there might be a part you are missing. I think pharmacies have taken on a lot of the GPs routine kids treatment options in a lot of places.

My GP is pretty good, TBH, but their system for kids was often to present at the pharmacy (as they cover a lot of things like rashes, impetigo, eye infections etc) and if you needed to see a GP, they would call the GP and someone would see you pretty much straight away. This is what the receptionist would advise, she'd sometimes recommend kids A&E instead, only GP if it was the best fit.

However, my GP does have a lot of different things in the same building (travel clinic, nurse specialists, HVs, midwives, physiotherapy, as well as specialist pharmacists) so it was probably easier to manage.

Sdpbody · 09/01/2025 13:12

Our GP surgery is amazing!!

I called at 4:30pm after going to the pharmacy for a rash on my daughter. They said it was shingles and we called the PG straight away. They told us to come straight in to be seen.

Shwish · 09/01/2025 13:09

Nevergettheusername · 09/01/2025 13:04

Thank you for realising that about the oldies. I just don’t know how they are managing, I can’t fathom all the changes sometimes! And I’m so IT literate! It’s a massive social exclusion.

I agree it's shit for old people as well. In fact I'd imagine that for the most part the 8am appointments are probably taken by elderly callers who can't do the eConsult because they're not computer literate, but who would otherwise have been completely happy to have been triaged and given red, orange or green status.
Meaning that they are more likely (through no fault of their own) to be taking the emergency ones when they don't need an actual urgent, they just can't do an online booking, leaving even less access for kids. What a bloody mess.

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Nevergettheusername · 09/01/2025 13:04

Greybeardy · 09/01/2025 12:49

they're probably trying to avoid having loads of sick kids e-consult requests sitting in an inbox not being looked at if it's a busy morning precisely because kids get sick quickly. If you're worried that they need seeing that day and there's no appointment via their usual route then you probably do need to go to ED/minor injuries/whatever other service. They will be triaged there. It's not ideal, but nothing is anymore. At least kids tend to have internet literate parents.... feel much worse for the old folk who have next to no chance these days.

Thank you for realising that about the oldies. I just don’t know how they are managing, I can’t fathom all the changes sometimes! And I’m so IT literate! It’s a massive social exclusion.

NewYorkherewecome · 09/01/2025 13:01

My surgery doesn’t allow any online bookings at all. It’s the Hunger Games at 8.30 and usually 100+ calls before you get to speak to someone. Quite often there are no appointments left that day so you have to go through the same again the next day.
You cannot go down to the surgery, they will just send you away.
If you do manage to see a doctor and the doctor says come back in 7 days on the way out you would think that you would be able to make a follow up appointment but no. You have to go away and call again on the day the doctor wants to see you and then see if you can get an appointment.
The system is completely broken, and they keep adding to the problems by allowing more houses to be built so more patients and so it gets worse.

Superscientist · 09/01/2025 12:58

I would see how it works in practice first then complain. More than once I've been sat in a waiting room at 5.30 waiting for the GP to finish their scheduled clinic to fit in my daughter who dared to get poorly enough for a same day GP visit after 8.02 so missed out on a gp appointment in a call at 8 surgery.

Our surgery now run an econsult form open at 6 am and I would say it has been a vast improvement so I do get your annoyance that it's not available to kids. Even simple appts for UTIs in my daughter have been easier as the GP requests we collect a sample pot prior to the appointment so we can bring a sample with us from the comfort of our home rather than trying to persuade a 4 year old to wee on demand in a strange toilet and into a weird plastic cup!

Greybeardy · 09/01/2025 12:49

they're probably trying to avoid having loads of sick kids e-consult requests sitting in an inbox not being looked at if it's a busy morning precisely because kids get sick quickly. If you're worried that they need seeing that day and there's no appointment via their usual route then you probably do need to go to ED/minor injuries/whatever other service. They will be triaged there. It's not ideal, but nothing is anymore. At least kids tend to have internet literate parents.... feel much worse for the old folk who have next to no chance these days.

Thunderlegs · 09/01/2025 12:45

Assume urgent = needs seeing same day and go for that.

Shwish · 09/01/2025 12:45

SevenWeeks · 09/01/2025 12:31

The bottom line is, there aren't enough appointments and there's no 'priority system' that can create appointments from nothing.

But there should be a triage for kids if adults get that surely? Or otherwise only kids get allocated the 8am appointments. Adults HAVE to do an eConsult. But the 8am slots are for whoever gets through first and only adults can also use the triage system.

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Shwish · 09/01/2025 12:43

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 09/01/2025 12:27

Because anyone with an actual sick kid goes down there when they open and sits in the waiting room til seen. Doctors always prioritise sick children, always, if they are sick. Plus no one will tolerate an 18th month old screaming with an ear infection for more than about 10 minutes space will be made. It's not that they don't prioritise children, they just know that parents with a real sick kid will bring them there as a priority, not grumble about how outraged they are over the phone.

Also kids shouldn't wait to be triaged at a GP surgery, they are right. If you are concerned enough to think you need immediate medical attention for a child and the GP can't deal immediately then you should take them to hospital instead, to be on the safe side.

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Jesus. This is a ridiculous comment. How do you know if something needs seeing urgently or not WITHOUT triage? For example my son had what looked like a scrape on his back a while back. There's no WAY I'd have taken him to the hospital for it because it looked like a scrape. But my husband thought it seemed like it had been red for quite a while without healing (I didn't really notice if I'm honest) so because he was a little bit concerned we agreed I'd just do an eConsult to put our minds at rest. Ie GP sees photo, says nope that's fine, we don't waste anyone's time. Except it wasn't fine. It was infected with strep a, and the GP noticed it didn't look right straight away from the photo and called me to bring him in urgently for a swab and antibiotics.
WITHOUT the triage it would have got a lot worse than that before I'd have thought to take him in.
Sepsis COULD have been the end result.
And no, you don't just take sick kids to a surgery and sit there and wait to be seen. Doesn't work like that. They'd just tell you to take them to a walk in centre or call ambulance if it was an actual emergency.

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SevenWeeks · 09/01/2025 12:31

The bottom line is, there aren't enough appointments and there's no 'priority system' that can create appointments from nothing.

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 09/01/2025 12:27

Because anyone with an actual sick kid goes down there when they open and sits in the waiting room til seen. Doctors always prioritise sick children, always, if they are sick. Plus no one will tolerate an 18th month old screaming with an ear infection for more than about 10 minutes space will be made. It's not that they don't prioritise children, they just know that parents with a real sick kid will bring them there as a priority, not grumble about how outraged they are over the phone.

Also kids shouldn't wait to be triaged at a GP surgery, they are right. If you are concerned enough to think you need immediate medical attention for a child and the GP can't deal immediately then you should take them to hospital instead, to be on the safe side.

Grahamhousehushand · 09/01/2025 12:14

Shwish · 09/01/2025 12:06

Well I've only just joined so I dont know how it works in practice but it was explained as routine, urgent (only a few available and patients DECIDE it's urgent, no triage) or eConsult with triage so GP will decide from that whether red (seen on the day) orange - within 72 hours or green call back with a routine within 2 weeks. But THAT triage system isn't available for kids. They are only allowed the pre-book online - I guess for vaccines or asthma review etc or the few emergency ones that could well all be taken already, including by adults who ALSO have the triage available as well. Mental.

My guess is that in practice urgent appointments will be reserved for children. There's a fairly predictable number of kids with high temps, odd rashes etc needing to be seen urgently every day and those need to be f2f so if they hold back say 40 out of 100 f2f appts for children and book those separately then if they are not all used they can be released to adults later in the day. Meaning if anything the system disadvantages adults slightly. But children with worrying symptoms should get seen quickly.